No Dadisa No: Shiv will run away!!! - Page 3

Originally posted by: Nach_Baliye

Just watched the episode, OMG I cannot believe DS was about to propose! How awkward! She really needs to slow it down a notch. What does she think, if Shiv agrees will Anandi agree? It doesn't make sense to broach the subject when both are not on the same page.

Had she mentioned it, it would have been so awkward between Shiv and Anandi. It would create much more distance between them. Hope DS doesn't ruin it, she needs to let it progress on its own now, else she will have the opposite effect.

Ashi looked so sad when DS was praising Anandi and telling Ashi about what she needs to do so stay there lol, Ashi lost a bit of her confidence.

Originally posted by: avantikasharma1

So I don't find DS criticism valid, but it would be nice if it scares Ashi away. (I know tinoo won't be happy). She is totally in love with Shiv, dropping all sorts of hints. I want guy from Civil service and blah blah. I think she made DS anxious to make her propose. Otherwise DS would have given AnSh more time 😆

Originally posted by: tinoo

I am 39 years old, and while my tajoorba cannot hold a candle to dadisa's tajoorba of 80 years 😆

I believe that if something does not end in its own natural timing and natural way, then it comes back again because there is still some 'unfinished business' (spiritually if not materialistically) - I see this sort of happening in the issue of gauri coming back to haunt the singhs 10 years later.

I strongly believe that when something in your life serves its divine purpose, it drifts away or falls off from your life like a useless appendage. So ashi at some point will drift away in the natural course of time and she will go away happily because the purpose of shiv in her life will be served (whatever it is)... and there wont be a 'bhatakti aatma' coming back because of some restlessness.

If something is broken off through manipulation, then ashi will again re-enter shiv and anandi's life in the future in an undesirable way in the future. I dont want that to happen. God then I have to say Ashi is a stupid girl! Close the door, if Shiv never chose you leave it. Why waste time? I will leave my friend alone if he has to go with someone else. I have face this kind of pain, but its alright. You cannot force love. it maddness to run after someone. My formula leave them , if they have to return they will. But we should know when we have reached the limit of waiting. Persistence is not same as insistence.

The other thing is yes ashi was dropping hints, in fact, they were not hints, they were complete direct straightforward doozies 😆😆, but I have not seen shiv discouraging her, beyond making some vague noises of embarassment or rolling his eyes slightly. I am sure that in the past, and in private, she has been very straightforward about her interest in him.

In that case, I personally dont think that it is in good taste for him to keep up his friendship with her. I think it is okay to be friends when neither party has formally indicated an interest in the other party, but if one party has said they are interested, and the other is not interested, then it makes good sense to end the friendship as well... not in a mean way but by putting distance between them, otherwise the person (ashi) will think that if he or she just does something differently or gives it more time, the party of interest (shiv) may change his mind eventually.

In any case, I believe that men and women can never be friends 😆 to answer the old question.

And how long will he keep up his "friendship" with her -- because if eventually he is going to have a wife, his wife will not appreciate aashi talking to shiv or calling him again and again, or landing up at his home as a houseguest. And ashi coming back to visit him after marriage gives a strong signal that she will have teepri types of tendencies.

Would you like it if your husband had a female 'friend' particularly one who was at one time (and might still be) in love with him?

Originally posted by: elasingh

I dont know about you guys but I want Anandi to fall in love with Shiv first and propose to him.

Originally posted by: elasingh

I dont know about you guys but I want Anandi to fall in love with Shiv first and propose to him.