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dolly

@tiny15

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+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#21

i don't think ganga wud'd prob wid J's helping nature. she knows it & has accepted it.its not that DS thinks ganag cudn't keep surprise from J. why shud she think like this??

and J as MLA may b felicitated by many times but they must'd called him alongwid his wife & he must'd told he r abt it.its her wish if she wanted 2 go there or not.

bcoz i'd never seen MLAs wen got felicitation & their wives doesn't even know abt it.they know abt it as its acourtsey call 2 invite their families esply wife.

as a wife felicitation whether small or big ,by family or sum oder ppl she need s 2 know abt it & invited also.

if J alone was felicitated and DS still'dn't told abt it 2 ganga ppl wud'd still prob wid it. bcoz shes keeping her out of it.it luks liek u din't read the posts clearly.

no1 is objecting 2 felicitation of J & A 2gether. its not an issue abt j & A felicitated 2gether. its abt ganga's rite 2 know abt it\, attend it or not& her alienation by DS.

and not all ckts were behaving like earlier. its not earlier its suiting 2 ganga & now not.and ganga din't hav nor now hav nay prob wid J helping oders. where'd it shown that shes stopping J 2 go anywhere wid A if its needed?? if its said then same thing cud b said abt A that shes also staying at BH bcoz it suits her oderwise why any1 will stay at ehr Ex's home where hes living wid his family??it means the situtn must b suiting her also so now not syaing anything and still staying for long 11 yrs under same roof

yes DS is not dutiful GMIL. if she has been she wud'dn't forced A 2 stay at BH and now also she shudn't'd alienated ganga like shes doing. its clear shes only dutiful GMIL wen A is not much around. and if shes dutiful GMIL then ganga is much more dutiful DIL 4her from the time she mrd J.

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jdfan

@jdfan

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#22

And if DS would not have been a dutiful grand mom in law , Mrs Ganga Singh would not have become Dr Ganga Singh with two young kids at toes.

and if i remember correctly the serial facts Dr Jagdish Singh married Ganga on his choice not Dadisaa thats how Ganga became Mrs Ganga Jagdish Singh and also it was Dr Jagdish Singh who inspired her to become a Dr not Dadisaa It was Dr jagdish singh convinced Dadisaa to let her be a doctor and i dont see anyone of Ganga's kids approach Dadisaa for everything so its clear parents have managed it when she was studying Ganga the dutiful bahu have not burdened Dadisaa for it

Dr Jagdish Singh is same like before Don't blame him anywhere It is Ganga's fault entirely to misunderstand him

Anandi is same like before not changed neither she will learn where to draw a line and in which matters to speak which really needs her advice

DS has changed a bit Initially before leap whatever she has always involved Ganga in everything even when she was not her bahu

Ganga has changed the way she is misunderstanding her husband She is wrong in it

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RainbowKitty

@RainbowKitty

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Posted: 10 years ago

#23

Is this Dadisaa said she thought Ganga could not keep surprise from Jagya ? Is it shown anywhere ? No

O ''perhaps ''is used so its assumption made then i would like to remind some people even then they cannot justify Dadisaa because Dadisaa along with Ganga have surprised jagya in past too His surprise birthday party so how Ganga held surprise from Jagya there if Dadisaa thought she cannot hold now ? How Dadisaa along with Ganga have planned entire Gehna Niranjan love story How to send them on various places ?How Ganga held surprise there ?

so there cannot be any defense for Dadisaa

I really don't understand why one simple point is molded to various sides to defend Dadisaa it is not important Jagya takes Ganga everywhere in whichever ceremony is arranged for his honor neither she needs to be informed by those people who arrange that every time Even his colleagues can arrange some for him and he himself attends how many ceremonies as chief guest It is not important he should take Ganga everywhere with him so that is not an issue for Ganga

But the only issue here is in this felicitation ceremony In plan , in the arrangement , in surprise The elder of the family , Ganga's grand mother in law is involved and she does not even tell Ganga about it ? She wanted to surprise Anandi and Jagya or Ganga too ? This surprise was only for Anandi and Jagya not for Ganga so she should have told Ganga about it It would have made jagya , Ganga and Anandi all three happy Ganga's presence in it would not have cost Dadisaa some damage but here Ganga is not informed at all by Dadisaa .Won't she feel left out that Dadisaa have arranged something for her husband along with villagers but did not even tell her ? Who won't feel like this ? Any human at least will feel like this if people consider Ganga a human

and please it was not because of great dutiful grandmom Dadisaa Mrs ganga jagdish singh became Dr Mrs Ganga Jagdish singh with two kids at toes It is because of Ganga's great husband who inspired her to become a doctor , convinced Dadisaa too , have been strong pillar of support for his wife , have taken care of all her and kids needs This husband have been singing lullabys and feeding his children before too their dinners when Ganga got late from work and he came and he has managed even now and Ganga has taken care of her kids Its so clear she does everything for them and kids approach her for everything be it homework . snacks or icecream not Dadisaa and Anandi They approach their Bapusaa too These parents have taken care of their kids not put burden on Dadisaa So Mrs Ganga Jagdish Singh became Dr Mrs Ganga Jagdish because of her husband not great grandmon Kalyani devi

She would not be Dr Mrs Ganga Jagdish Singh if she would not have great husband like Dr jagdish singh Behind this successful woman there is this man , her husband so don't know how credits are given to Dadisaa misleading serial facts ?

Its unfortunate Ganga blamed such nice husband She is complete wrong to blame him She was unfair , rude , cruel with her words to him She is doing injustice with him with her misunderstandings to him but she is not wrong if she minds Dadisaa's these kinds of acts what she did yesterday Its about Anandi Its about Ganga's husband getting felicitated Dadisaa knows about this and did not even tell Ganga about this happy occasion

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ButterflyOnRose

@ButterflyOnRose

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

#24

Well well what i am constantly reading here credits are sometimes given to Anandi that Ganga became Dr Mrs Ganga Jagdish with her two kids at toes because of Anandi's great help

Now credit is given to great dutiful grandmom Dadisaa Ganga would not have become Dr Mrs Ganga Jagdish Singh with two kids at toes had great dutiful grandmom Dadisaa not there

My question to all these people who are giving credits to these both women Has it been shown in serial or even told even between lines anywhere ? Not at all so why giving wrong credits to these both women ?

Ganga became Dr Mrs Ganga Jagdish Singh BECAUSE OF HER HUSBAND with two kids at toes not because of Anandi and Dadisaa

It is Ganga's husband who inspired her to be a doctor

It is Gangas husband who convinced Dadisaa and family for it

It is Ganga's husband who did arrangements for her to get medical seat

It Ganga's husband who took care of her all needs and children's needs

Ganga and Jagya were working couple even before and Jagya had plenty of times been seen with his children feeding them their dinner , had ganga been late from hospital He fed them their dinner, put them to sleep or sometimes Gehna would do that when jagya would be busy too Dadisaa i have never seen even then did anything ?

and here after leap what we are seeing tells all story It is Jagya and Ganga who took care of their kids MOSTLY in all those years when Ganga was studying None among both kids directly approach Anandi maasi or Badi Daadi for anything unlike shivam who approaches Jagya for ice cream ignoring mother Ganga's kids directly approach their parents

We are mostly seeing Ganga makes them do their homework not Dadisaa or Anandi

We are seeing Mannu says Bapusaa is excellent at maths Never seen he says Anandi maasi or Dadisaa is very good at something learn from them So clear jagya teaches his children

We are seeing Abhi approaches mother for everything and have a great bonding with her Approaches her for icecream I want ice cream maa not dadisaa or Anandi

Mannu says maa lets go to shopping i want to buy something Jagya gives him money now you are grown up you don't need to dependent on us for everything you want to get Go on get it yourself

We are seeing Ganga Jagya arranges everything for them and the kids approach them for everything They respect Anandi They respect Dadisaa She is their badi daadi but these children have never been away from their parents Parents have taken care of their every need thats why children approach them for everything They are taking care of their needs just like now they did it even then

so why giving all credits to Dadisaa and Anandi Ganga could become Dr Mrs Ganga Jagdish Singh because of great help of these two women otherwise she won't have become ?

Twisting serial facts you cannot give all credits Anandi and dadisaa They did nothing great here that Ganga could become Dr Mrs Ganga Jagdish because of them There is only ONLY ONE PERSON who deserves credit for it THATS GANGA'S HUSBAND She would not be Dr Mrs Ganga Jagdish Singh today without his support Anandi and Dadisaa did nothing great here

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Awfulggt

@Awfulggt

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: Sunna_Deewani

No normal woman took take this easily. Just because Ganga was a refugee earlier, she need not forever be only dutiful bahu/Wife without expectations. Its about rights and alienation here. DS by not informing Ganga alienated her. DS is a very experienced woman, not an inexperienced one to have bachpana as an excuse, specially when she can see Ganga not being happy these days. DS excluded ganga from a happy occasion where husband is getting felicitated and she is not even informed about it.

For heaven's sake, this is just a felicitation ceremony and not J,A 's wedding ceremony. DS didn't take them secretly and marry them off like she did with jagya earlier.

Here in my above post I wasn't saying that ganga should accept it cause she was a refugee ( I generally use the refugee term when I see her expectations going too high on her husband... higher than what even regular women unlike her expect.) I was saying that compared to what All what ds did to her other daughters in law till date, and how lucky Ganga had been till date in that aspect, this can be excused for the mistake which means I do not think ds is right here. At the same time she can be excused considering the entire situation.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#26

Dadisa has erred on many fronts

First of all by equating the work done by Anandi with that of Jagya's work in the field of social work and social activism.

Anandi had been working towards eradication of child marriages and working for welfare of girls and abandoned BVs since the time she herself was a child . She has been a social activist from the time she was just a child.

People keep saying that Bhairon stood by Anandi - He didn't do that because she was his DIL but he did to support a good cause which was being done by Anandi.

It was she who took the initiative to work against child marriage. She would have done it even without the support of Bhairon Singh She would have found it difficult but would have done it any ways just like how Nandini is doing things even without anyone's support irrespective of the fact that she is successful or not.

During Gulli's child marriage with HS's son Anandi was a barely literate teenager and Dsa was staunchly against her but she still did stop that marriage and landed in Jail too.

She risked her life during Jyothi's wedding the worst thing that happend to her she lost her own baby while trying to save another child from child marriage.

This is the degree of commitment from Anandi towards eradication of child marriage

Jagya was only a little bit older than Anandi but did he ever show that zeal to eradicate child marriages before he became an MLA?

He infact embraced his child marriage with Gudiya to prove that his marriage with Gauri is right thing to do at the same time he was denouncing his child marriage with Anandi. When Anandi rescued Gulli from child marriage and the news came in paper he didn't have one word of appreciation for her infact he was sarcastic.

He had to be gifted with a career in electoral politics to take an active interest in waorking against child marriages

How could Dsa put these two at same level?

On what basis did she do that?

On the otherside how could she raise false alarm about something as important as serious about child marriage just to throw surprise felicitation party for her ladesar and Annadi?

All these do go against her.

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anshurg5

@anshurg5

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#27

Raising false alarm about child marriage was seriously bad from DS side , now A and J may become skeptical when hear such news again. Other mistakes are much smaller when compared to it.

A and J's fight against child marriage and other social evils too is not on same platform since A was doing it since childhood without much help. J started it much later , specially after becoming MLA.

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As for DS not being dutiful MIL Ganga has seen only best of her ( and of course J too ) not only supporting and felicitating her causes from heart but also making J understand her dilemma when she was divided btw her duties as a mother and as a nurse. She never put any obstacle in her way as she used to do with her other Dils Anandi, Sumi and Gahna earlier.

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Though CVs have not shown that who managed G's kids during the years ( at least 9 years ) when she was away from home for her education but it can be well assumed that remaining women at home DS and A took care of them as J could not have done it himself alone with his two professions. They can leave few obvious things for assumptions too. 😉 J might have spend sometime with them but could not have remained present all the times when children needed him.

Earlier too Sumitra used to take care of Mannu while G went to resume her duties as nurse after marriage and Mannu drank phenol when Sumi was away for some time. These type of situations might have occurred again or perhaps not have occurred due to more vigilance of A and DS in Sumi's absence. 😉

On practical grounds this is impossible that J could have taken care of all his children's needs but if anyone do not want to believe it , most welcome. Will not argue on it more. 😛

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Earlier when G has to win DacterSa she was inviting A's interference by asking his preferences and recipes of cakes and dhokla now when she had already won him, she is making sour faces while A was just trying to defuse the tension.

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Rashmi

@goofyCat

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#28

As this topic of medical education has come up here, want to get my few doubts cleared.. just out of curiosity 😆

Considering that Jaitser didn't even have a nursing college before, does it have a medical college now? If not, what is the nearest option for students from Jaitser to pursue degree in medicines?

Even if it is assumed that a medical college was started in Jaitser when Ganga Singh decided to study medicines, do colleges have day care facilities like offices or hospitals have?

Did Ganga took her kids along with her for the whole day while attending lectures or practicing dissecting human bodies? If not did Jagya took them to his MLA office or Jaitser hospital when he was handling two demanding professions simultaneously? (As per my knowledge toddlers need to be fed few times during the day as well, rather as per their mood). If it were BH maids who took care of the kids for the whole day, who did the all the housework in the big haveli, preparing food for all family members including three kids? It is a different story that I haven't seen any lady servant for the last 7 years in BH, either preparing food or doing any other work.

What would have happened to the kids if Ganga was busy in her exams and at the same time there was an emergency in middle of the night in the hospital for Jagya? Or what if election time in Jaitser and exam time in medical college coincided?

All these questions have been eating up my head ever since the leap happened, and better CVs answer these

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anshurg5

@anshurg5

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#29

I can not believe that a medical college can be opened for Ganga by un dutiful DS in Jaitser as Doctor Saab toh could have not earned that much by working in a charitable hospital or by MLA's legal salary.

Even if DS wished it would have taken years to clear the sanctions and constructing required infrastructure for it . As G seems to have completed her degrees and has established herself well as surgeon in the hospital , she must have completed her studies out of Jaitser.

Btw a question kept erupting in my mind that how could any medical college give admission to G without basic knowledge of subjects like physics , chemistry and biology ? Is that not normal requirement for it? Or Doctor Saab used money and his influence for omitting that requirement? And of course there is an age limit too for PMTs.

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DrMCallgari

@DrMCallgari

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: Beautiful-Soul
Well well what i am constantly reading here credits are sometimes given to Anandi that Ganga became Dr Mrs Ganga Jagdish with her two kids at toes because of Anandi's great help
Now credit is given to great dutiful grandmom Dadisaa Ganga would not have become Dr Mrs Ganga Jagdish Singh with two kids at toes had great dutiful grandmom Dadisaa not there

My question to all these people who are giving credits to these both women Has it been shown in serial or even told even between lines anywhere ? Not at all so why giving wrong credits to these both women ?

Ganga became Dr Mrs Ganga Jagdish Singh BECAUSE OF HER HUSBAND with two kids at toes not because of Anandi and Dadisaa

It is Ganga's husband who inspired her to be a doctor

It is Gangas husband who convinced Dadisaa and family for it

It is Ganga's husband who did arrangements for her to get medical seat

It Ganga's husband who took care of her all needs and children's needs

Ganga and Jagya were working couple even before and Jagya had plenty of times been seen with his children feeding them their dinner , had ganga been late from hospital He fed them their dinner, put them to sleep or sometimes Gehna would do that when jagya would be busy too Dadisaa i have never seen even then did anything ?

and here after leap what we are seeing tells all story It is Jagya and Ganga who took care of their kids MOSTLY in all those years when Ganga was studying None among both kids directly approach Anandi maasi or Badi Daadi for anything unlike shivam who approaches Jagya for ice cream ignoring mother Ganga's kids directly approach their parents

We are mostly seeing Ganga makes them do their homework not Dadisaa or Anandi

We are seeing Mannu says Bapusaa is excellent at maths Never seen he says Anandi maasi or Dadisaa is very good at something learn from them So clear jagya teaches his children

We are seeing Abhi approaches mother for everything and have a great bonding with her Approaches her for icecream I want ice cream maa not dadisaa or Anandi

Mannu says maa lets go to shopping i want to buy something Jagya gives him money now you are grown up you don't need to dependent on us for everything you want to get Go on get it yourself

We are seeing Ganga Jagya arranges everything for them and the kids approach them for everything They respect Anandi They respect Dadisaa She is their badi daadi but these children have never been away from their parents Parents have taken care of their every need thats why children approach them for everything They are taking care of their needs just like now they did it even then

so why giving all credits to Dadisaa and Anandi Ganga could become Dr Mrs Ganga Jagdish Singh because of great help of these two women otherwise she won't have become ?

Twisting serial facts you cannot give all credits Anandi and dadisaa They did nothing great here that Ganga could become Dr Mrs Ganga Jagdish because of them There is only ONLY ONE PERSON who deserves credit for it THATS GANGA'S HUSBAND She would not be Dr Mrs Ganga Jagdish Singh today without his support Anandi and Dadisaa did nothing great here

well said I don't know why i am reading credits given to Anandi and Dadisaa 😕 Ganga could become a doctor with two kids at her toes only because of her husband His support JaGan have taken care of their kids themselves

Anandi was a making a life for herself and doing her social service , Dadisaa was herself studying Ganga and Jagya have managed their kids when Ganga was studying so don't on which basis people are giving credits to Anandi and Dadisaa here 😳

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