Anandi is all AWARE about the contrast.

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malika

@_symphony

Sparkler

+ 7

Posted: 13 years ago

I am forced to make this post seeing last night's episode and prats claim about how A will learn/realize the depth of Shiv's love.You know guys I always thought that J's presence was the one necessary thing to make Anandi realize the difference between the two guys - One her dark past and Other her bright future and soothing present. BUT BUT BUT - Seeing last night's episode and hearing prats comments about the fact that A has already begun to fall for Shiv, I just realized that actually how AWARE Anandi is about Shiv's love. She needs NO CONTRASTING as she is already aware of the contrast.

Yes she has fbs of Jagiya,yes she is too gloomy at times and yes she is marrying Shiv out of just the last wish but surely it doesnt mean she cant feel the warmth of his love.The fbs are just the remniscents of J's betrayal she is freeing herself from.And as of about Shiv - she absorbs all his love into her and reciprocates it in the form of her concern,her friendship and her support.There were so many moments which are enough for her to judge how much Shiv cares for her, respects her and loves her:

1. His salute to her.

2.He refering her as an inspiration - a prerna.

3.He claiming in front of the Singhs that how if she decides to complete a task no one can deter her.

4.His concern for her when she is walking on slippery floor.

5.He giving shoulder to bhago.

6.He declaring how he doesnt want a forced marriage.

7.Always being there for her and making it possible for her to interact with sumi in her low moments.

8.His gift to her.

Ok this was all what he did for his LOVE.Now lets see what all she has done which is a clear indication how much she likes him:

1.She appreciates him for being an all-rounder.Even appreciates him in chudidaar.

2.She trusts him enough to let him in even after she denied his marriage proposal.

3.The way she cares for him during his nosebleed or his cold.

4.She has claimed that collector sahab is a 'bhala insaan'(a GODD human being)

5.She cooks halwa for lunch inspite of no one asking her to do so.

6.She scared not to hurt his or his family's emotions.

7.Eats jalebi just for his sake.

8.She likes to tease/irritate him.

9.She doesnt mind him sharing his plans to be an ideal hubby in front of her choti choti balikayein.

10.Pins him down whenever he acts a baby like making him change his wet clothes or dragging him for injection.

So if we see Anandi has till now shown all the most positive signs about her feelings towards Shiv.She feels,understands and absorbs his love.And then reflects it in the form of her concern and care.Her respect for his family and him. Bcoz thats the max she can do for him at this stage.The day she will find herself strong enough to reciprocate his love with LOVE...she will be the one to show it even more openly than him. Now I really dont think she needs one HUGE realization to differentiate b/w S and J.She has all the differences clear in her mind.She is well aware what kind of a guy Shiv is and how much he loves her.And probably this we will come to know when she will be informed abt J leaving gauri.I am DAMN sure she will root for Shiv and tell J how he should learn to love from S.😳

Edited by Malika - 13 years ago

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prerna4rishav

@prerna4rishav

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+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

I dont think there is anything to worry about Anandi's feelings about Shiv.. She knows how it feels to be rejected .. She experienced that becuz of Jagya.. If not love, Anandi respects Shiv ji a LOT.. And she will never turn Shiv down for at least Jagya..

For arranged marriage, mostly we need to have respect, understanding and trust the most.. Love follows later.. Anandi already has all three for Shiv .. Love will eventually happen, pre-marriage or post-marriage, doesnt matter.. Anandi almost worships Shiv .. He has taken care of all her small small pain and tried to lessen them.. Something like Balraj did in Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam 😉.. And I am sure Shiv's gonna be proved as lucky as Balraj was 😉..

I simply ADORE Anandi's concern and respect for Shiv ji.. Somehow it's more important for me ( personally ) to respect my husband more than 'loving' him.. I can SO feel Anandi's immense respect for collector saab.. She is definitely going to grow love for him.. but no other guy can come even closer to Anandi's heart in terms of respecting..

Shiv ji rocks.. I am toh totally lattoo over him ! 👍🏼 😆

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AnjanaYYZ

@AnjanaYYZ

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Posted: 13 years ago

Malika - the JaAn threads make me giggle cuz Bhago ne bana di jodi. A will never leave S. S won't leave A unless she asks him.

As for comparing J & S, A does not need to do so anymore than we do. The answer is rather obvious. If J ever truly redeems himself even then there would be no need for a comparative...because by then A will have moved on with Shiv. Then there is the Bhago factor.

She resented Shiv's intrusion into her life and private space because he disrupted her vision of her own life. She fears disappointing him and his family as she disappointed Jugya. She is not confident within herself that she can give him the happiness he and his family deserves. But, that has to do with her own perceived limitations and her own unwillingness to give anyone that spot in her mann ki mandir. It has NOTHING to do with Jugya.

At max, seeing Jugiya will shock her out of her complacency and make her reflect on what it is she is feeling for Shiv and become more appreciative of Shiv. Most importantly it will free her of Jugya...the soft emotions she harbours...J's sorry may also make her internalize that she was indeed not responsible in anyway for the failure of their rishta. Its an opportunity to make peace with her past b4 moving ahead with Shiv. But, that has nothing to do with comparative.

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Posted: 13 years ago

anandi ne shiv ke sath jo khuch kiya uske mukable to anandi ka jagya ka flash back khuch bhi nahi hai

1st flashback -teej

2nd flack back -anguthi

3 rd -flash back- saree

4th-mehndi

5-jalebi

and for just 5 flashback v have so many thread of anandi criticising thread

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Teeya

@Teeya

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Malika
I am forced to make this post seeing last night's episode and prats claim about how A will learn/realize the depth of Shiv's love.You know guys I always thought that J's presence was the one necessary thing to make Anandi realize the difference between the two guys - One her dark past and Other her bright future and soothing present. BUT BUT BUT - Seeing last night's episode and hearing prats comments about the fact that A has already begun to fall for Shiv, I just realized that actually how AWARE Anandi is about Shiv's love. She needs NO CONTRASTING as she is already aware of the contrast.

Yes she has fbs of Jagiya,yes she is too gloomy at times and yes she is marrying Shiv out of just the last wish but surely it doesnt mean she cant feel the warmth of his love.The fbs are just the remniscents of J's betrayal she is freeing herself from.And as of about Shiv - she absorbs all his love into her and reciprocates it in the form of her concern,her friendship and her support.There were so many moments which are enough for her to judge how much Shiv cares for her, respects her and loves her:

1. His salute to her.

2.He refering her as an inspiration - a prerna.

3.He claiming in front of the Singhs that how if she decides to complete a task no one can deter her.

4.His concern for her when she is walking on slippery floor.

5.He giving shoulder to bhago.

6.He declaring how he doesnt want a forced marriage.

7.Always being there for her and making it possible for her to interact with sumi in her low moments.

8.His gift to her.

Ok this was all what he did for his LOVE.Now lets see what all she has done which is a clear indication how much she likes him:

1.She appreciates him for being an all-rounder.Even appreciates him in chudidaar.

2.She trusts him enough to let him in even after she denied his marriage proposal.

3.The way she cares for him during his nosebleed or his cold.

4.She has claimed that collector sahab is a 'bhala insaan'(a GODD human being)

5.She cooks halwa for lunch inspite of no one asking her to do so.

6.She scared not to hurt his or his family's emotions.

7.Eats jalebi just for his sake.

8.She likes to tease/irritate him.

9.She doesnt mind him sharing his plans to be an ideal hubby in front of her choti choti balikayein.

10.Pins him down whenever he acts a baby like making him change his wet clothes or dragging him for injection.

So if we see Anandi has till now shown all the most positive signs about her feelings towards Shiv.She feels,understands and absorbs his love.And then reflects it in the form of her concern and care.Her respect for his family and him. Bcoz thats the max she can do for him at this stage.The day she will find herself strong enough to reciprocate his love with LOVE...she will be the one to show it even more openly than him. Now I really dont think she needs one HUGE realization to differentiate b/w S and J.She has all the differences clear in her mind.She is well aware what kind of a guy Shiv is and how much he loves her.And probably this we will come to know when she will be informed abt J leaving gauri.I am DAMN sure she will root for Shiv and tell J how he should learn to love from S.😳

humein yahi to chahiye ki Shiv thoda sa wait karke pyaar se Anandi ko jeet le aur Anandi khud hi jagya aur family se kahe de ki woh shiv se pyaar karti hai. par mein yeh nahi chahti ki singh parivaar ab Anandi se asha kare ki woh jagya ko apna le jagya singh parivaar ke sath rahe shakta hai par naahi use us parivaar ki yaa Anandi ki ki koi maafi mile. agar itni jaldi jagya ko maaf kar denge to uski kya kya galtiyan hai woh kabhi samjh nahi paayega.

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vamita

@vamita

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Posted: 13 years ago

You are right Malika...

If we see carefully, Anandi neither needs to know Shiv more, nor needs to compare him to Jagya...She realizes who and what he is and she realizes his love...She won't have any doubt in her mind, even if Jagya comes before her, because she knows what she is doing, unlike Jagya, who was always confused and needed guidance and support every step of the way...

She won't even think of leaving Shiv, even if Shiv himself suggests, which he won't do unless he finds it as a last option, which might never come, because Anandi would never have second thoughts...

Her concerns would be same as that of a friend, who has spent almost all their childhood life together caring for eachother...Other than that, whatever she might feel, but she will never even have a single thought of reuniting with him...On the other side, she will be shocked that he left Gauri though for sure...And she wouldn't like it one bit, because once again according to her, he instead of solving the matter, just left the girl who he claimed to love so much, just because she lied...But Anandi will make him realize that he was the one who lied too...

She is also aware of the fact that her future is sealed with Shiv and the way Shiv supported her all through the way, she knows his personality and honesty...So, though she is taking her time, she is still aware of the fact that Shiv is someone who will never treat her like Jagya did, neither would he ever hurt her...She doesn't need Jagya before her to know the contrast...!

Though she should once come face to face with him for sure and accept it whole heartedly that like Jagya, she is also moving on in her life and now there is no going back...!

Edited by vamita - 13 years ago

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