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Posted: 3 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

I don’t agree at all. He was all talks and less actions. For eg: after knowing why Priya got Akki Shivi married, he still messaged Adi whether annulment papers were ready. He never asked Priya’s opinion. Then when he wanted to save his image & company, he expected Priya to support him unconditionally. He never gave her confidence that the marriage was real. Poor girl was adjusting a lot for her brother & his marriage. When Shubhu, Sid & Vedika we’re caught, he went mute. So many such instances where Ram was a let down. Last incident was he left Priya and went with his sister. What was he smoking by the way. Priya returned just for saving her brothers marriage. What Adi said was correct, instead of telling Priya abt his ex, he went to the bakery with his ex and had cake. And he complains a lot about Priya to his friends & her family. Priya had never ever complained about him even once. Frankly no girl would like to have a husband like him. Worst was his behavior during his birthday

I do not deny any of what you said. But I feel there is a side of him which needs Priya. Thats the problem with Ram , he needs it all his way. And his way to a large extant is what Nandini needs . Thats where the conflict is going to start. Because now his needs are going to start being different from Nandini nd co. His need to have Priya by his side and Nandini wanting Priya out of KM
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Posted: 3 years ago
#62

The problem with men is that they are ready for the physical aspect that comes with marriage even though they are not bonded emotionally with wife. It’s the way they are created. Ram has got the same. He is attracted to her and it’s the only woman whom he could never impress with his herogiri, money or gifts. I will never say Ram is a perfect husband material. For finding perfect husband material characters, you need to watch Korean dramas esp their 2nd leads are of that type 🤪

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Posted: 3 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

I was watching RAYA scenes on YouTube something I noticed is that Ram wants more from this relationship. It's true in between he gets side tracked. He wants to share a life with his wife just like any other couple , but he also knows that the reason for their was not like normal couple and now he has reached a stage where he doesn't care how it all started , all that matters to him is that he want Priya also to reciprocate his feelings.

He is trying his level best to make her comfortable with his presence and emotional support but the point he is missing is that he is taking help from wrong people. Their ideas will only move him away from her. He needs to first reach out to her as friend and start those small talks ..nd communicate with her.

How I wish Vedika s truth is out.


Absolutely, even I reminisced some of the early episodes today and thought, even in arranged marriage the 2 people meet and decide if they really want to spend their life together and once they make that decision. there is a period for courtship to know EO, likes displaces or at least get comfortable in each other’s company. Sometimes people start setting up their new nest together.

In this case, these 2 were complete strangers and moreover did not make a decision thinking of sharing their life, it came as a by product of the fact that they are married. Their awareness about each other’s past and the commitment they made that they would not encroach EO’s space and impose the relationship on EO was a good and a mature decision but is definitely a deterrent for them to progress. Hence the hesitation to speak their minds and usual monologues, where you are always worried how the other person might perceive.

Actually, both of them want to progress the relationship and find comfort in each other, although they have not expressed it directly.Because they declared that their relationship is based on someone else’s or that they took the leap for their family, they feel guilty to prioritise their own choice and well being. The feel scared to even say that no matter what happens to anyone else in their families, they want to be together, it’s not about others any more it’s about them.

This is also because they are not fully sure what the other person thinks, and hence always scared and feel a constant threat to their relationship that if anything goes wrong slightly the other person may leave or walk away from the relationship.


Would love if the show progresses this way:

Some genuine instance (not Kachori, auto or over dramatic.. ) something simple like what they showed earlier - like Ram overhearing Priya and her father’s conversation and Priya sees him this time, makes Priya vent out her past to him, like why and how she broke how with Neeraj, involuntarily she bares her soul to him, let’s him see her scars. This way he understands her better.

Knowing this side of Priya, gives Ram the confidence to take the right decision and tell Priya about Vedika and explain her that he did not want to betray her although his actions did amount to the same. She understands him and his insecurities better and his fear of losing her.


Ram, finds some aspects of Vedika’s behaviour fishy and confronts her which catches her unaware and she is rattled enough to expose her true self to him. His friends can play a role in this and he decides to cancel her from his life. Tells clearly to the entire family and Vedika without any guilt, the place Priya holds in his life. This way he redeems all his mistakes when he did not trust Priya or give them the respect she deserves.


This can follow with confessions and when they are deeply in love, Virendra Kapoor’s murder thread resumed… which is the litmus test for their relationship … whether he is able to keep his relationship away from this storm, the torment, the dilemma in determining what is right and wrong.


This would easily take 30-40 episodes and filler episodes can be with more positive characters helping them move towards each other. This solves the CV’s problem that the story would get over if confess come early it would still have a lot of mettle to continue for a few more months.


P.S: Was thinking since many days, how it would make the show memorable and do justice to the brilliant actors.
Hence the long post ☺️

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Posted: 3 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: Amphitrite

Priya though is unapologetic while keeping her point of view

She ain't a typical impulsive person



Can Ram once ask her what she likes?

Itna kya apni biwi se darna...🤣

@bold green: he did once… 1st day at his home, the nada dance wala episode… 🤣

he thinks as if priya is like a topper of the class who came for nightout , goes out all charismatic, offers Upma and asks of her likes and dislikes, so that he can note down in his phone’s notes🤣

priya se itna herogiri hazam nahi hua hoga😆

She simply replied, we have our whole lives ahead of us to know eo’s preferences…

Also, a small observation:

There is A running loop of drama reg. this in the show,

Initially priya asks ram to not change her preferences in drunk state, later,Priya tells in an interview, that she might not find his preferences of his past palatable…Later, vedu and neeru try to create mu between RaYa, they insist that their preferential habits are changing slowly… now , recently, she is completely comfortable in the preference of loose opened hair , instead of tied up hair, that she mentions to her sister..

Edited by TheCoolDocSid - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: Amphitrite

Priya though is unapologetic while keeping her point of view

She ain't a typical impulsive person



Can Ram once ask her what she likes?

Itna kya apni biwi se darna...🤣

At first priya was a bit unapologetic (though she always had a golden heart) but now she is unapologetic to only evil people not towards others👏. Just want her to be more intelligent to see vedika and nandini's intentions😃

Ram and priya main problem is lack of communication once that happens everything is solved❤️

Anyways I am still liking this serial but this serial has a big factory of negative characters🤣

Edited by Biggboss15 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
#66

Originally posted by: TheCoolDocSid

@bold green: he did once… 1st day at his home, the nada dance wala episode… 🤣

he thinks as if priya is like a topper of the class who came for nightout , goes out all charismatic, offers Upma and asks of her likes and dislikes, so that he can note down in his phone’s notes🤣

priya se itna herogiri hazam nahi hua hoga😆

She simply replied, we have our whole lives ahead of us to know eo’s preferences…

Also, a small observation:

There is A running loop of drama reg. this in the show,

Initially priya asks ram to not change her preferences in drunk state, later,Priya tells in an interview, that she might not find his preferences of his past palatable…Later, vedu and neeru try to create mu between RaYa, they insist that their preferential habits are changing slowly… now , recently, she is completely comfortable in the preference of loose opened hair , instead of tied up hair, that she mentions to her sister..

Yeh preferences, favourites pe hi pura show chala sakte hai tbh


The funniest part of yesterday's episode was I guess the way Vedika and Nandini anticipated so much of an outburst but recieved nothing

I agree...there was a time when Priya wasn't too keen about open hair as such...

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Posted: 3 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: Biggboss15

At first priya was a bit unapologetic (though she always had a golden heart) but now she is unapologetic to only evil people not towards others👏. Just want her to be more intelligent to see vedika and nandini's intentions😃

Ram and priya main problem is lack of communication once that happens everything is solved❤️

Anyways I am still liking this serial but this serial has a big factory of negative characters🤣

Priya will still call a spade a spade...but she now sees the intentions before bursting out

This show is pretty good tbh...compare it to other shows this is actually pretty nice

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Posted: 3 years ago
#68

Originally posted by: Amphitrite

Yeh preferences, favourites pe hi pura show chala sakte hai tbh


The funniest part of yesterday's episode was I guess the way Vedika and Nandini anticipated so much of an outburst but recieved nothing

I agree...there was a time when Priya wasn't too keen about open hair as such...

Bold: Their reaction was worth watching ek kachori ke liye unka popat ho gaya🤣🤣
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Posted: 3 years ago
#69

Originally posted by: Balh2fan

No… KHKT… Dr. Surgeon wala 😆

oh rohit sippy wala that was one of my fav shows 😆 itv male leads r very forgettable for me but rohit sippy wasnt 😆 but they messed up the show after ronakshi’s marriage 🙄
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Posted: 3 years ago
#70

Originally posted by: Biggboss15

Bold: Their reaction was worth watching ek kachori ke liye unka popat ho gaya🤣🤣

Itni hasi aayi na mujhe

Vedika still said they lost but nahi Nandini toh alag hi sur pe baj rahi hai

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