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Posted: 10 years ago
#41
Nandini was not separated because of her mother's so-called stupidity.

She was separated because her mother was selfish. She wanted to help a stranger at the cost of her own daughter's life and be mahaan herself.

She wanted to set an example before others, see how I sacrificed my own daughter to support my mission and put an end to child marriage.

This is not called stupidity, this is called selfishness.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#42
It was shown before leap soon after Akheraj kidnapped Nandini Harki trying to convince Akhi to get the baby married to Kundan to remove dosh like Devi ma suggested.
Akheraj did not want the marriage because he did not the caste of the baby and the second factor she was just a few months old baby.
But Harki said they will do the marriage because they didn't have time to search for another bride.

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It was before leap mentioned taht the marriage was done because of Devi only thing which was not clear before leap was whether it came from Devi ma or somewhere else about this dosh.

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When Mangala was telling in the flashback Akheraj in his angry rants told that the child baby of the lady who came with police and stopped the wedding and took the bride away and he was so angry with the lady that's why he kidnapped her.

So Mangala knew that the baby's mother tried to stop bal vivah and they all know that bal vivah was a crime at that time and that's the reason why they are doing that bal vivah under the protection of gun men.

Harki was trying to prevent Akheraj from harming the baby and Mangala in her Devi avtar told him to get the baby married to Kundan to remove dosh.

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Mangala did not tell Nandini about her kidnap because she wanted to protect the family and if she tells that her mother was trying to stop child marriage what answer will she give Nandini?
So it is easier to let the lie pass itself as truth than facing the consequences of telling the truth.

The fact that Anandi works against child marriage is what prevents her from letting the child meet Anandi.

She knows that making her believe that her bal vivah is valid is the only way to keep the child in that house.

Her intentions have never been selfless. they were motivated by her own needs just like Akheraj Harki and Kundan's actions are motivated by their own needs and compulsions.

Akheraj Kundan Harki don't pretend to possess ideals



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Posted: 10 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: anshurg5


Yes, Nandini was unlucky that her mother could not consider the interest of her daughter as she considered the interest of other child.
Not only this she is also unlucky that her mother main aim is now preventing bal vivah instead of searching her daughter.

I am sure if Nandini was daughter of Sarita , Anandi must have considered about the risk involved in taking her along with her.

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If Mangla is a road block in reuniting with her daughter then only Anandi is responsible for this road block.

It is for her that Nandini landed with a selfish , grey woman like Mangla.


very well said...👏
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Posted: 10 years ago
#44
Too bad Anandi is not motivated by self interests like Mangala is .
If only Anandi thought that her daughter would be in danger if she helps this lady her daughter would have been happy with her growing up like a princess that she is and not ended up as a maid in some ruthless man's house.

Mangala is a clever lady guided by her own interests and make sure what doesn't actually belong to her stays with her for ever and she doesn't leave any stone unturned.


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Going by the precap Nandini is going to school. There is a high probablility of her learning that she is a BV and Bal Vivah is apradh wonder what answer she will give to the child for whose marriage she was solely responsibile.

She overlooked other ways to protect that girl who awakened her maternal instincts and ended up getting her married.

What will she do if the child tells the teacher she is a BV?

Will she keep the child away from school?

How will she stop Akheraj who is all out to prove what a progressive thinking man he is and hence insists on sending the girl to school?
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Posted: 10 years ago
#45
If only anandi thought her daughter would be in danger ?? 😲
Her daughter was ill for which she had taken her to the doctor... secondly was going to protest against a child-marriage similar to going to the park according to anandi, that she thought it was okay to go with her few-months old infant?

Even an illiterate mother would never do that.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#46
just 2 days ago, people called Mangala a 'coward', but today she became a 'clever' lady. 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
#47
how come nandini going on saying my mother throw me at Dustbin who told nandini that her mother thrown her into dustbin .or nandini blaming mother all by herself am sure mangala cannot herself tell nandini that her mother left nandini in dustbin .knowing mangala character mangala cannot put such disgusting and false blame on nandini real mother
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Posted: 10 years ago
#48
Who ever said that Anandi was right in doing what she did when trying to stop child marriage?
It's been said from begining that Anandi lost her child because of her own fault including Anandi said that. She said that her in laws were right in blaming her,

The way people go on and on about Anandi losing her child one would think that she was so busy partying that she didn't pay attention to her child or dumped the child on somebody's head while she went about her life.

Till to date thousands of posts made on this .Every post which talks about Anandi will be only about this.

While Anandi can be criticised endlessly nobody even should mention Mangala.

I doubt if people would have noticed this Mangala's goodness if the child had not been Anandi's child not to mention hoping to see Nandini reject Anandi and chose Mangala over her because Anandi deserved it.😛
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Posted: 10 years ago
#49
if Anandi has it in her to find Nandini, she will. At that point if Mangala cunningly keeps mother daughter away from each other, it will make sense to call her selfish.
Otherwise mangala knows that there is no one for Nandini ( because no one has come in 11 years to look fo her). And that's why if she consoles N saying she is her mother-father etc it is not wrong. It was to cheer up the girl who is otherwise taunted by Harki.

It's not like Mangala deliberately knows where Nimboli's mother is but yet hiding from her.

Otherwise what are people expecting M to do? Go door to door and ask people if they had lost their daughter 11yrs ago or not? May be the intelligent Ajee can do that if she really wants her daughter back.

And why should Mangala hand over Nimboli to a mere social worker out of the blue?

Ajee is not even making efforts to find Nandini, but that's not even a problem, but Mangala failing to do enough is such a big problem. So much that people think if N was left in garbage bin it would have been better.

If Nimboli really wanted to run away she could have when Harki tied up to the tree. But she chose to go back. Even then our super intelligent social worker failed to look into the obvious with a girl who waz left alone in a dark night. And people think N is unlucky bse she lives with M?

Edited by Missesha - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#50
in that episode akhiraj only say he will kill that woman daughter but he does not disclose he has kidnapp nandini he does not disclose how he got anandi daughter

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