Precisely, I was also thinking along these lines following past few episodes. G has gotten with severe guilt that she is not able to control herself. whomever she talks to are speaking the TRUTH be it BB, sumitra, gehna, now phoolie and the villagers. the more truth she hears the more guilty she becomes and realizes her mistake of accepting jagat. that is the reason for her breakdown. in order to hide her guilt she expresses anger on anandi pacifying herself by making anandi reason for her situation.
actually i seriously doubt whether she loves jagat truly. as bharion said she entered haveli with a sole motive to show them that this is what she deserves. she needs acceptance to forget her past and make fool of the family.
Jagat is a gone case. CVs have spoilt his character that i wonder how they make him resurrect himself from what happened to his character. because he needs to become a loving jagya whom we saw earlier to make him comeback to anandi. otherwise, viewers will not accept him back with anandi. so, it is really a tough task for CVs to bring back old jagya. Keeping anandi's love for jagya and the relationship they developed for 16 years, i definitely think that Jaan are going to come back together, even if do not want to.
Hope Gauri realizes her mistake and take anandi's side. both should reform jagat to jagya. that is what CVs have to think about now.