Originally posted by: --Amulya--
The way the things are shown seem real but let's be realistic, A girl who's born like Meera in a rich family, Can she ever adjust in a such a huge joint family with minimum money sufficient to live on!! I don't thik this is possible, how good the guy be but one day she will be vexed up with everything and would definitely go back to her dad if this happens in real life as love doesn't last forever and much more is needed to live happily. Will she able to serve that big family for her whole life, it isn't an easy task, cooking and doing everything else and that too she would become the badi bhabhi who should be the most responsible jut next to her hubby.
This is my personal opinion. I come from a middle class family and I'm practical enough to know that I can't live that way.
I agree that in general, a girl from a rich family will not be able to manage in this family. And this might be the reason for Yuvraj and his wife separating away. And this is the reason why amma and Prahlad are keen on this marriage taking place. But here in Meera's case, there is a difference... firstly, Meera doesn't quite care for extreme riches. And secondly, she is someone who has never been able to fit into her family. But with the Pants, she is able to feel like she belongs there... so it's not just her love for Abhishek but she genuinely likes the family too.
But even then, I agree that after the wedding, there will be adjustment issues from both sides... and if the show wasn't ending, then they could have shown how they all work out the issues and manage things.
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