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Originally posted by: rehana11
rehana u and i always have a diff opinion, as far as nehas actions count 😉
He did not say all the right things - what the hell, i have serious problems if without even explaining why he pushed for a divorce for 3 years , @ bold where did that happen they were not fighting for div for three yesrs? abhi tou aya ha rehan , three years kaha se agaye and neha told priya that SHE wanted divorce coz she thought k frind tou reh ga !!he 's recounting her current behaviour only! She went away because u could not accept the fact that she had a life before u came on the scene - she went away coz she couldn't FACE the kids She ran away and what it led to the kids automatically blaming the dad!!t had nothing to do with what happened after that ...
What kind of a model husband are u - that is just what he is saying, i dnt want to be the perfect hubby i dnt wnat to be an ideal hubby i am human👏👏👏when u cant take a past which was dead and gone for neha too - this is part of human relationships - what kind of a bizzare possesiveness is this that u cant take the fact that someone u loved might have had a past - then none of us should give anyone a second chance - the son now is not something she had any control over tooo - things would have been very different if she'd known about the son perhaps when she met vikram...but she did not know and please grow u ut of this fairytale understanding of human relationships where u are supposed to love only one person all your life -looking at neha all in season one i feel she would have been the same !! she also wouldnt have been able to accept viks kid with anyone! it is not easy to allow a new person in your family !!..arre now u 're talking about neha going away - u want to divorce ur wife for something like this but dont want to give her a space after 3 years of negotiation to go away for a little while??? where did u get three years?? and he is not asking divorce she is!! see priya neha conv againshe did try negotiating- he couldnt come to terms with it and then she left for a little while - he cant take care of the house for a few days ? the moment he got hurt she came back... nope she came back for her kids wish to cook meal thne he got hurt so she stayed back as kids would have to do ghar k kaam, u dnt see how even if he has no duties toward the rehan he is taking care of him, he brought him home after his responsible maa refused, he took him to doc, when rehan came he gave bhim the chance ot mingle??
and comparing it with ram's situation was even worse- Ram has a legitimate hurt to deal with- prya did something as his wife in a current relationship which hurt- whatever her reasons , the fact that sh edecided to leave him and dissapear for 5 years is very legitimate grounds for hurt in a relationship ...this can hardly be compared in anyway for what was neha's past even before she met him and a son she had no knowledge ...what kind of an ideal husband are you if u cant take this fact ?? accepting it meangi the fact is diff and he has accepted it as he does take care of rehan but accepting rehna as a part of his family as neha wants is different and thati feel is not practical!!the real test of the maturity of a relationship is this...anyways am gong ot make a topic soon so look fwd to seing u there😉
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