If gauri was smart

I watched this tape about woman and man's brain...I am sure many would have watched it...It says while woman's mind revolves around love, trust and care in a marriage/love relationship the first thing that comes in a man's mid is sex. it is not that men are incapable to love, biologically their body and mind is tued more to sex. In that video the guy who was conducting the program was also saying the present american culture of pre marital sex make women looser...He said that women were giving the thing men needed the most easily without any strings or responsiblity..

Gauri loved jagat, though she got to know abt him she still married him thinking it was right and also legal...Luckily she never consummated her marriage without knowing the legality. Once the legality issue came to her knowledge, she should have atleast avoided sex...She should have said we will live like before together but we will not have physical relatioship till our marriage becomes legal. This would have pushed jaggu enough to get things sorted by hook or crook. He may be ok with it initially but to have a girl so near and not able to give in to temptation is hard...It was funny to show that mumbai has only righteous ad stupid chaalbazz lawyers...There are many lawyers and a sensible one would have asked Jaggu abt his first wife nature and would have asked him to talk to her and get divorce on mutual consent. Their would also be methods to some how null their false legal marriage...Law is full of loop holes and things can be done...Yes all this would have taken an year or two time...But the wait would have been worth than living the whole life in insecurity...Anyway they were studying and none of their friends were married. It would not have been different if they were determined...

Gauri just offered herself in a golden plate to Jaggu dada knowing how flimsy and bad her position is which irks me...If she had shown thoda smartness inspite of all the screeching she would have been more interesting character.

@vasuja i think i'd also read such type of article & research in sum health section of one of the eng newspapers !!and i think though men r capable of true luv but its natural 4 them 2 get attracted more 2wards sex .even in nature males tend 2 b polygamous !! but as humans've developed themselves & their brains we can't create chaos by cheating.even i our scrpture say that only humans've got karma & karamphal. e.g if a lion kills anoder lion 2 get lioness 4 mating & breeding then it won't b consider as sin & crime but if the same thing is done by human it"ll not just consider as henious crime but a un4giveable sin also!!😊😊

@ vasuja - I think their SR happened in Jetsar

Vasuja I absolutely agree with what you wrote and I think this is the reason which makes me dislike her so much.

Just for sake of stupidity maan lete hai ki chalo fine G loved so you got married to J. I disagree with Doyel about JG consumating at haveli while on aashirvad mission because I refuse to believe G is that incredibly blindly stupid that she will miss more than one period and not think about it! And at their so called SR in haveli...J was thinking about A...and they weren't able to do the deeds due to it.

Its not even about legality...it should have been about...J I married you...you have a wife at haveli...lets get things settled so we can start our life together. But no madam was so so desperate to give herself to J that she tried few times before finally "doing it" on J's bd.

J knows very well that G just speaks...chillati hai par phir sab theek ho jata hai therefore he doesn't take anything she says seriously.

@ KyunkiImafan

Is it necessary that a woman should get pregnant after sleeping with the guy for the first time?
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If JG would not have done the deeds, we would not have seen them hugging at the end 😉

Originally posted by: doyelpakhi

@ KyunkiImafan

Is it necessary that a woman should get pregnant after sleeping with the guy for the first time?
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If JG would not have done the deeds, we would not have seen them hugging at the end 😉

But this is a serial...and serials mei to hug ki bhi jarurat nahi padti...bina kuch kare bhi baccha ho jata hai 😆 😆

My point is if the deeds were done in haveli...G would have missed more than 1 period which should in turn have clicked for her to think and do something...but nah...that wasn't the case. And she herself while asking doc "kaise" realized shoot I didn't use protection 😆😆

wahi to mein bol rahi hoo...is it necessary that G should get pregnant if she had consummated her marriage at Jetsar?

Originally posted by: doyelpakhi

wahi to mein bol rahi hoo...is it necessary that G should get pregnant if she had consummated her marriage at Jetsar?

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Just because she didn't get pregnant doesn't mean they did not do anything at their SR night...after all they hugged and scene faded 😉😆

Oh sorry I was still talking about if G is smart or not...but you're talking about they had SR or not. Then sure they could have I don't mind agreeing 😆

Originally posted by: lkbno1

As a followup to my earlier post on doctors and sex, here are my 2 cents

The video is right, the first thing on the top of the man's head could be sex. But guys, I am also a man, and I wont blame just Gauri for this.

We can take a counter viewpoint to this. In India, one of the ways by which volatile marriages stabilize is by the arrival of the first kid.Par yahaan to shaadi najaayaz hai, to baccha to naajaayaz hi kehlaayega na?Ab jaake Jagya ke paas rone se kya faayda? (ki mera baccha bhi naajayaz kehlaayega). Jagya says hamaari shaadi to legal hai, humne court marriage kiya hai, wapas ladki to ullu banaa raha hai aur woh gadhi ban rahi hai 🥱

Please dont mind ladies, it was quite disappointing to see that the ladies in the forum were blaming Gauri.

.Did you notice how Jagya was happy when he heard the news that woh baap ban ne waala hai?Did he spare a thought for the child? How are you guys convinced ki woh kabhi bhi accha baap banega?

Let us spare a thought for the child. Jagya knows that yeh shaadi najaayaz hai, baccha naajayaz. Gauri, the mother, has every right to ask for the legality of the status of the child. I fully agree with her.

Did Gauri have sex with herself to produce the kid-it was with Jagya. Uska dimaag kya ghaas charne gaya tha?😡 Har baar Jagya kaise choot jata hai?

He also could have told her not to indulge in physical relationship isnt? Kya woh baraabar ka gunehgaar nahin hai ? Also, given that they did indulge in sex and couldnt resist, then emergency contraceptive pills bhi aate hain, doctor rani!! 😡.

The problem is that they arent portraying the 2 of them in bad light as doctors, but as irresponsible parents too!! What do you guys think?