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hisusmita

@hisusmita

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Posted: 12 years ago

#141

Originally posted by: aparnauma
Why are we discussing about what G2 said here?
How relevant are G2's feelings here?

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Let's stick to Anandi and Shiv 😊

Should Anandi tackle Irabatty her sasuma and Ratan Singh in the same manner?If yes what are the reasons if no what is the explanation.

No no I am not talking abt G2's feelings.

Just saying the way G2 said that and A said. Both the reason is just pure love , At that time out of love and fear of loosing people think we cant live/cant do without the person but that doesnt make them regressive, they are just human, doesnt mean they cant do without any man

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hisusmita

@hisusmita

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Posted: 12 years ago

#142

Originally posted by: aparnauma
All the psychologists seemed to have disappeared😲

Anandi who is brave and stands up for other people and stands up to the likes of Heth Singh and Ratan Singh is reduced to tears in front of hare brained woman like Irabatty what is the reason for that?

You are the best one here

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BeingMahiway

@maahi11

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#143

dere is hell lot of difference btw Rats n Ira... cant be same... i knw rite nw anandi is nt sayng nuthng to the RaSA n especially Ra... bt d day she her patiences will gve up n dey get on An's bck she will gve both n infct everyone in the family dere peace of mind...

n its nt abt being aapna aapna n paraya paraya... coz if dis wuld be d matter den i guess technically its Jagya who is responsible for the death of her mother n aftr death wat Jagya did is nt unknwn,... anandi wouldnt hve forgiven jagya on dat coz after all who died was her mom...

its just wrong n rite... rite nw she knws very well wat ira is going thrugh coz dis is wat her own mom went thrugh... dats d reason she is quite... coz rite nw ny sought off reasoning will nt help ny1... n dis is also wat CM said...

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hisusmita

@hisusmita

Sparkler

Posted: 12 years ago

#144

Appy , I think she would have transformed Ratan Singh to a saint with her immense patience/kindness😉

DS was no less than Ratan Singh. Infact he too became mute when A was giving bhasan, may be he would have taken sanyas listening to her, Even Jagya became saint now who himself thinks he was like Ratan Singh😉

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 12 years ago

#145

All this questions are popping up in my mind for obvious reasons.

Sure she was aggressive with people like Chanda's husband Ratan Singh and she saw to that people like Heth Singh and Dongi baba were sent to jail.

This question is often raised why she just takes nonsense from Ira and Sanchi when she is so aggressive towards outsiders.

We know that she doesn't have different set of values for different people but still she is so patient and quiet with them.

When outsiders perceive her as a threat to their lifestyles her family members have the nerve to shout at her and get away with it.Is this because she is door mat ?

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RainbowSun

@RainbowSun

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 12 years ago

#146

Hello AT-

kya discussion ??

Roothe piya ko manao kaise??

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#147

I think A should forget about manaoing her roote piya and let him continue with his ST.Soon he will descend from his high horse.

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BeingMahiway

@maahi11

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Posted: 12 years ago

#148

Originally posted by: aparnauma
All this questions are popping up in my mind for obvious reasons.
Sure she was aggressive with people like Chanda's husband Ratan Singh and she saw to that people like Heth Singh and Dongi baba were sent to jail.

This question is often raised why she just takes nonsense from Ira and Sanchi when she is so aggressive towards outsiders.

We know that she doesn't have different set of values for different people but still she is so patient and quiet with them.

When outsiders perceive her as a threat to their lifestyles her family members have the nerve to shout at her and get away with it.Is this because she is door mat ?

She does gets agressive wen it cums to family also ... she was one the who slapped jagya wen he asked half property for divorcing anandi... dat day she slapped jagya n threatened him dat if he doesnt her she will file a case against her...

she did answered gauri back wen she all over u want my hubby back u cant break my rishta n all...

she did answered ack wen shiv came n called off the marriage n dat day too she said wat she wants...

n she was d one who stood behind shiv wen he was framed in false allegations...

its nuthng dat she cant answer bck or stand for her right she can,,,, but she does it wen thngs r out of hands... d reason behind dis jab do logo ki ladai hoti hai agar dono bolenge tho ladai badegi... ek chup rahega tho ladai bardti nahi hai... she just wrk on dat ideology...

rite nw i guess no one else can understand d pain saachi is going thrugh... coz she n her family went thrugh same... dats d reason she is quite...

i also believe it takes good spirit to accept ur fault n say sry... n wenevr ira said wrong to her she had apologised anandi in front of every1... n latter she will apologise anandi in front of everyone only

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_Jaya_

@_Jaya_

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#149

Originally posted by: aparnauma
I think A should forget about manaoing her roote piya and let him continue with his ST.Soon he will descend from his high horse.

let her forcibly stop him tell everything, no need to be soft, and walk away from there. this can make him rethink . and she can start the ST afterwards

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rdjha

@rdjha

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#150

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Where are all the psychologists who want to delve deep into character analysis?

Please answer this question for me cos I desperately need answer for this

Should Anandi tackle Irabatty her sasuma and Ratan Singh in the same manner?If yes what are the reasons if no what is the explanation.

Appy i am no psychologist...lol...but still wud like to answer your question..

1. As Hiral said apne and paraye 😆...but i would like to put this aside, because if your apne is equvalent to shaitaan then i think anandi will take similar stand like RS ...any righteous person would.

2. but here this is not the case, RS is a bad person by heart, mind and soul - to the core. But Ira is just a blind mother who has gone crazy and irrational in her daughter's love ...she has completely lost her thinking capacity seeing Sanchi's condition.

3. agreed she was blind in Sa's case from start but still she had some thinking capacity even after J broke the rishta at KB...she still did hear anandi's argument, believed it, questioned Sa and even was guilty and ready to apologize to J and Singhs.

4. it was J's maang bharo that triggered the devil in her and now she is beserk alike Sanchi...and her daughter's pain is causing her to behave this way.

5. what anandi needs to do now is to be calm, try to first console Ira, hear (and atleast pretend to support Ira first) because till Ira calms down her capacity to think will never return. once that returns some sense can be drilled into her cause she still has her heart and mind in place unlike RS.

6. Ira is not cruel, not even to anandi...unlike rat who is cruel to one and all...and can go to any lengths to attain his goal.

so, i dont think same treatment should be given.