hi frnz,let me tell u first dat i m n't a serial lover but bv is more dan a serial.its a social concern.datswhy i've come here first time not to entertain but to discuss smething serious coz some tpic of forums have realy hurted me n forced me to enter like gauri shud teach J n his family. well as for A now her topic issocially closed as she is not bv now n have done adult marriage but one more social issue is here i.e. extramarital affairs which i found more worse dan balvivah for many reasons-
1 balvivah sirf backward or illiterate areas me hote h joki wahan ki reet h while EMA is prevalent allovr d world n shmefully in literate areas n not at all REET here but ashameful act everywhere.
2 bv parents krte h or children suffer krte h.while EMA khud adult krte h or others suffer krte h .sufferers ya suicide krlete h ya overcome nhi krpate h except Anandi,or A jese inlaws b kisiko nhi milte.
3 bv agr successful hojaye to ye unlogo ka goodluck h but agr EMA success hojaye to A jese logoki life barbad honi hi h or wese b agr dusro ka ghar torne wali aurton ka ghar basne lage to log khuda par yaqeen krna chordenge.lekin isme gauri ke case ko seriously nhi lya gya h.no doubt jagiya nalayk h lekin ye khne ka haq sirf uske gharwalon ko h G ko nhi kyunki wo illigal pati bht achcha rha h.sb ye kyu bhool rhe h k G ne uska career barbad kiya h ,kya sb yahi mante h k use apni masi k liye nhi jana chahiye tha ,agr wo nhi jata to wo mar jati.n imagine agr J ne G ki complaint ki hoti to kya wo tolrate krti?khajati use.lekin J ne aesa nhi kiya. just bcoz G talented h independent h, A se zyada beauti.h uski krni ko justify nhi krskte?wo sirf ek acchchi professional h.woto illigal wife b achchi nhi banpaye.agr J ko saza milrhi h to G b usi saza ki haqdar h.taki G jesi aurton ko pata chale dusro ko takleef denewale kabhi khush nhi rh skte jahe duniya kitni hi mod ern ho jaye god will always b dere to justify.isliye cvs ko b G ka topic seriously handle karna chahiye.jese J ki insult hui h uski b honi chahiye.she doesn't desrve respect aftr insulting bhero n her own husband in front of her colleagues whom she clamed to b her lover jst bcz she is MS ghr akr b to dat skti thi.marriage demand respect yar.