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bumtrinket

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Posted: 15 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: soap-critic
Thank you for the update Nikita. You got a very phika episode to update. However, I agree with what Uma posted that Birwa's outburst to Hiten today is justified.

Did Santu do the right thing by asking Hiten to do the kanyadaan after DM specifically told her that they would do it together? She is once again rejecting and over ruling his wishes to balance out Hiten's equation with Birwa and Monghi. 😕 I do hope we get to see her discussing/informing this change of plans to DM instead of making a public announcement at the time of the wedding.

While I agree that Birwa's made a very strong case for neglect, I have zero sympathy for her because she does know one person who put her needs first, beyond her father's and her siblings' and even beyond Monghi's and Khemi's. And that person is Santu.

Yes, Santu's decision to tell her to keep it all locked up inside herself can't have been good for her and probably only ended up isolating her even more, especially after DM took the fantastic (*sarcasm*) decision to lock himself away. The entire family failed Birwa and Suraj, but most of all DM and Hiten.

But when Santu came back and Birwa saw her fix the family once more, her answer is to turn her hate on Santu.

In a way this makes sense because real children usually treat their mothers like crap a number of times because they know their mothers will always love them and Birwa is taking Santu for granted just as if she were her real mother.

But that doesn't mean I have to like it or like Birwa any more than I like those real life children who dump their issues on their mothers.

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bumtrinket

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Posted: 15 years ago

#12

One more thing: DM said they would do "all rasams" together as a couple. Although Kanyadaan is the most important one, it's not the only one. And even with Hiten's wedding. DM was cool with Santu's suggestion that Moti and Kanji act as Hiten's parents. So i think while they'll definitely trade a few sparks, DM won't be all that shattered. Esp coz he knows how close Hiten and Monghi are to each other.

I think Birwa's going to be much more PO'd 😆 Santu just spiked her guns without even knowing what she was upto.

Dont mess with Mom. 😡

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Mallika113

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Posted: 15 years ago

#13

Thanks Niki for a great UD. Birwa's anger is justified towards her bro, but her ungratefulness to Santu is not . But have to feel for her though, bec she should have gotten counseling as a child. She didn't intentionally kill Arjun, she did it to save her papa. Therapy would have helped her to get the guilt off her and maybe she could have had a normal childhood. It's still not too late, she can be redeemed for the better.

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Shahara

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Posted: 15 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: bumtrinket
One more thing: DM said they would do "all rasams" together as a couple. Although Kanyadaan is the most important one, it's not the only one. And even with Hiten's wedding. DM was cool with Santu's suggestion that Moti and Kanji act as Hiten's parents. So i think while they'll definitely trade a few sparks, DM won't be all that shattered. Esp coz he knows how close Hiten and Monghi are to each other.

I think Birwa's going to be much more PO'd 😆 Santu just spiked her guns without even knowing what she was upto.

Dont mess with Mom. 😡

Your correct Bumi there are loads that Sanraj can do its not just the Kanyadan, Dm will be annoyed to begin with then when he gets his senses he knows santu is only doing whats right but Birwa will not understand, she will think its another thing against her. Another reason to strike

Edited by Shahara3 - 15 years ago

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soap-critic

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Posted: 15 years ago

#15

@ bumi

Actually I would really like to see a Birwa-Santu confrontation on all of what you have mentioned. Starting from the time of Arjan's stabbing upto the current events. Santu needs to understands Birwa's mental and emotional trauma (here I am referring to the 15 year old Birwa who was left abandoned in an emotionally fragile state).

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RamonaG

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Posted: 15 years ago

#16

either this santu asking hiral to do the kanya daan is prob to awaken the bandini ka maalik in DM... SANTU MIGHT TELL HIM SHE DOESNT WANT TO DO DIKHAWA ... & then he may decide to accept her as a wife... But yes in hiral wedding moti kanji did kanyadaan & DM DIDNT MIND so maybe they'll do some other rasam together but santu will prob only do it once he's bandini ka malik again,..

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ramsha_002

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Posted: 15 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: Mallika113
Thanks Niki for a great UD. Birwa's anger is justified towards her bro, but her ungratefulness to Santu is not . But have to feel for her though, bec she should have gotten counseling as a child. She didn't intentionally kill Arjun, she did it to save her papa. Therapy would have helped her to get the guilt off her and maybe she could have had a normal childhood. It's still not too late, she can be redeemed for the better.

yess mallika........bt wts d need 4 her to express her meaningless ego........n disrespect santu..........

its f9 if she doesnt want 2 tell any1....abt arjan's murder......bt y d hell is she commiting many more crimes noe.............. 😡

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Ayushi

@Ayushi_01

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Posted: 15 years ago

#18

What a waste of today's episode.......Thank god we have written updates and Thanks uma and nikita for doing it.......othewise i would have wasted my precious time on that ungrateful birwa...........I have no sympathy towards birwa........... Atleast she should have been good towards santu............agreed that she was forced to keep the secret for 10 years...........but this dumbell could have told her Dad, looking at his condition.............but no.....................she should have thanked santu for what she is now..........but no.............She shouldn't have plotted against Santu when Monghi's marriage was fixed..................

So ultimately there are so many "NO" that can be placed on her...............and this actor is poor in projecting emotions........so really cant tell how she feels.........but her biggest mistake was that she should have told DM............In a way its her fault that the house was divided...................had she not killed bacteria..............santu would not have to take the blame..............everything would have been fine.............so she is the root cause of all the problems........

Please fruitcakes.............take her out of the serial as none of us want here..........Now unless we have some Birwa fans here...........

Edited by Ayushi_01 - 15 years ago

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@--Magnificent--

Dazzler

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Posted: 15 years ago

#19

Thanks for the effort Nikita..... i dont how to say this but as Uma put it, felt a little sorry for Birwa...cud imagine a girl who was trying to cope with her emotions once her mother went to jail wid no one to guide her and see her pain and keeping all that bottled up inside ...and can u imagine the fear and guilt she must've felt ....but then she is too mean and shelfish and this makes us hate her .....

Santu asking Hiten to do the kanyadaan wud also spite Birwa ....as she is so jealous of Monghi ....if looks cud kill Monghi wud be dead by now , the way Birwa was looking at her in the precap.....
.wonder how DM wud react to the kanyadaan......

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Samanta

@iSakshi

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

#20

Thankx for the written update Nikki here is my POV

okay just saw the episode what a complete waste of first 3 segments... ughh Birwa just got my blood boiling to 190 degrees... I cannot stand that 🤬 she is emotionally blackmailing hiten with her soo called brother/sister relationship... Its beyond me why this 🤬 hates santu... Anyway... hiten acted childish towards monghi when she wanted to show him her jewelry's that was not called for... Cant they not see that birwa is just like moti.... very manipulatative and Slimy they hurt people and in the process they feel good about it...But tick tock BIRWA santu would surely come to know of ur Evil move sooner than u think... Nandini is such a sweetheart... Thank god she heard the convo... it spared all the chaos of the whole hiten/monghi relation .... Telling santu was the right thing she did... Santu acted very maturely about the situation and handled it just the way I thought... She is very smart and wise now... I always like the fact that she is a fair person.. She was right when she told hiten that birwa needs his attention and monghi needs his blessings... Hiten is slowly sliding to the right path where he belongs... The best part was to see how intellegent santu has become... She's taking care of business and accounts that was really nice.. After all she's maalkin and she needs to know about these things... Santu was good as always,

I would not say I fully agree with the whole Hiten/Toral doing Kanyadaan But like santu said this is the most he could do for her... As for SanRaj doing Rasms... its😕 IDK.. btw where is Dm when u need him??? rocking away probably😆 I know for a fact that he is going to lock horns with Santu when he comes to know about the whole...Kanyadaan thingi... But I love when their together be it fighting, laughing, or loving... 😆 as long there is Sanraj "All izz Well"😆

⭐️5/10 ONLY BECAUSE OF SANTU

Edited by DmLovesSantu - 15 years ago

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