Iras joy vs anandis moping

Anandi is not looking so mahan these days. Today Ira was so happy with the news that her son who has not been able to stay at home due to his studies and work is finally going to be home for some time. But on other hand they showed a sad anandi. If anandi is sad that shiv thought that she won't be happy for his homecoming then I can understand but tomorrow if they show that she is indeed debating if she wants to go then I will be very disappointed.

Originally posted by: Saathfan

Anandi is not looking so mahan these days. Today Ira was so happy with the news that her son who has not been able to stay at home due to his studies and work is finally going to be home for some time. But on other hand they showed a sad anandi. If anandi is sad that shiv thought that she won't be happy for his homecoming then I can understand but tomorrow if they show that she is indeed debating if she wants to go then I will be very disappointed.

I agree that in today's world husband wife make compromises in their careers for family. But if a girl is so focused on career that she cannot see herself ever leaving her home town then she should not marry a transferrable govt employee. It's like a guy marrying a doctor girl and never anticipating that she will want to practice medicine.

I hope tomorrow anandi clarifies that she is more upset at the fact that both her husband and in laws think she would prefer to live in jaitsar then be with her husband. Felt bad for shiv, anandi has not accepted him as her husband but when things don't go her way she is good at laying a huge guilt trip on her husband. Anandi is not looking so Mahaan t hese days.

Originally posted by: anonee

Yup. Anandi's convo with Shiv was emotional blackmail at its best. Looks like she has a gold medal in this too. While Shiv is so used to being trampled upon by Anandi that he does not expect any better behavior or attitude from her. He does not expect her to be understanding or caring of him or his mother. Notice how she took her own sweet time to greet Ira at the haveli?

Well I just explained my opinion above on how I think Anandi's reaction was partially emotional blackmail and perhaps something else all together 😕 But I wanted to comment on what I bolded...I'm so glad you also noticed that! I was like what the heck happened to her...her mother-in-law is standing there seeming equally proud of her...but this Sarpanchni is busy telling her tale and hearing her praises from everyone else! Forget that...why didn't her family shut up for once and allow her to first greet her mother-in-law and then get on with the details of her Mission (Im)possible: 5!!! I generally like the Singhs...but I hate their double standards about maayka and saasra...they go on and on about a girl's saasra being important...but when it comes to Anandi's saasra (the Shekhars), they do everything and anything they can to make it seem less significant than her maayka (the Singhs)!!! I'll excuse Dadisa for the Sankranti episode cuz she understood her fault there and apologized...but for every other occasion...it has to be hosted at the Badi Haveli and Anandi must always be the chief guest...with or without her in-laws!

"Chori, khaana kha ke ja"

"Chori, Shiv ghar pe nahin hai tou tu yahin ruk ja"

"Chori, teri bahut yaad aati hai"

Arre yaar...chori sirf dus minute duur rehti hai! And if chori is going to eat dinner with you, then what do you expect her choti mother-in-law and her obnoxious sister-in-law to do...eat dinner in solitude without the new member of their family?!?! UGHGH!!! Sorry...I think I went off on a completely different rant here...but just wanted to share my views anyway 😳

@masin, loved ur comments, yesterday anandi put shiv at fault just as usual. But there is something else in this - her love. I expected shiv to say back - how can i trust u anandi on Jaitser because These are most important thing on your life. I have been the least priority, may be u r crying because now i cannot help you in finding ur jagya or in ur mission or badi haveli people as i am not a collector any more. High time now Anandi to stand as DIL and wife for Sekhar.
And Badi Haveli, they still think Anandi is their Daughter in law and they have full right on her, particularly DS. See the drama of farewell if Aji leaves for Udaipur. Hope this time a fallen in love Aji takes a right decision and makes us happy.
For throwing tomatoe I am with you

i think she is clarified yesterday only...that she is upset coz shiv didn't have faith in her...shiv didn't think that she will understand his situation and and will think more then her pain...

I hope instead of anandi going heavy on Rona dhona as to why shekhars and shiv are thinking that she will choose to stay in jaitsar over living with shiv. Today anandi thinks about her behavior that has given shiv and his family a reason to think like that.