I wanted to post a reply to this post below but noticed the topic is locked!!! Why would they do that, and can they do that??!!!
I really liked what is written, and wanted to reply. So replying to post by copying it here again
Skepblun
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Direct Link Posted: 05 August 2013 at 1:48am | IP Logged
Call it an occupationaol hazard but actors' looks do get discussed no matter what.
Prats also got a lot of comments on her when she replaced Avika in the show, later when Anjum entered, again she got comments on her acting and looks, she had to face another round of comments on her upon Sid's entry! People would comment on her height and use words like "bauni" and compare her inferiorly to Avika, Anjum and even Neha Marda.
I agree words like ugly should not be used for anyone.
But the fact is that such judgemental attitude is a given when an actor replaces another actor in a popular character. People commented on Prats because they were used to Avika. And now they comment on Toral because they were used to Prats.
Many times actors cover up for their looks with their talent or charm. Like in BV, Prats did very well as the deserted child bride and subjugated woman. So the comparisons stopped (though she still got comments later but that was mostly for height and would subside after a while).
Sorry to say, Toral has to work on her acting skills in a big way to fit in this role. Who'd have bothered about looks if her acting was fine and she'd fitted her character?
Looks can be ignored also if actor is good in his or her craft. Toral is experienced and has done so many shows but still her acting needs improvement!
It's hard to escape being judged if you're playing lead of a cult show!
I don't mean to compare actresses. But only saying all actors get judged and they have to slog it out to make audience get used to them or accept them. Shows like BV have high standards and people have lot of expectations from them. Earlier some people wondered if Sid was right choice for BV. But he proved himself with his acting and nuanced performance.
Everybody has had to live up to audience expectations. And acting matters more than looks. Otherwise, even beauty pageant winners don't get acceptance by audience. Fitting in the character that you have to play, is of paramount importance.
Edited by Skepblun - 05 August 2013 at 2:01am
Fabulously written post. I agree so much.
I stopped watching Balika Vadhu because of Toral. I simply do not like her as Anandi. She is not good. Has only 2-3 set expressions on her face. She mostly has half smile look on her face which is creepy. She speaks as if she is trying to delibaterly talk like PB, her soft speaking comes accross as totally fake. I started watching again recenty but sorry still don't like her. I like Balika Vadhu so watch sometimes IN SPITE OF HER.
BTW when Shiv says on hearing Gehna's baby news something about them having baby her reaction?????????? Anandi was shown to be quite brainy, when did she become an idiot that she does not understand simple clue!
Her coyness is CLOYING AND ANNOYING & the dialogues they give her do not help!