What is the need to make a barter offer to Ganga?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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We already know that Sanchi is going to make a barter offer to ganga to leave jagdish in return of shekhars taking back the case and setting jagya free.

But didnt saachi listen in the court when jagya said that he loved ganga and will always keep loving her no matter what..

So by asking ganga to leave jagya what benefit will saachi get? jagya will still decline the marriage alliance with saachi..

The only thing I feel in the end is that people like Sumitra, Dadisa and Shiv will realise thier mistake

and especially sumitra will know what the real ganga is and how much wrongly she used to accuse ganga..

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: lovesunshine

We already know that Sanchi is going to make a barter offer to ganga to leave jagdish in return of shekhars taking back the case and setting jagya free.

But didnt saachi listen in the court when jagya said that he loved ganga and will always keep loving her no matter what..

So by asking ganga to leave jagya what benefit will saachi get? jagya will still decline the marriage alliance with saachi..

The only thing I feel in the end is that people like Sumitra, Dadisa and Shiv will realise thier mistake

and especially sumitra will know what the real ganga is and how much wrongly she used to accuse ganga..


What is 'real' Ganga anyways other than a selfish woman who used Singhs for her own betterment and who created a havoc in their house?

I dont think sanchi went to ganga to make the offer, but it was ganga who went to beg before shekhars ... she is simply crossing her limits .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Shinya.. my point is that saachi already knew that jagya does not love her..then why to make an offer...agreed it was incorrect for ganga to go and beg at the shekhar's house..but sachi could have just asked her to leave and ended it there why unecessary to make such an offer? when she knows the man in question does not love her..

Summitra kept on blaming ganga for everything...ganga was not the reason for jagya to not be interested in saachi...right from the beginning when the engagement was fixed...it was saachi who kept calling him...jagya did not show a single spasm of interest in saachi..so definately ganga was not the reason for the broken engagement..sumitra always blames ganga for this..

well in the past also I have said that I was not happy about ganga falling for jagya her benefactor..I would had been more happy if ganga without the support of the singhs would had started earning and become a nurse and then both jagya ganga would had fallen for each other ...instead of ganga overstaying at singhs..

but I dont consider ganga to be cause of sachi -Jagya break up..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: lovesunshine

We already know that Sanchi is going to make a barter offer to ganga to leave jagdish in return of shekhars taking back the case and setting jagya free.

But didnt saachi listen in the court when jagya said that he loved ganga and will always keep loving her no matter what..

So by asking ganga to leave jagya what benefit will saachi get? jagya will still decline the marriage alliance with saachi..

The only thing I feel in the end is that people like Sumitra, Dadisa and Shiv will realise thier mistake

and especially sumitra will know what the real ganga is and how much wrongly she used to accuse ganga..


Serials and films show such things frequently. All this is being done to show how good Ganga is. This is an old trick - one or more of the family members will not like the woman and when they 'get to know' how she was willing to sacrifice for them, how she is so good compared to the alternative - they will accept her into family saying they could not recognise her goodness etc.

Leave aside this present barter offer, what was the need for Sanchi to go after Jagya after clearly seeing that he is not even interested in her, he avoids her etc. He was not even the most eligible bachelor that Sanchi was doing all this drama (and torturing the viewers) for quite some time.

But I do think Ganga was the reason for breaking of engagement. If it was not for Ganga, he would have gone for marriage (keeping the same disinterested behaviour), coffee house conversation was like a trigger.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Spuja I agree.. Jagya was not the most hunky eligible bachelor in town like Shiv.

Sachi is a stupid and stubborn girl, as she mentioned to Ira her mother that many boys tried to woo sachi in her college but she did not give heed to them. BUt jagya was the first boy who did not feel attracted towards sachi one bit. so may be saachi started getting curious as to WHY jagya does not give her bhaav to her and then this turned into infatuation and now a win and loose game for sachi..
Edited by lovesunshine - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: lovesunshine

Shinya.. my point is that saachi already knew that jagya does not love her..then why to make an offer...agreed it was incorrect for ganga to go and beg at the shekhar's house..but sachi could have just asked her to leave and ended it there why unecessary to make such an offer? when she knows the man in question does not love her..

Summitra kept on blaming ganga for everything...ganga was not the reason for jagya to not be interested in saachi...right from the beginning when the engagement was fixed...it was saachi who kept calling him...jagya did not show a single spasm of interest in saachi..so definately ganga was not the reason for the broken engagement..sumitra always blames ganga for this..

well in the past also I have said that I was not happy about ganga falling for jagya her benefactor..I would had been more happy if ganga without the support of the singhs would had started earning and become a nurse and then both jagya ganga would had fallen for each other ...instead of ganga overstaying at singhs..

but I dont consider ganga to be cause of sachi -Jagya break up..


Ganga may not be the cause for the breakup. But jagya putting sindoor into her maang is the cause for the court case.

I still cant understand what was the hurry in taking pheres... CVs have made a joke of pheres and also jagya.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya


Ganga may not be the cause for the breakup. But jagya putting sindoor into her maang is the cause for the court case.

I still cant understand what was the hurry in taking pheres... CVs have made a joke of pheres and also jagya.


ye athe sindoor thing was something I could not understand why he had to do it...if jagya has matured then does a mature person take such a hasty decison of filling sindoor in someone's head?

But again it was sumitra who shouted at ganga in the hospital that because of ganga jagya broke off teh engagement with saachi etc... and sumitra also asked what realtion ganga has with jagya and jagya put the sindoor in the heat of the moment..that thing even i could not digest one bit.

He could have waited and spoken to dadisa .. and then married ganga after settling the matter with the shekhars and saachi.

But even after the sindoor episode saachi was just feeling low and sitting in her room and was instigated by her friends to teach jagya a lesson..

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya


Ganga may not be the cause for the breakup. But jagya putting sindoor into her maang is the cause for the court case.

I still cant understand what was the hurry in taking pheres... CVs have made a joke of pheres and also jagya.


I am grateful somebody has pointed this out. Nowhere have people pointed out what an insult to our beautiful customs of marriage, sindoor, pheres this show is portraying by showing a man who has married three times, love three times and then dumped the girls.
Second point: THE WHOLE POINT of this case which is for abetment to suicide is DID Jog's actions in marrying two days after breaking his relation with Sanchi incite Sanchi to attempt suicide. In this I don't understand what the defence lawyer is trying to prove by pointing out that Ganga is more like the Singhs and the way they live than Sanchi. How does he know that Sanchi was doing a naatak for so many months when even Anandi wasn't totally sure of this? What does it matter why Jogia went to see Ganga? Why does it matter that Singhs wanted him to do this rishta? Ultimately he freely agreed to it!I don't think it even matters whether there was any conspiracy or not which is what the two lawyers are trying to prove and disprove. The point is that his rash, stupid haste has caused one girl and her family a lot of pain, in the eyes of those who don't know the full truth (which only us viewers do!)

This show has made a joke of our beautiful traditions and after starting well, now wants to show a ridiculous way a court case is fought.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

I am grateful somebody has pointed this out. Nowhere have people pointed out what an insult to our beautiful customs of marriage, sindoor, pheres this show is portraying by showing a man who has married three times, love three times and then dumped the girls.
Second point: THE WHOLE POINT of this case which is for abetment to suicide is DID Jog's actions in marrying two days after breaking his relation with Sanchi incite Sanchi to attempt suicide. In this I don't understand what the defence lawyer is trying to prove by pointing out that Ganga is more like the Singhs and the way they live than Sanchi. How does he know that Sanchi was doing a naatak for so many months when even Anandi wasn't totally sure of this? What does it matter why Jogia went to see Ganga? Why does it matter that Singhs wanted him to do this rishta? Ultimately he freely agreed to it!I don't think it even matters whether there was any conspiracy or not which is what the two lawyers are trying to prove and disprove. The point is that his rash, stupid haste has caused one girl and her family a lot of pain, in the eyes of those who don't know the full truth (which only us viewers do!)

This show has made a joke of our beautiful traditions and after starting well, now wants to show a ridiculous way a court case is fought.


It is funny. The abatement to suicide case has been conveniently changed to - who is more suitable bride by the lawyer and the judge is saying nothing. They are trying to prove that since Ganga was more suitable bride for Jagya and Singhs, so Jagya was right in breaking the engagement and marrying Ganga.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sanchi knew this even befor that Jagya never loved her. And Jagya Ganga has some special bonding dispite seeing all these thing and understanding, she through herself on him by giving praposal of marriage. Nahi toh why she made Sumi againesd Ganga even before her engagment? Sanchi dont care if Jagya loves her or not she thinks no one can reject her and the whole world is her. It was Sanchi who came in between Ganga and Jagya knwingly.
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