Bandini: Daily Discussion, Comments & Critics Corner - Page 97

Is he feeling okay??

DM's brain is definitely not working, plus he is being quite emotionally selfish.

Does he not think, how can a woman who's:

Brought justice by bringing out the real culprit

Supports Hitten with his decision to punish her own sister for poisoning his wife,

Gives him advice on where he's gone wrong in his parenting skills

Tells him how to prevent another disaster another new conflict

Has not taken any money to spend on herself from his safe

Can see that she wears simple saris, no expenditure on jewelry etc

In fact she makes sure his money is accounted for and is safe

Could have easily run off with his money before being sent to jail but didn't

Could have asked for her rights decades ago but hasn't

Could have divorced him but hasn't

Still loves her little grand children like her own

Has brought him out of his cell & bringing unity to the house

How can she, murder anyone?

@clueless what you said are valid points and that's what we all have been hoping for one of the idiots and DM will understand.

I do believe that DM is just in a sulky mode and hitting out at Santu for being secretive and talking his ears off about her not loving him etc. Deep inside i think he does believe and trust her it looks like. Somehow the whole tale has gotten so garbled that each character is pulling in a totally mad direction.

we all can agree santu mahanata is annoying and her way of being so stubborn with the arjan killing is getting to a point of no return.

Santu claims to be acting "mean" and keeps repeating "maaf kar dijiye malik" just to wake DM up? What rubbish. Why cant she just sit him down and talk to him?

Originally posted by: fuzzyface

we all can agree santu mahanata is annoying and her way of being so stubborn with the arjan killing is getting to a point of no return.

i can't stomach her actions of protecting that pyscho ungrateful birwa!

I wish that DM wld break her down like he did with moti's raaz but sleepyface is busy rocking his chair!

I'm guessing that Santu doesn't want to tell them because she is fed up of the way they keep mistreating her. DM has always treated Santu as a 'bandini', which isn't very fond of anymore. Remember, when DM asked for forgiveness from Santu, she asked him to respect her status as his wife and give her all the rights due, but he had not done that and instead he aggressively interrogated her about Moti's secret and even punished Santu in the house separated form her, when it wasn't even her fault.

She has her human rights to remain silent about something if she is not comfortable about it, but did DM respect her rights? No. So it's falling back on him now and Santu is doing the same treatment to him as he's done to her. I agree that it's not the best way to go about things, but she's left with little choice, plus she has been abused by this family a lot who still do not understand or know her yet.

I would think it's better if Santu leaves this family to solve their own problems and gets married to someone more worthy, like Sheshan who always cared about her.

Originally posted by: chalia

Santu claims to be acting "mean" and keeps repeating "maaf kar dijiye malik" just to wake DM up? What rubbish. Why cant she just sit him down and talk to him?

She made him cry today. Santu you are not doing the right thing here. There is something called

- respect for age

- respect for status (relationship)

- respect for the chair (position)

There is no call for this kind of behaviour and meanness towards DM. Yes, he made a mistake. But Santu, you made the biggest one ten years ago and are now continuing to make a spate of mistakes.

I do not like Santu's "attitude".

As for respect of his age, relationship, his chair etc. Santu should also be respected just as much by DM as she has also been part of that chair, relationship and is of older age, plus being DM's wife she has equal rights to him, but she wasn't treated fairly by him or others. She was mistreated, called names, be-littled, humilated and kicked out of the house many times. then she was refused shelter in her own home, when she returned from serving 10 years in jail for the accusation of defending her husband and saving his life, the murder of his son which she never commited. No one knows Santu or cares about her, that is what Santu has seen all her life from this family.

Originally posted by: cluelass

As for respect of his age, relationship, his chair etc. Santu should also be respected just as much by DM as she has also been part of that chair, relationship and is of older age, plus being DM's wife she has equal rights to him, but she wasn't treated fairly by him or others. She was mistreated, called names, be-littled, humilated and kicked out of the house many times. then she was refused shelter in her own home, when she returned from serving 10 years in jail for the accusation of defending her husband and saving his life, the murder of his son which she never commited. No one knows Santu or cares about her, that is what Santu has seen all her life from this family.

THank u👏👏👏 100 times be👏cuz santu 👏did the right thing all along .... but dm and his creatures have all bin just UNGRATEFULL... but u know what pppl here including the forums dont seems to see that... but whatever... I support santu and I relate to her in 1000 kind of ways... I wudve done the same she is doing maybe more😡 dm shud stop actin like a child... and man up... y is he cryin now??? she has bin cryin since the day they got marrie.d... but NO ppl only see when dm cries... and say;s awww santu made him cry oh Puhlease... what abt santu and all the sorrow he has given her....😡

Originally posted by: cluelass

As for respect of his age, relationship, his chair etc. Santu should also be respected just as much by DM as she has also been part of that chair, relationship and is of older age, plus being DM's wife she has equal rights to him, but she wasn't treated fairly by him or others. She was mistreated, called names, be-littled, humilated and kicked out of the house many times. then she was refused shelter in her own home, when she returned from serving 10 years in jail for the accusation of defending her husband and saving his life, the murder of his son which she never commited. No one knows Santu or cares about her, that is what Santu has seen all her life from this family.

i also agree with u chalia... Now dat she told him abt his ungratefull kids... I think she shud just drop the hatred act against him and make him love her... regardless.... dm shud do the same to her tooo... accept her and the two of them shud work together to fix those problems in their lives