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Posted: 12 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: bips54321



Why its only women who has to seperate from family and adapt to a new family forgetting her own??? if its so then shiv also shouldn'd have any right to stay with shekhars ideally. If shiv doesnt do do that means he is not an idealist, just a good caring guy.
Ira involved in shivs sex life nobody sayd anything. Then in that case anandi shiv should stay seperate from family, or shiv shouldn't take transfer bcos of his wife professional cause why always the vice versa.

I get your point...yes true everything should be balanced and not only one-side but here our frustations is that Shiv is in a transferable job and even Anandi has agreed to go with him where ever he goes...the problem here is for Singhs everything has to be with Anandi and they make it look like they can't live without her...if they love Anandi so much then why not Sugna...Anandi is not their only daughter even Sugna is their daughter but we hardly see her in Haveli and whenever we do they all will be doing Anandi jaap...Anandi thinks Singhs and Shekhars as their family but she never considers Shekhars' feeling...Anandi is not even worried about her career...if Shiv would have stayed and cancelled his transfer for his and Anandi's work then it is excusable but if he cancels his transfer for Singhs then it so rude because if Singhs wants Anandi then even Shekhars want Shiv...Shiv respects and cares for Singhs so much that sometimes he even forgets his own family and yet how Singhs treat him ?...they take him for granted...never respect him and his feeling...and even have no concern for Shekhars...for them its only Anandi...Dadisa tries to control Anandi like her DIL...she never thought about Shiv and Anandi when Jagya came back and she tried to break their relation...where was the love then...they all compare Anandi with Ganga which is not bad but if they love Anandi how can they easily give her place to someone else...they have no concern for privacy...Anandi stays at Haveli for 4 days a week and for what? because she is bored...Anandi is not even trying to make a strong relation with Shekhars and understand their life style...this is the reason why Saanchi is still aloof to Anandi and somewhere i support her...whenever Anandi is bored she goes off to Haveli...why? She can spend time with Saanchi and Chotima but she is so involved with Singhs...and the best is yet to come...if she cares about her maayka so much then why did she dragged Jagya to come back to care of Singhs in her place...she brought Jagya back and yet she is worried about Singhs and involved in their issues...let's remember when had she took so much care of her own parents-Khajaan and Bhago?..never...she always neglected them even after her marriage with Shiv..Khaajan still doesn't know about Shiv's transfer and he is so alone and yet Anandi never has once called him...to be honest if Anandi would have showed even half of the love she shows to Singhs to her onw parents then maybe Bhago would have be alive today
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Posted: 12 years ago
#12
I agree with the author of this post. They need to stop with this Rona dhona and letting parivaar go anxiety. Also how long are they planning to stretch Anandis love confession to shiv? She's been trying to confess her love for over 3 weeks. There hasen't been any progression in Anandi and shiv's married life. Sab bskwas dikha rahe hain audience ko. We are not stupid and they are just stretching the drama with repeating same story lines. :/
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: libsrocks


I get your point...yes true everything should be balanced and not only one-side but here our frustations is that Shiv is in a transferable job and even Anandi has agreed to go with him where ever he goes...the problem here is for Singhs everything has to be with Anandi and they make it look like they can't live without her...if they love Anandi so much then why not Sugna...Anandi is not their only daughter even Sugna is their daughter but we hardly see her in Haveli and whenever we do they all will be doing Anandi jaap...Anandi thinks Singhs and Shekhars as their family but she never considers Shekhars' feeling...Anandi is not even worried about her career...if Shiv would have stayed and cancelled his transfer for his and Anandi's work then it is excusable but if he cancels his transfer for Singhs then it so rude because if Singhs wants Anandi then even Shekhars want Shiv...Shiv respects and cares for Singhs so much that sometimes he even forgets his own family and yet how Singhs treat him ?...they take him for granted...never respect him and his feeling...and even have no concern for Shekhars...for them its only Anandi...Dadisa tries to control Anandi like her DIL...she never thought about Shiv and Anandi when Jagya came back and she tried to break their relation...where was the love then...they all compare Anandi with Ganga which is not bad but if they love Anandi how can they easily give her place to someone else...they have no concern for privacy...Anandi stays at Haveli for 4 days a week and for what? because she is bored...Anandi is not even trying to make a strong relation with Shekhars and understand their life style...this is the reason why Saanchi is still aloof to Anandi and somewhere i support her...whenever Anandi is bored she goes off to Haveli...why? She can spend time with Saanchi and Chotima but she is so involved with Singhs...and the best is yet to come...if she cares about her maayka so much then why did she dragged Jagya to come back to care of Singhs in her place...she brought Jagya back and yet she is worried about Singhs and involved in their issues...let's remember when had she took so much care of her own parents-Khajaan and Bhago?..never...she always neglected them even after her marriage with Shiv..Khaajan still doesn't know about Shiv's transfer and he is so alone and yet Anandi never has once called him...to be honest if Anandi would have showed even half of the love she shows to Singhs to her onw parents then maybe Bhago would have be alive today


I 1000000% agree with you libsrocks
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I cannot agree more than you, the character of Anandi will always be vague. This is not the problem of the actors but BV track. Aji is so clear when daddu asks her about Udaipur, she is so sad that her husband dd not tell her and says that her pain is not more then her husband. Then again she starts muksil hein, apne parivar will be sad. If you are so much worried about your stupid pariwar why did you get married, you do not have any legal relation with them. And this dafar pariwar, why do they still think Anandi is their property, they have married her to an IAS officer and know her sasra is in Udaipur. Do not they realise that she has to move with her husband and Sasra. Sanchi is right, - This singh will always be a priority for bhabi and in that process bhaiya will become inclined towards them. She is an ideal bahu for singh. DS is a selfish idiot she can go to any level for her wishes. She has still not got over the fact that anandi rejected jagya. Shiv has to be strong this time, put his foot down and say for him his family is important so he will. If his wife is sad and so her family, he will divorce her and go. Otherwise they will never learn a lesson. And in future Sekhar should draw a line between singh and anandi. Choice is hers - but this ignorance to husband and family is too much.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012

I cannot agree more than you, the character of Anandi will always be vague. This is not the problem of the actors but BV track. Aji is so clear when daddu asks her about Udaipur, she is so sad that her husband dd not tell her and says that her pain is not more then her husband. Then again she starts muksil hein, apne parivar will be sad. If you are so much worried about your stupid pariwar why did you get married, you do not have any legal relation with them. And this dafar pariwar, why do they still think Anandi is their property, they have married her to an IAS officer and know her sasra is in Udaipur. Do not they realise that she has to move with her husband and Sasra. Sanchi is right, - This singh will always be a priority for bhabi and in that process bhaiya will become inclined towards them. She is an ideal bahu for singh. DS is a selfish idiot she can go to any level for her wishes. She has still not got over the fact that anandi rejected jagya. Shiv has to be strong this time, put his foot down and say for him his family is important so he will. If his wife is sad and so her family, he will divorce her and go. Otherwise they will never learn a lesson. And in future Sekhar should draw a line between singh and anandi. Choice is hers - but this ignorance to husband and family is too much.


Shiv is an emotional fool sometimes. DS really knows where to hit the nail on shiv with her emotional dialogues regarding how difficult it is for her to be away from anandi. The way she told I cannot live without seeing my pota jagya and anandi. Now also including jagya and anandi together.think about it it's a way to disconnect anandi from Singh family and still anandi not forgetting them in udaipur.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#16
After the first leap, Anandi's character has always beeing vague from time to time. The makers have made Singhs the main centre and Anandi's like some satellite that revolves around them. Grown up Anandi never showed so much attachment even for her own parents, Khajan and Bhago as much as she did for Singhs. And Singhs also, never showed so much attachment for Sugna as they are doing for Anandi.

Initially Anandi stayed with them saying she was bahu and couldn't leave Singhs, only her arthi would leave from Singhs' house (when Bhago had come to take her after Jagya married Gauri). She feels indebted to them for taking her side when Jagya deserted her, and for educating her, making provisions for her social work and motivating her to be Sarpanch of Jetsar. The fact that they chose to live without their son, their laadesar and waaris Jagya and supported her in every way, gave her Dada ji's locket (which was earlier given to Jagya) and made her their "everything". It's all entrenched in her mind and this is why she always tries to be with them, serve them.
Singhs also feel attached, and even more after she refused to file case against Jagya, convinced Bapusa to keep financing Jagya's education & expenses and refused to go with her parents after Jagya's betrayal. Even more after she convinced everyone to forgive Jagya and give him a chance. DS feels indebted and attached to Anandi due to such actions too.

Let's not forget, the bond between her and Singhs is too strong and different from any other bonds between families and daughters/DILs. Also, Shiv and second marriage were imposed on her. She didn't do it all voluntarily, she even got married on Singhs' insistence.

Despite all of Shiv's niceties and Shekhars' awesomeness, Anandi is still taking her time. She got attached to Shiv and Shekhars but is yet to let go of attachment to Singhs.

Yesterday's episode was totally trash though.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012

I cannot agree more than you, the character of Anandi will always be vague. This is not the problem of the actors but BV track. Aji is so clear when daddu asks her about Udaipur, she is so sad that her husband dd not tell her and says that her pain is not more then her husband. Then again she starts muksil hein, apne parivar will be sad. If you are so much worried about your stupid pariwar why did you get married, you do not have any legal relation with them. And this dafar pariwar, why do they still think Anandi is their property, they have married her to an IAS officer and know her sasra is in Udaipur. Do not they realise that she has to move with her husband and Sasra. Sanchi is right, - This singh will always be a priority for bhabi and in that process bhaiya will become inclined towards them. She is an ideal bahu for singh. DS is a selfish idiot she can go to any level for her wishes. She has still not got over the fact that anandi rejected jagya. Shiv has to be strong this time, put his foot down and say for him his family is important so he will. If his wife is sad and so her family, he will divorce her and go. Otherwise they will never learn a lesson. And in future Sekhar should draw a line between singh and anandi. Choice is hers - but this ignorance to husband and family is too much.

and now if Shiv suggest Anandi for a long distance and Anandi agrees to do so than she deserves every ounce of this divorce thing from Shiv
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Posted: 12 years ago
#18
anandi shd pay attention to her husband.
she is good at everything except being a good wife.

also try to get rid of saanchi as soon as possible , shd make some clever plans to marry off saanchi the crap 😡 from shekhar house

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