What binds Shiv to Anandi??

Well, I read quite a few posts in the forum saying that Anandi is or has never reciprocated Shiv's feeling & has never given 2 hoots to his love. On the other side she keeps thinking about the cognitively impaired Jagia & DS. But what binds Shiv to Anandi? There has to be some reason that Shiv is attracted and feels so deeply for a cold hearted girl named Anandi ...it surely cannot be her name which gives him JOY to hold on to her 😆. It her "truthfulness" that he is attached to and hence "trusts" her completely and does not need anything else!!

Friends, there is no egalitarian theory of JUSTICE. If according to you, Anandi is not saying anything in favor of Shiv that does not mean she deserves that handsome scoundrel Jagia or should be called characterless, shameless and with no morals. Why should Anandi conform to what everyone else does? We should enjoy her flavor. Maker are showing that she is a unique individual and she also has the choice of how she choose to do things. The human race is diverse, and each individual person should have the choice to do what they want and Ajee's CS loves her for her uniqueness. 😳 So why are being judgmental about Anandi?

In one line it is Yeh kissa hai dil aur dimag ka😳. Here most are intelligent & guided by reason & logic hence the disconnect😉. AnSh are 2 different people coming from different backgrounds so we have to understand see & appreciate their PERSPECTIVES.Shiv absolutely gets Ajee perspective and has tremendous respect for that. He is amazed at her gehrai and is swimming in the depths of her heart trying to make room for himself by removing each block carefully 😳. Shiv is the parameshwar (God) guiding light in her life. God never gives solutions to our problems but give us strength and support to deal with everything and anything happening with us & around us. 😉 The greatness of this man lies in being the perfect "Rock" in rocking & shaking Ajee's life😳.He just wants to bring brings peace in her life. He knows by not forgiving J she is not at peace with herself but he never said that you should pardon Jagia. He said if you have not forgiven him for the pain he has caused you...please don't feel bad😊 ( solid rocking SUPPORT😃), this gave Anandi the required confidence to deal with virus J😉. Shiv was positive that at the right time with his encouragement she will forgive J and today she did that ( everything has a right time) . By forcing her to pardon J ...he would have put too much pressure and she would have had a complete break down.

There is a saying that when someone else has a problem, use your head to help and when you have one, permit your heart to guide you through. This is exactly, what Shiv is doing...following his heart (he told Jagia very clearly... that I can expose you very easily... but he did not do so as he is ruled by his heart). This smart Dude collector knows very well what J wants.😉 Anandi & Ds maybe naive not Shiv.So knowing everything why is he quiet and not raising HELL, logically😕. If he would have been ruled by his head instead of heart he would have done so by now. It is his innate goodness!! Where there is Goodness of the heart there is no business of the mind😉. He is attached & attracted to Anandi's goodness, simplicity and ingenuousness. He does not want to change that as of now. Then the flavor of Anandi will go. He is not expecting Anandi to reciprocate his love at this point of time...he just wants her to trust him & share all her past hurts & aches with him. And Ajee is sharing all her problems and crying on his shoulders and her CS Shivji is mighty pleased. If Shiv is inclined to love madly ' perhaps we should also consider and cut her some slack😉

I fail to understand why are we going berserk and want to prosecute Anandi??
Collector Shiv thinks that he has been provided with the right of 'protecting' women & he will execute this forever...😉😆

Today when Anandi answered CM it was done awesomely well...She so subtle BALANCED Singhs & Shekhar's ...why are all the families NOT like mine (meaning the Singhs😳) ...they decided to get her married ( broad outlook) and the Shekhars they have compensated so very well for all my misfortunes that I'll always remain indebted to them😳 This sc was done more for social awareness not to show Anandi's greatness and Shiv's misfortune 😛😃

If u have made it to the last line 😃...let me know what you thought about my objective view on Anandi';s subjective behavior😳

Originally posted by: umam

Shiv's character is one of the very unique characters ever sketched in the telly world. Whoever has done the character sketch of S has done an amazing study of what a woman wants in a relationship-- for many this kind of relationship that A and S share may look utopian

Love the way CVs are exploring support, mutual respect, trust, integrity, acceptance, open communication, being non judgemental etc through these characters in the telly world and they are doing it so subtly and clearly.

For once, watching an Indian soap has become a pleasant experience thanks to these two characters and their interactions-- bow to the CVs..