Anandi is no one for Nimboli

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Posted: 10 years ago
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After watching precap i hope anandi would have come to know what is her place in nimboli life.
Mangala is very important to her. The girl is saying Jhalara is better than Badi haveli. So all goodness of Anandi went in drain. No use.

Nimboli simply ignore Anandi . as if she is not there only. So we were thinking anandi has get some place in nimboli life was completely wrong.

Anandi goodness did not win over nimboli. Anandi is third party for nimboli. Now Anandi is on mercy of mangala. Nimboli so easily forgot that two days before she told chokhi chudail that consider me as your nandini. Today nimboli knows only one relation Mangala and she is ready to stay in Jhalara again.

Nimboli ko akheraj and kundan ki laath khana pasand hai lekin anandi ke saath rehekar better life jina pasand nahi.

Now madam anandi whats the point in waiting - go and tell that I m your mother. U will not loose anything because u dont have anything to loose, nimboli dont have any special place for u in her life. but if u will tell her atleast that will help u to some extent.

I hope this Uddan and BV milan will put some senses in Nimboli. and i wish nimboli will run without mangala. that will put some senses in both the mothers.

Well dadisa ki tubelight toh jal gayi hai





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Posted: 10 years ago
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Anandi has place in nandini's life. She is a role model for her. Because of anandi's influences she got hope that may be her mother is good. She wants her mother to be like anandi.

But right now she is heart broken child who was manipulated by that person whom she believes too much. She believes that mangla will never break her trust.
Right now she is angry with her mother who throw her in garbage bin. She is angry on her self. She is fighting with so many emotions. When dadisa said few strict words. She could not able to suppress it. And burst it on a wrong way.
She is a child. We can't expect so much from her.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nandini's outburst is understood. She was completely broken, and that is why she wants to move back to the only place she knows as home. Even if these people are cruel, they gave her an identity, which Anandi has failed to give..
She has nothing against CC or the life CC gave her, but she always knew that this life was temporary.

Had Anandi stood up earlier to confess that she is nandini's mother and given this girl , N would have known where she belongs and why she is being treated as a princess for all this long by her CC.

Anandi is still missing out the point.

The girl's identity is more important than Anandi's fear of rejection.



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Posted: 10 years ago
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I just want to say giving luxury life did not help . So now anandi should tell nimboli truth that i m your mother as dadisa said. She should come out of fear of rejection because now she dont have any thing to loose.
she should understand nandini is not staying in badi haveli because she has attached to anandi or dadisa or she is loving this lavish life but she is staying there because managala has told her , If mangala will tell her to go she will go. she will not wait for anandi. because for her anandi is chokhi chudail.

so now anandi should take bold step. she should have atttitude jo hoga dekha jayega.




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Posted: 10 years ago
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Anandi brought back her daughter along with her.
She was in no position to tell that child that she is her mother because she hates her mother and doesn't want anything to do with her mother.

If the child doesn't want to meet her mother no one can force her. Anandi cannot force the child to meet her and listen to what she has got to say because the child has suffered too much and been through a lot and holds her mother responsible for her sufferings.So negativity in that child's mild is because of the garbage bin story as well as sufferings.

So the only thing is slowly prepare the child to make her want to listen to what her mother got to say.

Slowly the child because of seeing Anandi and Shivam as well as what that girl Chakor told about mothers her anger came down a lot and she wanted to meet her mother. But unfortunately the mother did not know that her child is ready to meet her because Mangala made sure that Anandi never got to know about Nandini wanting to meet her mother.

So Mangala brought this new mother and made sure that the child went back to being angry with her mother.

Even Amol did not want to meet his parents when they came searching for him.Because he too was told that he is left in orphanage because of his physical disability.
Anandi did convince him but the parents realised that he was not ready to accept them so they went away.Amol later on went to his parents place and then after getting to know them well enough he went back to them on his own

That's how it should have been in Nandini's case too the foster mother or self proclaimed mother should have told that her mother had come to meet her and then let the child decide.
Here the child's mind has been spoilt by the so called mother of the child who can only keep the child with her by feeding the anger the child has against her own mother.

When the child is heart broken like she is now it is quite understandable that she is behaving in this manner.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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But now the situation has changed. that time anandi was helpless but now if she will tell nimboli she will not loose anything.
as dadisa said if anandi will not speak up she will remain chokhi chudail only.

yes its cv fault , they have made anandi bit dumb. Now dadisa mind has started working.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes one thing is sure even if anandi will come to know about mangala reality she cant do anything.
Because its not her nature proving mangala villain in front of nimboli.

so i think someone else will do that honour. someone else will bring mangala true face in front of nimboli.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Anandi was not helpless even before. She could have told Nimboli that she is her mother - at most Nimboli would have rejected her, refused to go with her, but at least she would have known her identity. Even if she remained with M - Anandi and J could have kept her safe and as and when the girl was ready - she could have brought to Jaitsar. The hiding and lies of Anandi has no justification and that is why no sympathy with her even with a negative M to contrast with...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think CV's isn't in mood to reveal truth. May be even if anandi come to know about mangla's manipulation, she want do anything for proving mangla wrong. Only than may be mangla will realise her mistake and wait for nimboli's decision.
Or may be soon akhiraj will escape from jail and will target nimboli for hurting mangla and anandi. Than may be he will reveal truth about nimboli's real mother.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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It is the duty of the child's so called mother figure to facilitate the interaction just like Anandi did in Amol and his parents' case.
If Mangala didn't call herself the mother of the child much less would have been expected of her.
She is claiming motherhood so she should fulfil the responsibilities too.

The child has a right to know about her birth parents and it becomes her duty to facilitate the dialogue between them and leave the rest to the child.

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