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Posted: 12 years ago
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Don't you think they are very strong????

Nandini- a woman who has found out her husband's true colours after he died.she has lost her child.she found out that meera and aniruddh weren't just friends. then meera is pregnant with aniruddh's child after she lost her child???

don't u feel for her???


and meera?? the woman who never knew that she was in love with a married man...she tried to support nandini like a friend..she was treated soo badly by her lover's family...she had come to give them a reason to live...but she found out all the secrets that she never knew...despite not doing anything wrong she still tolerated all the taunts and accusations made on her

isn't she strong to tolerate everything without a word


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Posted: 12 years ago
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I personally think nandini is stronger than meera.
Nandini has lived through the death of her husband , the death of her child , the affair of his husband.
While meera is definitely hurt, and she doesn't deserve this.
She called this upon herself.
At least she has a child , now getting the privileges from the family ...
She is also told to be "the true love" of Anirudh
While nandini feels rejected

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

I personally think nandini is stronger than meera.
Nandini has lived through the death of her husband , the death of her child , the affair of his husband.
While meera is definitely hurt, and she doesn't deserve this.
She called this upon herself.
At least she has a child , now getting the privileges from the family ...
She is also told to be "the true love" of Anirudh
While nandini feels rejected


i agree...aniruddh was her world...and she really loved him!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agreed, both women have a lot of strength.

To me, Meera has shown how strong she is when she found out Nandini was Ani's wife, and still felt Nandini's pain. If anyone has ever been betrayed, they'd know that it takes immense inner strength to accept the fact and also be friendly, sympathize and genuinely care for the "other girl" whom your "true love" was cheating you with. To me her care towards Nandini shows what a strong girl she is, because it does take a lot of strength to put your own pain aside and realize that someone else is going through the same pain and needs support.

Nandini is no doubt strong as well. To be honest, I don't know how anyone in her place could survive. She has literally lost everything. Meera did come to give the family a reason to live, but the reality is that without intending to she took away every single reason Nandini had to live. I'm not taking about Ani's memories. I think Nandini deserves to know her husband was a cheat. I'm talking about the family. After Ani's death and her child's death and an invisible father, Nandini only had Ani's family which she treated like her own family. She had those sweet moments with her sister-in-laws and her Biji, and she was living off those. But now even that family that she thought was her own has been taken away from her only because Meera can give them a child. On top of that, she is fully dependent on this family. Even if she wishes to leave, where will she go? The amount of strength Nandini must have to be living through this situation is unimaginable.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Meera became weak when she fell for Balraj's crying and pleading. She should've held strong and not fallen into that trap. She immediately was softened by his crying and forgot the fact that Ani never talked about this man.

Nupur was right that she had the freedom to refuse him, unlike the rest of the family.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Meera is :
Looks strong but is weak

Nandini is :
Looks weak but is strong

Independence does not give the ability of being strong to many people and meera is the living proof of that

But Balraj has to play carefully now , if he keeps saying grandson meera might get annoyed and leave
Meera is not a sexist
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: likarsh

Meera became weak when she fell for Balraj's crying and pleading. She should've held strong and not fallen into that trap. She immediately was softened by his crying and forgot the fact that Ani never talked about this man.


Nupur was right that she had the freedom to refuse him, unlike the rest of the family.


ur right but anyone in meera's place would have done the same thing
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Meera is :
Looks strong but is weak

Nandini is :
Looks weak but is strong

Independence does not give the ability of being strong to many people and meera is the living proof of that

But Balraj has to play carefully now , if he keeps saying grandson meera might get annoyed and leave
Meera is not a sexist


that is actually true!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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this is the best post so far !! it actually summarizes the whole concept of the show and what is being shown so far!both the ladies depict some form of strength within themselves!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: mazkachazka

this is the best post so far !! it actually summarizes the whole concept of the show and what is being shown so far!both the ladies depict some form of strength within themselves!

thankx...and i agree with u 100%

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