Parents are someone who have responsibilities towards children it is not just rights.
Anandi's child was lost when she was out on a dangerous mission. She did not give up her child to anyone to look after.
She had been searching for the child all these years.This should be be believes because it was told through a few scenes as well as conversations.
If people can believe that Mangala changed the diapers of Nandini even when no such scenes has been shown the fact that Anandi has been searching for her child should be believed too.
If she wants to claim rights she should take up responsibility too. What responsibility did she take all these years?
Now she knows that Anandi is the mother of the child and is wilfully coming in between mother and child
Anandi's stand has been clear - she appreciates Mangala's role in her daughter's life but that doesn't mean she should share her daughter with her.
Mangala is no mother to that child and neither does her so called love seems motherly. It is absolutely sickening to watch her.
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Anandi's stand had been same. She was upset when Mangala ran away with the child and knows that the lady loves her daughter very much. She was right in getting angry with that woman when she said to her that she cannot meet her daughter and staked ownership over her daughter.
Even in this episode - the stand had been same - Just that it is expressed in a more vocal manner.
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Meenu Ira Shiv - Meenu gifted her kid to Ira. But when the truth came out Shiv had been a mature man and he had been his own man with an identity that is made by himself.It didnt matter to him who is choti maa and who is badi maa or who is maa and who is chotimaa same thing with the fathers as well. They are just two sets of parents.
Mannu - He was very young and the truth came out in a manner which shouldn't have come out. Understandably a lot of damage has been done in his journey to find himself. Ratan gave up his rights in the interest of his own child. Jagya did feel insecure but he wanted Ganga to tell the truth to Mannu. Insecurity would not have stopped Jagya.
Here Anandi has not abanndoned her daughter nor did she give her way.Sow why should she share with anyone? Why is obliged to share her daughter with Mangala that too when the grounds on which Mangala is claiming her flimsy?
Amol - He was legally adopted. When the parents came looking for him Orphanage did the necessary verifications and then only informed Anandi. The child's parents were searching for that child.She told Amol he should give them a chance. It is the parents of Amol who did not want him at that time but he eventually went to them out of his own volition Anandi did not stop him.
If Anandi respected the rights of the parents of that child who has been searching for their child for so many years she has every right to expect Mangala to respect her rights over the child.
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Mangala feeling insecure in understandable but her behaviour is unacceptable.
Her claims as mother have a hollow ring to it.
Edited by aparnauma - 9 years ago
