I dont understand Jagya - Page 5

Originally posted by: Shinya

Samvi, you are so right. Even I thought she was going to sit in his lap like Mannu and fill her details in the online form...🤣

What is even funner is that people are arguing here that you have to rub shoulders with your teacher if you have to learn computers.

Now I feel like pitying my software programming lecturer...😆 ... poot fellow used to stand behind us and guide us. But maybe if I were secretly in love with him, I might have asked him to pull a chair close to mine and rub my shoulders to his...😉😉 (kill two birds with one stone)

we are not fond of arguing with you and most funny are your logics to us as well how far you can go in your blame game Keep going and keep entertaining us with your funny logics

When I travel by economy class long distance, myself and my copassenger next to me usually touch each other sometimes and sometimes even doze off on the other's shoulder.That does not mean that we both are trying to trap the other!😆

In these days, physical proximity does not mean much. Even in village melas boys and girls get close due to heavy crowds.

Originally posted by: Shinya

@blue - maybe.. you never know what will happen in the future. But you cant say that he initiated the interactions between him and ganga. In what way do you think he initiated? 😕

He was only kind to her and her child because they have no one in this world. He said it many times that by helping her he is getting an opportunity to undo some of the wrongs he did in the past.

If he was in love with her as you are claiming him to be, would he have agreed to see girls? So, no , jagya did not initiate anything.

@Shinya, by initiation i mean jagya insisted to extend his help and support to her on most occasions they were together...it was not as if ganga was falling all over him or trying to woo him...and i am not claiming that jagya is in love with ganga...ganga has realized that she is really fond of dactar saab thats all.

First of all Ganga is not wooing jagya. She just has a attachment feeling for him. What is wrong in that. Ganga has been an orphan all her life. She never saw a family love. She saw what is love only recently. She has no one in this world. In that case if someone is being nice to her then what is wrong if she get attached to that person. People we all are blessed with families and don't know the feeling of orphans. She has no one in this world and what is wrong if she gets attached to jagya or even if love for jagya. Anandi had the complete family on her side, complete village on her side still she found comfort in paraya Mard company and was filrting with him in front of her family and alone too, crying buckets in front of him trying to get his sympathy.. Trying to find sympathy in Ganga's story too...But, no one had a problem with that. But, Ganga is very dignified and decent, Ganga she has no bad intentions, she is just being happy and naturally inclined to jagya. There is nothing wrong. Sumi is making faces now even if ganga did nothing wrong...Where was she when anandi was flirting with shiv ??? May be its anandi no one finds any fault... All the Modesty and society rules apply to all others even if they didn't do anything wrong...

@TM - I do agree Jagya seems to like Ganga's admiration and Sanchi attention probably because these two girls make him feel good about himself. Jagya may not be encouraging them but he is not doing anything to keep them away from him because he is not interested in them.

just read anandi flirted with shiv ,wondering when did anandi flirt with shiv ?Am i watching the same show!

Originally posted by: aparnauma

@TM -

Sanchi on the other hand led a privileged life was showered with so much love and affection and they did not even expect anything back from her not even good mannered behaviour.

They all treated her like she is some precious fragile object which will break if it is dealt with more firmly.In other words her parents did not really treat her like a flesh and blood human being who is capable of thinking.If she behaved badly instead of trying to make her understand her behaviour is wrong they only scream at her.They gave her a lot of freedom but they really did not teach her how to use the freedom and other privileges in a thoughful and wise manner.

In Samchi's case it was Jagya was the first person who listened to what she got to say and talked sense to her made her see reason where other people failed.

In cases of both Ganga and Sanchi Jagya was the first one to treat them like fellow human beings and communicate with them and that has earned their undying affection for him.

Neither the the girls were wrong in developing feelings for him.

But it is his fault if he did not recognise the romantic interest these two girls have in him.

Either he is deliberately closing his eyes to those feelings because he is not ready for a relationship or he has not seen it coming because of the state that he is in.

Sanchi was treated nicely by everyone except perhaps by her father who sometimes shouts at her. She has a vicious nature and she is highly opinionated. It is not that Jagya treated her nicely and talked to her nicely that made her happy. She has developed romantic feelings for him. Even if Jagya says treat anandi and ganga nicely, sanchi will do it grudgingly in front of him just to make herself agreeable to him. That is her actual nature. Once she gets married to Jagya, she will show her true colours even to Jagya.When Ira tried to explain that her cheating about the mini dress was not good, Sanchi made a sour face and began her rant that she has not got any true love and understanding. What is the connection between true love and understanding and wearing a mini dress just to get attention?

As for Ganga, she should learn to become subdued if she has to fit into the family. She is behaving like a 4 year old.Too emotional.

Her falling in love with Jagya is too fast. Sumitra being irked is natural in this respect. If everyone starts loving Jagya because he is nice and helpful, it is not fair.

Even Anandi should think about all these things.

Once ganga gets a control over her emotions, none can equal her, even anandi. Just watch Mannu. How controlled he is for his age.👏

Originally posted by: hina13

realizing love means accepting to oneself i am in love i love that person thats we call realizing Where Ganga has done it ? please show me She is still on why i am feeling this and here members are criticizing her she has realized her love or they have a theory of realization please share with us and we only know one theory of realization accepting to oneself i did wrong i am in love etc 😕is there any new definition of realization 🤔

Originally posted by: samvi.

Who is asking Ganga to sit in the other end of the room!! She can stay in her limits and act like a decent woman. Instead of focusing on Sumi's expressions the CV's should have shown Ganga realizing that she would be in his lap in the next few minutes if she didn't correct her position!

I just can't get it when people say she hasn't realized her love for him when it was clearly shown by the CV's ! She did realize and she knows what she is doing. She is just okay with all what is happening...and does not give a damn to Sumi's feelings. Sumi will be the mean one here though she has some valid points on her side. Ganga is not trying to lure him or something...but is definitely losing control which is not expected from her. 👎🏼 Not liking Ganga!👎🏼