The matchmaker must be taken to task for not doing her work properly. But these interviews showed the mindset of people who think that girls who are in for second marriage can be taken for granted.
Unfortunately this is the harsh reality in some parts of India.
It is better to allow Anandi to live the way she is and if it is in her destiny, she may get a suitable boy.
It doesnt matter as Anandi is leading a meaningful life and she is not sitting idle.