RAYA decisions: Are they alike????

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Guys as in the show they are portraying that the decisions of separation taken by priya first and then by ram are same...is this is the real case well...
When priya has took decision to leave ram and went to dubai , such priya has taken for ram so that he can live happily and can move on as she was going to jail and with her his life will also get stop and more over she has decided that she will surrender herself to police( when she came out KM she said that to herself that she will surrender as she is a criminal law eyes ) now this is other thing that her destiny took her to dubai and after knowing the truth that she pregnant she didn't return but she has tried to inform ram about the same but another foolishness is she tried this only one night and not other day to call him as she believed that he was trying to move on , now this foolishness was shown by her as leap has to be taken and for that a story is cooked up in this way and afterwards her decision proved wrong but the main thing is she has taken such decision for betterment of her love, for her husband may be for herself ( but she didn't thought about herself that time , that if she return then she will go to jail ) but she took such decision as the reason is ram or her and not for any random third person and what ram did ????He took decision to divorce priya and to get separated from her for third person. He has not taken such decision for himself or for priya i.e for his love or for his wife but for any other person. His decision is also proved wrong as priya is back and his all happiness lies in her but what if 1 minute late he would have got and marriage had taken place that day , will he be able to live any further after that or he would have regretted his such foolish decision, by God's grace this hasn't happened and RAYA are still together but is his this decision is same as of priya's because priya took such decision for her love and husband but still she hadn't divorced him and he has divorced her and taken such decision for any random third person.

Well if he was also happy in such decision, then I would have thought that ok his happiness was there in such decision but he was also not happy and done that only for sake of third person
This is only selfless or daya wanta or in short sacrifice...

Love says that take decisions for your love and love and world always stands on opposite edges. And when situations are so similar are these two decisions by priya and then by ram are same??????
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devmohan thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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So guys please tell are these situations and the two decisions taken by them are same????

All views will be welcomed and respected...😊
Edited by devmohan - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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yah i agree wid u de r not same
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Posted: 11 years ago
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yeah i agree with u ram and priya has taken decision as priya think if she will be in jail so ram has to suffer by seeing her in jail so he should move on and ram has taken decision reminding that priya will understand the situation of ram and will trust him when he decide to divorce priya
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Posted: 11 years ago
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both are did that for their love nothing beyond that.But ...

in priya's situation

less foolishness in her decision.

Because at priya's situation, she take the decision to aviod many problems.

she has no other option at that time(may be one telling the truth and went jail,and sit simply,both are cring jail bars inbitween them)

Pbm created only in their happiness.


in Ram's situation,

his decisions create irrepairable pbms.

he has many other options

pbm created in their relationship,love,life.

comparison

But she may come after next 9 years also(totally 14)
then also pihu will be his own daughter .

But if that one minute power cut is not happened juhi will become mrs.juhi ram kapoor.

in ayesha's case she was illegal.But in juhi's case priya would be become illegal.


doubt:

if ram juhi marriage completed at the first attempt(missed in only one minute)

-after that priya wake up-any of his child(pari or myra not pihu)didnot want to stay with him-want to live with her mom(situation same as that of naina)

-priya lives at rajat's house,as ha is ram's friend(as same as that of juhi is priya's friend)
-and priya's child call him as'dad'(if pihu accept juhima after fifteen years than priya's other child also can accept rajat as raju_pa)

- will ram give the custody to priya

- will he accept his child calling other man as 'dad'

-then in which basis he want that rajeev should lose in case.
Rajeev also father(there may be any reason to his absence for these seven years who knows he may be in coma also),

-none of the man will accept his kid calling other as 'dad'

if ram is in rajeev's situation he may be more rude like he tried to get custody after knowing pihu is his daughter.I think at the time he concentrate only on pihu not on priya like Rajeev doing nowadays

if he is a good friend after getting close to juhi friend

as a friend 1)he should tried solve the pbm bitween juhi-rajeev in these seven years,

2)atleast once he should talk with him after he make troubles.

3)if the pbm is severe he should search for other life partner for juhi,who will give support to her and naina.(like neha-vikram doing for ram in the absence of priya)



now also he has one option to join ex.husband and and ex.wife as husband and wife by solving their pbms.please CVs do that please


all we were discused too much about the following (so no need to waste time in this)

priya:pbms are some what avoided ,

1)14 years jail sentence pain both will suffer

2)after knowing ashwin's secret pihu behaved as a evil.think if she born at the jail think what she will think about her mother.(After 5 years only ram proved priya as innocent)

after she born if they given to the baby to ram also,he will upbring her in the same way what he did for these seven years.

3)priya hand over all the responsibilities to take care of ram to her beloved ones(natz,rishab,vikram,neha)(they can reduce the ram's pain but can't replace the place of priya.But what to do there is no option.

Ram:

1)only custody custody custody, when he has many options to get the custody.



Edited by ramlila - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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what do you want hear dev
Ram doesnt love her is this want you want to hear fine he doesnt lover her Happy?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mala_singh143

They are not same

But ont thing is also true

Priya was back to india only for Kady if ram hasnt seen her accidentally

a father will always be unaware of his flesh and blood


agree with you... This situation wouldn't have arrived if Lady was not here in mumbai.. These if and else are a lots in numbers that we would get into illusion.. So better to stop doing discussion on past.. My point of view..
RK is wrong here.. In one place he was so confident that Priya would be back but in other place hw divorced Priya and agreed to Marry Juhi.. And most importantly he not revealing truth to Priya even after this court drama which is wrong... I am an ardent fan of RK but have to accept his flaws...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Priya decision was less foolishness than Ram decision of divorcing priya n ready for a grand wedding...with juhi
Whatever decision Priya took long ago was only for Ram happiness...it was a foolish decision...Agree...
But whatever decision Ram took was for someone else happiness...it was completely disgusting...
Plz don't compare Priya foolish decision to Ram's sin...
Edited by simlavidhi - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mala_singh143

They are not same

But ont thing is also true

Priya was back to india only for Kady if ram hasnt seen her accidentally

a father will always be unaware of his flesh and blood


Agree... She came to India for kady... Because Ram had already moved on in his life...
He married Ayesha... N the way Ayesha was introduced as Mrs Ram Kapoor n after that Kush as their son... What u expect from Priya????

Priya's decision of not returning to ram was correct...only my POV
Priya is a very self esteem n independent character in this show...
Edited by simlavidhi - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ramdeewani

what do you want hear dev

Ram doesnt love her is this want you want to hear fine he doesnt lover her Happy?


Hahaha...You are too much, taking the post as a bashing one ... in fact I mentioned also every ones views will be respected but I think you are getting personal ..., You are missing what the real reason behind this post, I just want to tell that cvs are portraying characters of ram and priya as if they are living in satyug and other characters in kalyug why???? I mean why can't raya can think of themselves if others can think... Is the reason is, because that the viewers will call them that they are selfish , but this is not the case , in love all think for their loved ones then why can't raya ... why they always sacrifice for others????

And one more thing I also love raya i.e ram and priya both and never doubted ram love for priya , His love for priya cannot be questioned and same goes for priya's love for ram, I love both of these characters but that doesn't mean that if they take any wrong or foolish decision also I will support them, well as a well wisher I always want them to be far away from all problems and be together and please this post is only for knowing the views so let it be there only don't take this as a bashing one and don't get personal , these all are fictional characters and all the characters are portraying what cvs or their writers want them to do...

As a fan of characters ram and priya I always want them to be happy but if they take any wrong decision then it is also clear that I will not support them and this is my POV.

This only what we do in case of friendship also , if one friend do some thing wrong we doesn't support them but tell them that you are wrong and rectify your mistake and this called the true friendship is but not that one where whatever a friend do whether correct or not but I am with you as I love you no this is not true friendship is, I will not support any wrong decision of my friend but tell her to rectify the same and I will support my friend in that and taking correct steps.

One more thing the post is for healthy discussion so be free to put up your views here in that way only but don't take it as a bashing one and personal. All views will be respected.
Edited by devmohan - 11 years ago

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