Bandini Live Update Do or Die Day - Page 51

Originally posted by: ammoos

I just want to say to those who says Santu should have opened her mouth. I didnt want to say this in an open forum but just think I will.

I had had so many BAD experiences in my school or college days while travelling in our BUSES. Where it was so common to happen in a packed bus that we can expect the hand of a man standing next to you on any part of your body. Do you really realise what I might have felt, I guess you dont. Even saddest that even heinous had happened right in front of my college and thankfully I could react and beat the **** out of that man, but later me was still in a frozen state and all my class mates were asking me what happened I could hardly open my mouth to say something. And here SAntu went through even more than this and you expect her to EXPLAIN what happened😲

I have nothing more to say but GOOD BYE and have a nice time.

🤗

That is the most difficult part of India for me. And it's what makes me identify so strongly with Santu. I can't even imagine how it would feel to experience something like that in your own home and then have no one believe you. That's why I was so disturbed and made you do the update. 😆 I'm sorry I put you on the spot like that though.

Uma , what a bad experience for you😲 After any traumatic experience, a woman goes in to shock and can't talk because brain also stops communicating. That's a protection device for all of us. Santu felt the same with Rudr touching her all over🤢 and assaulting her dignity and all accusing eyes of her family on her. She could not speak, she was just overwhelmed, poor girl😭

And yes everybody needs to chillax a bit. 😲

Originally posted by: Mallika113

Uma , what a bad experience for you😲 After any traumatic experience, a woman goes in to shock and can't talk because brain also stops communicating. That's a protection device for all of us. Santu felt the same with Rudr touching her all over🤢 and assaulting her dignity and all accusing eyes of her family on her. She could not speak, she was just overwhelmed, poor girl😭

ARGH! 🤢🤢🤢

I felt like he was touching me when he was pulling at the saree. oh my GOD i never want to see anything like that on my screen ever again. 😕

Uma I understand your feelings and empathize with you. I had experienced few of those incident myself especially in trains and buses and yes I have hit at few of those 🤬 men myself. Sadly many women go through this even today and not enough is being done to handle the situation that leaves you shocked for while.

In my posts I maintained that Santu should talk to DM in private and not in immediate aftermath that is reason DM gave Santu the space to vent her emotions. She could then atleast talk to her husband and inform him what transpired between her and rudr few words would suffice as DM still believes Santu.

Lets look at this not from show's perspective but a real life situation - if I caught my husband in compromising situation (forced or self initiated) with another women inspite of my unwavering trust on him I want an explanation on what transpired cos I need that assurance. Likewise if my husband catches me in compromising situation (forced or self initiated) with another Man despite of his unwavering trust on me he would seek an explanation on what transpired to assure himself.

DM has complete faith on Santu he just needs this assurance and yes if DM does not plot against Rudr and restores Santu's dignity and honor then Bandini as a show is long gone even we as viewers would want to move on as essence of the show is lost.

Please stay and be here with us, I know the night is cold but we can get over it.

Thanks everyone🤗 I still feel what I had felt at that time

Uma.. 🤗 I can very well imagine and understand what you are talking about.I am not even going there to explain these psychos attitude.They are just 😡

We need to stop getting agitated by what he did and what he didnt.Because at the end of the day,it doesnt really matter.Its only when i am on the forum that i tend to think deeply about this show.So,it might not be a bad idea to stay away for a little while,not getting too involved,just come here,stay an hour or so,and thats it.

For our sanity.

Originally posted by: kichwamaji

Aal izzz well!!!😛

Peace!

Kich,you are awesome. 😉

Yes Rads might do as you said... but will have a hard time to make into effect but I belive I can do it...😃 thats better for me... ANd I dont want to ruin one of my happiest days today of my life by thinking about what DM should have done blah blah..

Originally posted by: ammoos

Thanks everyone🤗 I still feel what I had felt at that time

Well we need to chillax and the only way I see is to take a break from the discussions.. like he said we are doing over with a fictiona dn I dont want to lose my sleep anymore....

Butstill dont uderstand why he made that statement, if anyone can jump for jpy over a show then we have all the rights to be upset too.. anyways its his opinion and this is mine.. all have their own.. I might not want to fume myself over a show anymore..😔 We try to relax watching watching shows dont want depression.. **SIGH**