August 18th 2011 Written Update - Page 3

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Posted: 14 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: annika20

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Is this a reason for his result-less SRs and honeymoons?

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Posted: 14 years ago
#22
Thanks for the update Suchi!

J seems to be remembering A more after his second marriage than ever before.😡 He respects her? That's too much to digest! If what he did to her was a way of paying his respects to her, I only hope the word "respect" disappears from the dictionary. Respect my foot, he needs her for his day to day existence and his lame speech of respect is all meaningless. Its unfortunate that one only realizes the value of a person once they are away from them. I better refrain from commenting on him coz I do not want to sound obnoxious.

G the great doest loose a chance to bring A in the conversation and builds up her own insecurities. Now A has become a "yardstick" for her. She wants to be respected as much as A is. Forget it girl, your actions will never be enough to be at par with her. Anyway, you are an individual with your own characteristics which were so good at one point of time. If you can revert to your old thinking and beliefs that will be an achievement in itself for you. On one hand as I expected, i am glad G doesn't take J words on face value due to his past reputation of a 'liar' but on the other hand, their relationship will always stand on thin ice as far as trust in each other is concerned.

Happy to see A getting over J's thoughts- a step in the right direction at the right time. Was I imagining or was she really studying? I hoped so much that the CVs would show her studying in a college in some big city. When her outlook will broaden, she will be in a better position to set an example in front of the village folk and also spread better education. Why can't the CVs show her making a career for herself and also fending for herself. that will make her emotionally, mentally and financially stronger and independent. Her work for social causes can continue thereafter. I know I am expecting too much form them!
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Posted: 14 years ago
#23
@andv

Agreed with every word. I am also irritated at how she is not taking study seriously. I mean, she sits on the bed and leafs through small books as if reading a magazine! I don't see her studying seriously!

A woman like her should need study as a fish needs water! She is still not realising how badly she herself needs to study! Funny how she expects others to study when she herself has given up her education so many times and is unable to concentrate!

I also disliked it how she was itching to go to the kitchen just after coming back from her village tour.

As I said in my first post in this thread, in real life, degree in social work is a serious business! Institutes like TISS have so many different kinds of degrees, diplomas and certificate courses in various branches of social work and their admission process is so difficult! This serial is making a joke of social work related study! Worse thing is that she is not even enrolling for a correspondence course!

Will she keep reading primary school kids' books like magazines and comics in leisure?

It is disappointing how they are not taking her study and her career seriously. This is not how you stand on your feet!

The real inspirational thing would have been when she had continued her own education while also educating others! This current stuff is meaningless and a joke!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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So now jagya 'respects' anandi.😲😲. Wah!! Throw someone out of your life with utter disdain👎🏼 and then claim you respect them,maybe its the monthly checks that earned jaggu's respect..😳
He puts lots of doubts in gauri's mind with respect vs pyar theories and then respectfully goes to sleep🤪--😉uski neend uda ke mahashay khud aaraam se so gaya, kya 🤪character hai..😆.
So now gauri believes jagya lied about divorce because of his long history of lies.🤔Sau jhoot ke baad gauri ko jaggu ke sach parr bhi vishvaas nahi.. .Good, let her try harder for divorce and get her saccha pyar in big trouble...😍

Liked anandi trying to forget memories of 'jis rishte ne ithnii bedardi se haath chhudaa diya.." but she needs to get back to her own studies too🤔,CVs need to show her higher education track too..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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J bechara - kare to kya kare !! how can he explain to Gauri that all the romance moods and the nariyal paani n shopping etc is sponsored by Anandi ? The two belongs on oppposite columns of his balance sheet. Anandi credit, G debit...🤣

Am glad G worries that J being such a smooth liar cannot be trusted so easily. It wud have been really sad to watch if Gauri had been another sweet trusting simple girl. At the very least I have a certain confidence that G can take care of herself in case J slimes out.

Anandi needs to focus on her own studies first b4 she goes around sermonizing why education is necessary. Only once she can show the oldies and women/girls in the village that despite being dumped by her guy, she is able to stand on her own merit - will they listen to her and respect her advice to study.

Currently she is just a rejected beendni of the Haveli - with not much to do to keep herself busy - this I think is how most of her adult-education-campaign critics wud see her.
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Posted: 14 years ago
#26
Anandi shd leave those traditional outfits n get her look changed at least like katrina in Rajneeti by way of college track!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@Annika20 totally agree. The field of social work needs a lot of hard work and in comparison pays very less. how is she planning to fund her work for the needy? Depend on Bhairav for everything? Its her decision to help the people of the village and if she has chosen that as her career path she also needs to contemplate on how to make herself financially independent too.

Moreover to educate others she needs to be educated herself. With the limited education that she has right now she will only be able to impart that much. But if she studies more gets to know how things are done in other more developed areas, she will be better equipped to develop the village and the thinking of the village folk. I totally agree the current track should have been introduced after A makes a career for herself. She needs to take baby steps in the direction of her future and not expect a 360 degree change in herself and the the village in the present circumstances.

BTW you can call me Anita 😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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G had first only told that there r many lawyers in mumbai if nt one then other so al is goin to do find a lawyer so how is dat going to make jagat fal in problem,jagat also talkd to a lawyer bt he refused so dat dint make fal in problem,it find it funy i wud like to know reason how?n j might give divorce i m nt sure bcoz it would the funds that he is geting frm a s account.
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Posted: 14 years ago
#29
@Anita

Agreed. Social workers make money either by writing books or working as academics in colleges and universities. Some are also into social entrepreneurship through which you can serve the society as well as make good money.

The best thing would have been to send Anandi to an institute like TISS and let her have proper education, training, interaction with fellow students, experts and actual change-makers. She could have come back after a leap and changed the face of Jetsar. Plus exposure in outside world would have changed her perspective, her outlook and made her more independent, self reliant and given her clarity. It would have helped her move on from Jagya and that trauma of child marriage.

Or Anandi could have enrolled in a college in Jaipur, traveled everyday and after coming back home she could have taken classes side by side in evening. Or perhaps taken classes on weekends or alternate days of the week..

Even if she had enrolled in a proper degree course from an open university like IGNOU it would have been better. She could manage studies, give exams regularly and get a formal degree.

This whole casual reading of primary students' SST books in leisure and teaching adults is of no use. It's bogus!

If she herself is not able to concentrate and has given up education now and even gave up earlier. How does she expect to convince villagers? And members of Singh family coming to her school is not enough. Are they playing school-school?

And why is she totally dependent on Singhs? Their name, their reputation, their finances, their presence?!! Will she ever do anything on her own?! Or will they spoon-feed her forever?

How will she handle her social work properly when she has no formal education or even training?

I find the current track hopeless and just another way to keep Singh family in picture, keep Anandi docile and far-removed from modernity or progress and ever-dependent on Singhs to facilitate her each and every intention!

Education of villagers would have been acceptable either if Anandi was also studying side by side or after she completed her study.

BTW, you can also call me Anu.

I would have liked it if she had studied (if not law or medicine then even degree in social work or development studies), or started an NGO or organised some movement or perhaps started a cooperative or some self help group for women which helps them work as well as earn!
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Posted: 14 years ago
#30
@Tanvi ,

Consultation might not cause a problem, but filing a divorce will because it will show bigamy ad jail term , some very hoest lawyer can charge him for givig wrong info to the court, all legally prosecuted and punishable offences.

Jagat himself ca ever file a divorce, it will be Anandi's call always, y will J go to prison, he is a selfish prat or u believ that out of luv he might go and serve the term.

Refer to all the legal posts o the forum, all the crimes and punishments have been extensively discussed in the forum!

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