Is Gauri being punished for Jagya wrong-doings??

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Posted: 14 years ago
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It has been on my mind for a while. What do you guys feel about it.
What I want to say is that I really don't like the whole idea of how everyone is just dead set at humiliating Gauri to make her look like the bad bad girl. Its not actually Gauri who did the wrong thing. In the end, when she got married, yes she was wrong. But on the whole Gauri should not be blamed for the mess that has been created.
It is out and out all Jags fault.
Why doesn't dadisa want to punish him? Why not spoil his image in front of Gauri? Why humiliate her in front of the whole family? Why not make him the 'bali ka bakra'.
Just because he is the son of the family and you want him to be with the first wife, why spare him? Its just not fair.
Why should it be Gauri who should have to take all the blame and the continuous and repetitive insult?

Even if dadisa suceeds in her plan , I won't really be happy about that. It was because of dadisa's insenstivity that the girl had to suffer initially and now also since dadisa wants her 'pota' back its Gauri who will suffer bcoz dadisa will be able to again get him all he wants and just get Gauri off his mind,that is, if she succeeds in her plan.
I really don't want her plan to work. I don't care if they are able to stay together for long or not but I don't want that spoilt brat to have it all.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Well said dear...Jagya is getting away easily. gauri is also wrong though and she is pushing herself a lot and inviting trouble. when was DS just?? she loves her sons and potas a lot...so she will do her best to keep them with her... I think DS plan will succeed in breaking GAGA but I don't think that she will be able to unite JAAN... sometning is gonna happen that is going to make anandi opt for divorce and get away... then they will show her study and then leap...otherwise serial will loose its TRP again.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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for DS.. its simple.. J is her pota.. he mite have done wrong and wud reprimand him later on.. may b.. bt right now her prime concern is G.. and giving A her right... for DS, G was a closed chapter.. G mrg with J was indeed cancelled.. it was over for DS and Singh family...

also Y shud DS think abt G.. when she didnt seek their permission or counselling before marrying J even after knowing everything abt J-A.. it was her own decision to marry him.. to come to Jetsar.. to stay back.. and to get insulted! its G's own choice.. only 3 ppl can stand for her.. she herself, J or her own parents.. with the other 2 not ther to support her she have to fight on her own for her own self-respect.. bt the problem is she is not true to herself either..
Agreed J shud b punished.. and Bhairon is hell bent on doing tht.. cant expect A to punish J.. coz she is still blinded.. bt she did rebuke him... DS has taken a step to make J feel guilty.. the confusion tht he is going thru is hell lot of punishment.. its mental torture in a way.. he is not living an easy life.. his r'ship with G is not running smooth either.. its effects can b seen in discordant G_J rship.. its jst tht CVs r not highlighting it.. coz their main TRP churner is the fight of soutens and not torturing of J.. eventually the blame wud come on J.. bt G wud b equally held responsible.. and both of them wud go thru enuf pain wen they wud learn tht their mrg is indeed ilegal!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thats because as you mentioned jagat is the son of the house, i hink they are under the assumption if they get rid of gauri from his life then he will come back to anandi. But you are right jagat has not been punished enough i want so see some of this negativity and insult dished out his way as well, looks lile because he is not openiing hia mouth and saying anyhing peolle have forgotten about him.

I also done want him to go back to anandi, whats to say tuis wint happen again in the future.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I hope Anandi gets a career and dumps Jagya and finds someone nicer like Shyam. And I also hope Gauri goes more psychotic and Jagya is stuck with her.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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But Jagya doesn't go around begging for approval or appreciation from the family. For whatever reason, he is silent and his movements are limited to his room or to the outdoors khet. He does not even talk to dadisa unless it is absolutely necessary. He does not give scope for getting insulted.

Gauri keeps getting insulted because she keeps insisting on inflicting her presence and trying to make kheer and chai and sit next to people and initiate conversation with them. When the villagers came, she could have left, but no she had to go and bring chai and laddoos. I feel gauri invites the opportunities for others to insult her.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Maybe next she will go on an acceptance mission from the villagers. And frankly Jagya is not at all the supportive husband. His attitude is 'this is how it works here and this is what Anandi did so you better do it too'. I guess nothing more than this can be expected from this worm.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Of course she is being punished ... Don't you know, its always the woman who is evil never the man ...


Gauri was wrong to get married ... besides that, its all Jagya's fault ... Not that I expected DS to be fair, but yesterday i got the feeling that even anandi thinks its pretty much ONLY gauri's fault ...

She keeps saying jagya is lost, that he IS her entire life ... And had she been in gauri's place she wouldn't have done what gauri did ... Maybe she should be saying this to Jagya. that had i been in your place, i wouldn't have treated my best friend so shabbily ...

There is going to be no one else for anandi, i am sure ... unless and until it is only to provoke jagya's jealousy ... In the end gauri whi going to be branded the evil, manipulative witch who let poor jagya astray ... He is going to get off free ...


I am so disappointed that the CVs have decided to tuen gauri into the negative element of the show
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Jagya has already been punished for his misdeeds. He has been rebuked and been victim of a slap-fest already. Prolly the only person who has not slapped him so far is Makhan Singh. His parents have broken all ties with him and he's been cut off without a penny. He's been forced to borrow money and sell his things. He's learned his lesson somewhat and come to understand that he is nothing without the family standing behind him.

However, he was ready to forego it all for the love of Gauri. He was interested in going back to the city and resuming his studies after getting married. It was Gauri who insisted on coming back here.
I doubt she ever loved Jagya.

Gauri showed an interest in Jagya's family only when they stopped supporting him financially. Till then she was happy living with the deposit and rent that Jagya paid. Not once in the 5 years that she was with Jagya did she show the slightest curiosity about his family. Once money stopped flowing in, she decided to visit them and plead on Jagya's behalf.

When she found out which family Jagya came from, she was traumatised but not so much that she could not overcome her scruples to marry him after just one night of separation. Even after marriage, she was back to the family mission - take their blessing ( in effect reinstate the financial help). She is the one who is creating all the situations of her own humiliation. She must've realised as soon as she entered that no one would accept her. But she refuses to give up - why?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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It's basic human nature. People usually don't think of others. They will only think about their own family, own happiness first. And it's not anything unusual although i agree that it's wrong on DS's part but still that's the way we all are. Most of us will think about ourselves, our family, our happiness first and not of someone whom we hardly know. But as I said it's all wrong on DS's part to do but that is how most of us are.

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