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Posted: 12 years ago
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This is the first time I am making a post on BV forum, though I have watched the show from start.

I wanted to post a reply to this post below but noticed the topic is locked!!! Why would they do that, and can they do that??!!!

I really liked what is written, and wanted to reply. So replying to post by copying it here again


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TV and cinema are visual media so those who appear on it are bound to get comments on their looks. People still remark on Aamir Khan's height, SRK's nose etc. and in past, actors would get nicknames from public based on their physical attributes only, for eg., Amitabh was called Lambu.

Call it an occupationaol hazard but actors' looks do get discussed no matter what.

Prats also got a lot of comments on her when she replaced Avika in the show, later when Anjum entered, again she got comments on her acting and looks, she had to face another round of comments on her upon Sid's entry! People would comment on her height and use words like "bauni" and compare her inferiorly to Avika, Anjum and even Neha Marda.

I agree words like ugly should not be used for anyone.

But the fact is that such judgemental attitude is a given when an actor replaces another actor in a popular character. People commented on Prats because they were used to Avika. And now they comment on Toral because they were used to Prats.

Many times actors cover up for their looks with their talent or charm. Like in BV, Prats did very well as the deserted child bride and subjugated woman. So the comparisons stopped (though she still got comments later but that was mostly for height and would subside after a while).

Sorry to say, Toral has to work on her acting skills in a big way to fit in this role. Who'd have bothered about looks if her acting was fine and she'd fitted her character?

Looks can be ignored also if actor is good in his or her craft. Toral is experienced and has done so many shows but still her acting needs improvement!

It's hard to escape being judged if you're playing lead of a cult show!

I don't mean to compare actresses. But only saying all actors get judged and they have to slog it out to make audience get used to them or accept them. Shows like BV have high standards and people have lot of expectations from them. Earlier some people wondered if Sid was right choice for BV. But he proved himself with his acting and nuanced performance.

Everybody has had to live up to audience expectations. And acting matters more than looks. Otherwise, even beauty pageant winners don't get acceptance by audience. Fitting in the character that you have to play, is of paramount importance.

Edited by Skepblun - 05 August 2013 at 2:01am


Fabulously written post. I agree so much.
I stopped watching Balika Vadhu because of Toral. I simply do not like her as Anandi. She is not good. Has only 2-3 set expressions on her face. She mostly has half smile look on her face which is creepy. She speaks as if she is trying to delibaterly talk like PB, her soft speaking comes accross as totally fake. I started watching again recenty but sorry still don't like her. I like Balika Vadhu so watch sometimes IN SPITE OF HER.
BTW when Shiv says on hearing Gehna's baby news something about them having baby her reaction?????????? Anandi was shown to be quite brainy, when did she become an idiot that she does not understand simple clue!
Her coyness is CLOYING AND ANNOYING & the dialogues they give her do not help!


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Posted: 12 years ago
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I believe it is a matter of what u like and what u do not there are people who do not like srk amitabh we should respect people s personal choice and leave it there those who do not like total will not like her what may come they can speak about that maintaining decorum and i believe judgement is a personal voice not to thrust on any one
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012

I believe it is a matter of what u like and what u do not there are people who do not like srk amitabh we should respect people s personal choice and leave it there those who do not like total will not like her what may come they can speak about that maintaining decorum and i believe judgement is a personal voice not to thrust on any one



Of course you are right. I hope you did not think I did not maintain decorum or thrust my opinion on anybody!
I feel PB was so fabulous they tried to make this Anandi mould and Toral had to talk walk in certain way. Who knows maybe she would have been liked better if she was allowed to be Anandi in her own way!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Several points to say on this.

it doesn't mean to say if others having been criticising actors' looks for ages then that makes it ok to do so. People have been taking drugs for ages, is that ok? Constructive criticism is valid as long as it does not border on malice. No matter how well Toral may perform, she will still be judged by a die hard P fan. Why Toral, the plot, the script everything gets trashed because of this. So the argument that it had been going on forever does not give one the licence to behave as such. It's a reflection on the critic and their humanity. It's also a type of bullying as in 'let's demean Toral on basis of looks so that they bring back our favorite'. Beauty is after all in the eye of the beholder and in order to elevate one it is not necessary to bing down another.

You feel they tried to mould Tanandi to walk, talk like Panandi and YET there are other P fans whose main gripe is that Tanandi is not like Panandi. In fact they were against her bring her own spin on Anandi YET that is what you want.

So again, beauty is as beauty does. The two actresses can be compared to thy kingdom come but one thing will remain the person comparing in a vile manner is the one to be judged.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Picasso9

Several points to say on this.


it doesn't mean to say if others having been criticising actors' looks for ages then that makes it ok to do so. People have been taking drugs for ages, is that ok? Constructive criticism is valid as long as it does not border on malice. No matter how well Toral may perform, she will still be judged by a die hard P fan. Why Toral, the plot, the script everything gets trashed because of this. So the argument that it had been going on forever does not give one the licence to behave as such. It's a reflection on the critic and their humanity. It's also a type of bullying as in 'let's demean Toral on basis of looks so that they bring back our favorite'. Beauty is after all in the eye of the beholder and in order to elevate one it is not necessary to bing down another.

You feel they tried to mould Tanandi to walk, talk like Panandi and YET there are other P fans whose main gripe is that Tanandi is not like Panandi. In fact they were against her bring her own spin on Anandi YET that is what you want.

So again, beauty is as beauty does. The two actresses can be compared to thy kingdom come but one thing will remain the person comparing in a vile manner is the one to be judged.




WOW! You are obviously a Toral fan! Please read my post again, where did you see a single mention anywhere about looks??!!! I did not make any comment about looks or personality or beauty! Only about her acting which I have a right to, as I am fan of the show. If I had said complimentary things you would not mind, so why mind when I say I don't like her acting. She is not a good actress period! I watch for I love Dadisa & her family.

BTW if my comment on Toral is reflective of me (and I am ok with that cos I stand by what I wrote!), what does it say about you that you can't take honest criticism! My opinion about T is shared by many!



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Posted: 12 years ago
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i think the problem is not that that toral is not like pratyusha
the only thing is that her acting skills despite not being a new comer is not up to mark with the standard of BV.
the new gehna acts better than the new anandi
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Comparing two actresses is not allowed . So closing this post.
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