Written Update 26/7 by payalibm - Page 2

Originally posted by: andv

Thanks to both of you for the update, wish you a speedy recovery Payal.🤗

I am very very disappointed with the episode. 20 mins of conversation between A and her mother and the CVs treated it so badly. I did not expect this from BV CVs at least. Instead of the emotional talk I would have appreciated Bhago trying to explain the importance of A to settle down again. I was hoping Bhago would have got a chance to meet Shiv after which her convincing A would have been with more of a conviction. Neither did they do that nor did they give Bhago sensible dialogues to explain the families reasons to see her settled. Bhago has always drilled the belief of "ladki sasural doli mein jati hein aur nikalti arthi mein" into A since childhood. Hence she would be the best to make her realize that there is nothing wrong in her dreaming of a new life and a new future with a deserving life partner. I would have appreciated the CVs if they would have included some thought provoking dialogues for A rather than making her emotionally forced to accept getting married to Shiv. In fact even if Bhago had to take a promise from A for her to marry Shiv would be acceptable (not whole heatedly) if she explained logically the reasons for the same. I just feel it was a waste to get Bhago into the picture if they could not exploit the track in a more sane and practical way. Sorry CVs but like I have appreciated the episodes that you have directed beautifully I can't help expressing my displeasure at a poorly treated track.

Originally posted by: apjk

@Bold: You did the right thing dear. Or else your blood would have boiled seeing the waste of an important track which could have been made a turning point of the drama along with spreading a very very important message. No one could have brought this message stronger than the mother of a wronged daughter.

yes, this current bhago track was just given short shrift just like the asha-abhishek track.

Exactly Tinoo, I am just surprised how none of them even bothered to find out the reasons for A's hesitation or down right refusal. Come on, this is the basic thing they can do. But every one is only out to put their view and force her into it. Atleast understand her problem and reasons and then try to solve that rather than just forcing her.

I feel it is only Shiv so far who is thinking from her side, coz he did say that he doesn't want a forced marriage. I hope he at least brings out the fears from her. Although it should have been her mother to do that but sadly it wasn't.

But anita (note I did not put an h this time 😆)

To what extent should a mother go to make her daughter agree to her last wishes? Today,Bhago virtually drove Anandi to say yes to the proposal. And why so? Whose life is it ,anyway?

Why did Bhago not question Dadisa's wisdom in choosing a life partner for Anandi? Did she not choose Jagya once? And what was the outcome? How can a mother shut her eyes to this reality?

They are all too eager to get her married. But, no one ever asked her,what is it that you want? Circumstances were so over powering that poor Anandi had no other option but to agree. But,reflect on this point for a minute.

Do not scores of girls of our country give into parental pressure every now and then? And Anandi was no exception. It would have been better if she were an exception. But that I think would have been unrealistic considering the situation she found herself in. She did fight initially but,eventually had to give in.

it was a yes simply out of sheer despair.

Probably this was the situation which Shiv had worried about when he said to Dadisa not to pressurize her to get a consent. Once he comes to know that is what exactly happened, I would like to see how he reacts. In this mess that Anandi finds herself in, to me,he comes across as the only savior. I would like to see Shiv rise to the occasion and put forth his points strongly and unequivocally. Gentleman that he is, I expect him to save this poor girl from ultimate subjugation.

at the 'H' factor 😆. Sorry I get so finicky about the H 😆.


ur right tinoo, bhago has never tried to ask A about her feelings in the past. That's probably why A too is so secreative about her feelings and doesn't freely talk to anyone about them. But don't why i expected her to be a little more empathetic towards her feelings now that she is running high on guilt. i thought she might have realized these mistakes of hers. unfortunately the answer is no.

Originally posted by: andv

Exactly Tinoo, I am just surprised how none of them even bothered to find out the reasons for A's hesitation or down right refusal. Come on, this is the basic thing they can do. But every one is only out to put their view and force her into it. Atleast understand her problem and reasons and then try to solve that rather than just forcing her.

I feel it is only Shiv so far who is thinking from her side, coz he did say that he doesn't want a forced marriage. I hope he at least brings out the fears from her. Although it should have been her mother to do that but sadly it wasn't.

Originally posted by: apjk

Only person who could talk sensibly and understands her fears is Bhairon Singh.They are not letting him talk.And the other person is Shiv .He is not in a position to talk.

yes Bhairon has always been the most reasonable character. unfortunately A has forced him not to talk to her about the matter. I get really irritated with this 'kasam' concept of these soaps. Its just not realistic.Who does all this in real life? bhairon or sumi should have put their foot down and tried to talk to A instead of giving into her kasam.

last hopes are from Shiv.