anandi & gauri..1st post in bv!

This is my 1st post in BV...watched this frequently! Im still on being lil neutral after watching for awhile too! 😃

To start with I feel jagiya belonged with Anandi coz he was being her hubby after teens n even after meeting gauri too in college he was still being lovey dovey with Anandi but when things gone bad she noticed jagiya is going in another direction she didnt stand for her rights nor make him realise his responsibility as her hubby! ( i might have missed few epi's if that happened)! Gauri is wrong in uncountable ways n 1st is by getting herself involved with married guy even after knowing the truth! The way she behaves with Anandi is shocking n dissapointed with Anadi for not giving bck n b treated bad being right! But gauri is selfish no doubt about it, its just wrong to steal married guy!

On other hand i like gauris get her way n knows to manage1s she luvs(tho here in BV its misused) & her stand for what i like too! Now coz of being silent n letting things go that jagiya in Anandis life is gone n he only wants to b jagdish! I dont like doormat behaviour tho i dont think being aggressive is right but to stand for self is v imp when needed! With baby thing happening recently which is sad to all i think Anandis re-marriage might b next track! To b frank i wanted jagiya to realize his mistake n b bck but now no use its beter if Anandi will move on & get even better looking, loving & smart guy than Jagiya ever could b! So bottom line im leaning more towards Anandi but not completely pleasd coz she doesnt take her life seriously so why will any1 do right, she should get that fixed!

Gauri can keep that sar dard flip flop hubby jagdish coz she will only regret trusting weak guy like him! Once again he will have mood swing n change again lolzz! Its in a way nice to see jagis&gauri b bonded (no drama n blaming anymore)tho i know its temp n finally anandi to move on coz thats the only way to b now! Just an opinion! lol!

welcome to this bv forum .i hope u will enjoy this forum as u r enjoying ut forum

Originally posted by: surabhi01

welcome to this bv forum .i hope u will enjoy this forum as u r enjoying ut forum

Thnxx 😃
No comment of ur opinion on bv post made or whom u support?!! 😕

UT is a torture show to tell as it is... 🤣 yaha bhi sattire 😆
sumhow 1st few leap epis were fun, Not now!

i support anandi .i used to support gauri before her crooked marriage

Originally posted by: surabhi01

i support anandi .i used to support gauri before her crooked marriage

Hello,

I feel your character is defined according to how you respond to difficult situations that come across your life.

Anandi is shown by the writers as a very strong girl who can control her emotions in such difficult situations, would think about the after effects of her acts before applying them and who would only do what is right . 👏 ⭐️ Which is very difficult for many people. She is depicted by the writers as the modern day Sita without a Ram. While she is in company of the other family members she controls her emotions /behavior and directs them very carefully. But when left alone she expresses her sorrow to herself only which is very difficult , wish I could do that😲

So again in the eyes of people especially her haveli folks and villagers, she is goddess like.

Whereas Gauri is a nice girl, however she cannot control her emotions. If she was able to control them then she would have never fallen weak and married a married man😕 The situation with her is she was walking in a forest and she is very hungry, she sees a ripe fruit (Love) on a tree full of thorns (Jagat). That tree belongs to someone else (Anandi , Haveli people). Her parents warn her that she would be pricked by thorns all the time if she climbs the tree for the fruit. But her longing for the fruit is larger than anything else at the time. She cannot control her emotions and climbs the tree, gets pricked by the thorns and shouts out loud because of the injuries (so she cant control her emotions again). She gets the fruit but again keeps complaining about the thorns.

She finds out that the person whom the tree belonged to is not fighting for her right and finds it unreal. As if she would have been on that place she would have shouted. She is so distressed with the thorns in her life that she starts blaming everyone for causing the injuries, but not the tree.😭 and she is also not realizing that the decision to climb the tree was solely hers.

She is just justifying that she this only because she was hungry rather craving for only that particular fruit and nothing else. this craving is the longing to be loved by soemone or having a life partner. As she was left alone in her childhood to suffer beacsue of her parents. But her parents are very dear to her and she doesn't blame people who are dear to her for her pain (Jagya and her parents) but the other strangers that come into her life ( Haveli People, Anandi).

She is being harsh, manipulative, cruel to everyone involved with the tree as again she cant control her emotions of distress, depression this time. she feels that if I don't get the tree no one else will and if I was pricked by the thorns then everyone else involved in the tree should also be pricked.

She wants to prove that she is the sole owner of the tree and can take better care of it. In the process starts getting jealous of the real owner as she discovers that this person (anandi) is also capable of this maybe better than her and would steal the fruit of love on the tree from her.

So again this time Gauri cant control the emotion of jealousy. Besides, her loved ones (her parents) start misguiding her and making her insecure about the real owner coming to steal the tree from her. So now again she cant control the emotion of insecurity.

In all this process she kills the little sapling of love that was growing inside her (her baby).

Hope she realizes that the Tree (Jagat) is full of thorns and nothing else and the fruit of love on it is just an illusion.

I am not justifying Gauri here for her innumerable misdeeds. But just explaining the reason for her turning into an evil person - Her incapability of controlling her emotions and directing her thoughts in a positive way.

Well hope fully the Real owner of the tree realizes that it is high time that she starts planting/taking care/owning a new tree full of fruits of love. 😉😉



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ashbendre i think now it is useless to talk such thing about anandi .forget about anandi what she had feeling for jagat in past .so it will be better to talk about anandi feeling for jagat in present.

and i do not care for gauri emotion.

Hello surabhi, I am not talkin abt what anandi feels for jagya now. This is my point of view of the whole mess called bv.

If you see my final sentence...I want anandi to find a new man...or get a new life...wish she could go abroad for further studies..to get away from this mess...

i also feel uncomforatable for anandi condition .but cant help it.for anandi marriage v have to wait and watch.umeed pe duniya kaayam hai

More than Anandi & Gauri its Jagya who is more at fault, he played with both girls lives with lies & weak decisions! Sum it when jagya himself is not in her life n moved on it doesnt look right to see Anandi in her in-laws ruling the roast! Its better she gets re-married n move on! Enough of social service too, she should 1t set her life straight n then do them l8r! Jagya has to mend his relations with his fami tho gauri wont b accepted by singhs! Sad to see them loss baby but they wont b able to give good life financially nor socially so may b this is right thing! Lil softcorner Anandi had without her knowledge also is broken now coz of bitter talk by jagdish! But acha hai naa she deserves to bettr! n tlest now track will change! 😛

gauri is not a baby.. if jagya is a cheater, gauri is not less to him in anyway in cheating and manipulating..