Happy Priya n Rajat Guys!!!!|MOD NOTE p.39 - Page 28

Originally posted by: cooldreams

<font color="#0000CC" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">@Bold - I'm puzzled with that expression of Priya. I won't say I was terribly upset or super elated with the infamous dance yesterday..I was plain ok with Rajat & Priya dance to be honest...but what was the need for so much intimacy when <font size="2">they </font>danced together. Of course Ram danced too but there was no zooming of camera o<font size="2">n </font>his hand over Anushka's waist..and there wasn't any ooh-aah-ouch wala feeling from Ram. Cheapest Dance I have ever seen...I've a feeling Rajat<font size="2">'s truth </font>is very soon<font size="2"> going to be out<font size="2"> <font size="2">in front of Priya...and waiting for her reaction. Yesterday for me, it felt like Ram and <font size="2">Priya just brought the worst out of <font size="2">each other. Highly disappointed in RaYa.</font> </font></font></font></font></font>

Thanks for making it clear once again what we r feeling.

Originally posted by: vineetha87

In Ram's POV what Priya did was something which he could never forgive. It hurts a lot when you lose a dear one. Priya meant the world to Ram. I agree that Priya's intentions were good. But what she did was wrong. And after her deliberate separation from him for 5 years Ram did ackwoledge her as his wife. I'm sure most men wouldnt do that. That shows his love. Priya says she is not willing to lose Pihu's custody. Why? Why is she not willing to give Pihu to Ram? If she had the right to keep her for herself then he has it too. Ram doesnt keep Pihu away from Priya. He just wants to make up for the loss he incurred. And I didnt say that Priya danced to insult Ram. I said it was to irritate Ram. Priya has been insulting Ram since so may episodes now. It's not that I doubt Priya's intentions. I would like to see the couple together too.

the only point i have to make here is that priya is not willing to give up custody because of pihu , not because of herself - pihu cannot be passed on suddenly after 5 years like a ball to the other parent !...it would have avery detrimental effect on her pshyche and her growth if she is taken away suddenly by ram after having been brought up by and having only known, relied on, been with priya for five years- she is totally dependent on her !...ram needs to be slowly integrated into her life with priya helping it along like she is doing right now - she is not a possesion to do fifty fifty with - 5 years with priya now suddenly a five year old child is to be passed on to ram for another five years !!...whether priya has done any wrong to ram or not - pihu cant suffer for that - besides no 5 year old child should be made to live away from her mother !! - even courts give custody to fathers only after a child has grown up till 14 atleast unless very very rare circumstances occur - it doesnt even need a pshycologist to tell you its a shitty idea to do this to pihu right now...ram has to understand that as a grown up man !- priya hasnt denied him access to pihu nor stopped him in anyway from being there for her - infact she's done the opposite - helped him to come closer to pihu - whether they want to stay together or not ( and ofcourse we all desire that and even know that will happen), ram has to be mature enough to know that he and priya have to come together and find a way for both of them to be there for the child ...he needs to sort out his issues with priya seperately instead of letting pihu be dragged into this kind of a shit - a custody battle is horrible to even contemplate when so many other options havent even been thought about by him, let alone discussed !!!!!!!

And by the way - i'm blaming the CVs here - for showing ram in such a foolish light constantly !!

Originally posted by: Pinky.Raya

It was NOT JUST a dance... Ok ? It was physical intimate & had haddhi in it... Due respect to u,dear... Haddhi is NOT a Part of BALH.. He is not evn meant to be here... I mean The Dance that u claim to b JUST is not it.. RaYa's First Dance.. U knw hw many memories we rayaians have wid it... This JUST A Dance of urs was filthy,absurd,and uncalled for... ! If u were a true RaYa fan u will never support haddhi or priya.. I m disappointed to see such traitors here.. Your view your shit.. U just got me rilled up !

For your last sentence -"Your view your shit.. U just got me rilled up"

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If u have to be a fan and under all circumstances love ram and bash priya for not loving and lying prostrate with grief and sorrow for him every minute of her life and bash both rajat and priya for even breathing - please do so ...just dont give shitty logic with shitty posts for a shitty plot and use even shittier language ...am not even going to bother with such stuff now onwards - keep your views to yourself !

mani u still here? i skipped epi and good coz it was a ktv epi with traces of balh 🤣

@Shama79

Originally posted by: armanz

@Vineetha thanks for understanding that we were doing healthy debate not bashing.

Originally posted by: vineetha87

@Shama79

Pihu is not a ball. I agree. And courts worldwide give custody of children to mothers. It stints the growth of a child when he/she is separated from either of the parents. Children miss their fathers too. I have tried to make a point in all my posts here- That a father is equally important. There are Papa ki paris out in the world just like there are millions of mamma ke chamches. Children should be protected from any kind of mental stress. That's true.(BTW it's good for Priya that she met Ram at least after 5 years. Because if Pihu was a grownup and came to know about what Priya did Pihu herself would have found it hard to forgive her mom ). Ram is okay with Priya being around Pihu. He justs wants the 'CUSTODY' . Both the parents know that their child is not a ball to possess. But after all what happened they are not willing to transfer the ownership.😆(I'm Sorry). Priya kept Pihu for herself 5 years back and Ram wants to do the same.

The child must not suffer. No issues. That should be the priority. But why should Ram always understand? He's suffered a lot in his life too. How hard it must have been for him to survive when Priya was not with him? Priya knew he was safe at home. And he thought he was all alone. You tend to pamper your child after he/she comes back home after a day at school. Ram's heart is filled with all the love in the world which he wishes to shower on his child. As we all know he loves Priya too but how is it possible for anybody to forget this kind of agony and behave like nothing has happened? You just cant delete your memories with a single keystroke.

Who is denying ram to do whatever he wants with the child - ofcourse the father is important and that is why priya is integrating him into her life ...if pihu is not a ball what is this talk of ownership you are talking about??? its not possible for pihu to stay with ram rather than priya at this age when she's only known priya as a mother - that's the bottomline. Nobody owes her, i find this very childish- if for a reason one parent is seperated , then u possibly cant take revenge on the child - its not a question of ram only understanding - if he cares for the welfare of the child , he has to understand - nobody is denying his sentiments- they find this idea that instead of even exploring alternatives , he's all set for a custody case. NO RESPONSIBLE PARENT WHATEVER THEY SUFFER WOULD PUT A CHILD THROUGH A CUSTODY CASE UNLESS THERE WAS ABSOLUTELY NO ALTERNATIVE LEFT - and ram hasn' even come around to sitting down and talking to priya about finding a solution for the child's sake only! what is this bizzare love for your child that you can only be satisfied through custody and possesion whatever it does to your child - he's a forty year old man not a kid not to know its serious repercussions for his won child who's grown up with only a mother for so long - he better grow up !

bhaad mein gaya dance yest raya scene was fab truly magical n looked like soulmates i just loved it

Originally posted by: ramsakshiroxxx

bhaad mein gaya dance yest raya scene was fab truly magical n looked like soulmates i just loved it

I neva said Ram was right in moving the court. The child has to be together with both the parents. I just cant agree to the opinion that a mother is more important to a child than a father. Priya did say that she was willing to get back together with Ram. It was only after Ram decided to move the court that she was forced to fight against him. But I dont really think she is doing it for Pihu's good alone. She has already voiced her fear of being separated from her child. Ram had gone through the pain. Ram is wrong. But Priya is wrong too. The separation was painful for her as well but it hurt him more beacuse she 'decided' what should happen in his life. Everybody should have the right to decide what is good/ bad for him/her. Whatever noble reason Priya had behind taking such a painful step he was deeply hurt. And his bitterness should not be transferred to the child. He should have acted in a mature way. But this is not the first time he is being hurt. Most of the significant incidents/issues/ events in his life were hidden from him by his mother, step-mom, brother, best friends and wife. You cant 'expect' a hurt heart to think wisely after suffering so much. I think he is behaving like a normal person. He loves his wife and his daughter and deep inside his heart he knows that Pihu needs her mother too. But he is just not able to forget the 5 years of agony. He is in a troubled situation. One's experiences in life affects his ability to take decisions.