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Posted: 9 years ago
#51
People keep ranting that anandi's daughter was snatched from her...
Those who haven't watched the show will think anandi probably had gone to some children's park with her baby, akhiraj came there and snatched her baby.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: fast trak

If Anandi had taken her child to an unsafe place what is Mangala Devi doing? Which safe place is she taking her to? Sleeping on truck with haystack is a safe place I didn't know. That child hit her head on the bar poor thing. After that running here and there. Teaching her if you are hungry then you should go to temple and wait for someone offering something to eat. Very safe and excellent upbringing by Mangala Devi.

Only thing I gather from posts here is she saved the girl's life. So after saving this is all what she has done. Can anyone list the good things that she has done for Nimboli other than cursing Anandi as a bad mother. How do we even know about Anandi's mothering Nandini to comment on that. She was snatched from Akhiraj when she was barely 3 months. But we have seen Mangala Devi and her mothering techniques for 12 years.

Compared to Akhiraj Harki she was better because she didn't physically hit the child. But rest whatever the girl has gone through Mangala Devi is equally responsible because she has never stopped her from going through those difficulties. Is that what a mother does?

And now filling her head with rubbish about her mother. It's a very good job. I hope once nandini meets her mother she never meets ever with this lady. Enough of her evil influence now the child deserves much better. All of that which she has missed so far in her life.


Since when are you watching the show? After the molestation episode ? Or later?
are you sure what you are writing is right ?
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Posted: 9 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: Shinya

None of the places Mangala took her, so far, are dangerous. However, taken for granted, they are dangerous there is a difference between anandi's and mangala's attitude.

While anandi's focus was only on stopping the child marriage, mangala's focus is her nimboli... she cant think of anything besides the girl.

For anandi, her daughter became the second priority before her maqsad. But for mangala, nimboli is her maqsad.

So, for those who think mangala is the worst, the bad news is that mangala is just equal to anandi.

To start listing th places she took her to. To begin with that house with Akhiraj and his son was the most dangerous. Mangala herself has had experience with Akhiraj then how can she trust him with the little girl? Mangala thought about the girl but not as a mother. A mother does everything for a child. Do you think Mangala did everything just as any other mother does for a child?

Nimboli is her maqsad yes. Not like a daughter but she needs Nimboli for satisfying her own needs.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya


Since when are you watching the show? After the molestation episode ? Or later?
are you sure what you are writing is right ?


That molestation would've been actually a rape if Nimboli wasn't smart enough to escape from there. It wasn't even Mangala who saved her. It was the girl herself thanks to Anandi and her prayers. Mangala was sitting inside the house looking through the window waiting for her. Kamli bothered to go and look for her at least. Is that what a mother will do?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: fast trak


That molestation would've been actually a rape if Nimboli wasn't smart enough to escape from there. It wasn't even Mangala who saved her. It was the girl herself thanks to Anandi and her prayers. Mangala was sitting inside the house looking through the window waiting for her. Kamli bothered to go and look for her at least. Is that what a mother will do?

Exactly who saved Nandini from Kundan?Nandini herself. Neither Mangala's pen knife nor Mangala could save her.
When Harki tied up the girl in the forest and when Nandini was missing at the time molesation happened Mangala never even stepped out of the house to see what happened to the girl

When Harki tied her up to the tree if Mangala really had motherly concern for that girl she would have gone despite what Akheraj had said.

How many times Akheraj beat up that girl so abdly and how many times had she been able to save that child?

Akheraj house itself is full of dangers despite that she let the girl live there for 11 years.This is after claiming to love the child like she is her own.

Does having a child mean singing lullabies when the little girl got free time from her slavery and putting oil on her hair?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: fast trak


That molestation would've been actually a rape if Nimboli wasn't smart enough to escape from there. It wasn't even Mangala who saved her. It was the girl herself thanks to Anandi and her prayers. Mangala was sitting inside the house looking through the window waiting for her. Kamli bothered to go and look for her at least. Is that what a mother will do?


My question was since when did you start watching balika vadhu?
Sorry, I had to ask you because you wrote - Compared to Akhiraj Harki she was better because she didn't physically hit the child.

and in another post you wrote - To start listing th places she took her to. To begin with that house with Akhiraj and his son was the most dangerous. Mangala herself has had experience with Akhiraj then how can she trust him with the little girl?

Well Mangala did not kidnap her... anyways, there is no meaning debating with someone who does not know the story.
Edited by Shinya - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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My point is simple.. anandi's daughter lived a miserable life, including the molestation, because of anandi herself.
Had she respected he daughter's safety and security, she would have been growing along with Shivam.

Why blame mangala for anandi's mistakes... she was in no way responsible for her daughter... she did to her what she was capable of.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya

None of the places Mangala took her, so far, are dangerous. However, taken for granted, they are dangerous there is a difference between anandi's and mangala's attitude.

While anandi's focus was only on stopping the child marriage, mangala's focus is her nimboli... she cant think of anything besides the girl.

For anandi, her daughter became the second priority before her maqsad. But for mangala, nimboli is her maqsad.

So, for those who think mangala is the worst, the bad news is that mangala is just equal to anandi.



But most laughable thing is she does not think about the girl. What she needs, why she is getting hurt.

Yes her only focus is N, I have to keep her with me by any means even if that make her a maid, mistress, beggar
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Posted: 9 years ago
#59
I'm pretty certain it is Mangala's imagination. Something about the way Anandi ran into the place seemed unreal.

Mangala may have taken Nimboli for the dance and imagined the scene while watching N.

Because just before that she had asked N what she'd do if her mother came to get her.
Edited by rohini55 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#60
Anandi's mistakes are Anandi's and Mangala's mistakes are Mangala's.
Nobody is blaming Mangala for Anandi's mistake.

Nandini landed at that place because of Anandi's mistake.

But what happened to her after that is all because of Mangala's mistakes and her selfishness to cling on to that child come what ever may.

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