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ButterflyChaser

@ButterflyChaser

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

i truely want jagya to come back to anandi and thn anandi hav to choose between jagya and shiv... and she will select shiv over jagya. i want tht dialogs sth lyk preity hd in kya kehna when she chose her freind over her love for marriage... 😊.

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Pratiksha

@Don_theEvil

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: bhach
After all Anandi has never showed any interest in any other man except Jagya..again today she was dreaming about him...moral of the story " sincerety"...if Anandi also marries someone else like Jagya did ..what distinguishes her from Jagya..

Anandi is not run away form marriage jagya did, anandi did everything for him and in return he only hurt her. And about dream is clearly shown that he is not in her life anymore. Her future (shiv( come to her soon and she accept that fate. If anandi break her marriage for some other man and coming back to jagya claiming true love, will he accept her back . no? then why did she. Even if shiv is not in the picture and jagya last will left last man of earth. I wanted anandi remain alone instead choosing jagat..

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Pratiksha

@Don_theEvil

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: udaychary
Yes ,, i think CV'S are trying to create the situation like u said above , if this happens Anandi should and will Accept back bcoz for Anandi Jagya is her True love
and she should accept him back

what a defination in your dictionary of true love. true love can marry to any other women then make her pregnant too and that basis on true love wife should accept her husband back. in return he also accuse her how she try to break his true love marriage. and even after that she should accept him back. she should rather live alone instead getting jagat back..

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ssah

@ssah

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: avantikasharma1

Many differences:

i) Her marriage is not adultery unlike J. If she fall in love with S, it is when she is single or ababdoned.

ii) She is not leaving J because he has faults. On the other hand she beared his many faults and always forgave him.

iii) J's marriage gives wrong message to society whereas A marriage would mean that a woman can reconstruct her life even after being abadoned. Which woman will love to be treated like J treated her. It shouldn't be forgiven just because we have to save marriages.

@bhach So are you saying that no matter what a man does and however bad he treats her wife, a woman should never move on? avantikasharma1 has already explained the differences, but one thing I want to add is Jagya cheated Anandi and got married, Anandi is getting over the pain of abandonment and moving on and getting married. and there is a huge difference between cheating your partner and moving on from a broken marriage.

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Nach_Baliye

@Nach_Baliye

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Anandi should not accept Jagya back any any cost. He doesn't deserve her and will never be a good husband. Both were never compatible. Jagya has always been impressionable, gets easily impressed with superficial materialistic things, and doesn't have the maturity to accept Anandi's professional success. Anandi will never be happy with him.

If after all this Anandi sacrifices herself for the family's happiness and accepts Jagya back, it goes against the basis of the story that child marriage is not good, and after learning to be self-sufficient it would be against Anandi's character to sacrifice her entire life. If the family truly loves her they would not stand in the way of her happiness.

I am appalled that people think Anandi should accept Jagya back on this forum. Jagya cheated on Anandi and kept her in the dark about his love affair with Gauri. He verbally abused her for years, making her feel inferior in every way. He used her and threw her away. He wanted his family to discard her when he no longer needed her. He cannot be relied upon. Jagya is NOT Anandi's true love. She was made to love him since childhood by nature of their marriage.

Shiv on the other hand is very mature, and perfect for Anandi. He is mature and understanding, he and Anandi have similar goals. I think Jagya should come back to Anandi, so that she can make a choice for herself. Right now she is single because Jagya left her. She should be in a position to choose the right life partner for herself, and Jagya's returning will give her that option. That will increase her and Shiv's confidence in Anandi's choice.

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Angela

@Bidaaifan09

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

After all Anandi has never showed any interest in any other man except Jagya..again today she was dreaming about him...moral of the story " sincerety"...if Anandi also marries someone else like Jagya did ..what distinguishes her from Jagya..[/QUOTE

What distinguishes her from Jagya is that she will be doing it after her divorce from him not while they are married. I am sorry I do not want them back together. True love my foot if it was true love then Jagya could never do what he did because his love for A would not allow him too. It was comfort and being the only woman he knew since he was a kid. A I think dreamed of him because it was her subconscience way of clearing him from her heart and soul and allowing her to see that there is someone else out there meant for her and only her. This last statement was in response to someone elses post wondering why she was dreaming of him. I just want J to come back and see what true and pure love is when A and S fall in love with one another.

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Tuttifrutti

@Tuttifrutti

Voyager

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Singhs have not legally disown Jagya..he is the son of haveli..waris of haveli..Anandi might have started a process of divorcing him..but the key point is the bonds are legally broken betwwen J and A, not between J and Singh Family. Neither Singh family have adopted Anandi as their legal daughter...there are still emotions lost but the bonds are still existing legally between J and Singhs...

In future, if Jagya comes back to haveli leaving Gauri and asks for forgivenes..our great people, sadhus , saints, mahatmas , gurus ..all have taught us that nothing is bigger than to forgive some one..and Jagya will be still their own son and why they will not forgive him...

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Nach_Baliye

@Nach_Baliye

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

The Singh's can forgive Jagya, but that doesn't change the fact that Anandi can choose her own life partner, and the Singh's have a separate relationship with her that is now independent of Jagya. Dadisa can choose to give a portion of her property to Anandi, as can Bhairon. In fact, Bhairon gave Anandi money that she can choose to give Jagya.

The Singh's may forgive Jagya because after all blood is thicker than water, but they cannot deny Anandi her happiness. Anandi has lived with them since childhood and has grown up with them. She has given them all that their own son never gave them in terms of respect, taking care of their reputation, etc. Bhairon is very principled, he will make sure that Anandi gets justice before accepting Jagya. He may also choose to adopt Anandi legally if Jagya causes too many problems. Just like Jagya and Singh's have a bond, so does Anandi with them.

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