An Question To All Forum Members (please read and answer)

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey guys my name is Areesha and profile name Aeresha566

I am a proud Muslim and more to be proud for being a Pakistani

I have been arjun forum member since November 2012 and has made great friends since then who supported me when ever i need and who loves me and I love them very much,

today I am here to ask you guys a question

"is it a crime to being a Muslim? is it a crime to be a member of Indian forum being a Pakistani? "

guys I am really sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings but you have no idea how much I am hurt at this moment

ever since I joined this forum I read many good no awesome stories which I loved to the core

in some there we're few Muslim bad guys and in some all of them but I had no problems since they we're just fictions

then I read some stories shoes writer made only Muslims as bad guys but still I didn't had problem as they we're not wrong, cuz I though they hate those "so called Muslims" and hence wrote about them

if I had any bad feelings they cleared them by their right justification so I don't mind that much about Muslim as a bad guy

but today after reading a story where clearly a writer (doesn't want to disclose writer's name) state bad guy being an ISI officer it hurts me a lot

being a Muslim I can tolerate rubbish about Muslims because of those so called Muslims we real Muslims have also got hurt but being a Pakistani I can't stand if anyone says bad to my country

I LOVE Pakistan
more than my life and more than my friends

okay if some Indians, some because I know not every Indian think of Pakistan as an enemy..
some Indians hate or dislikes Pakistan for any reason and they always shows it when ever they got a chance

mujhe nahi pata woh log q humse itni nafrat karte hain, 100 mein se at least 12 movies Pakistan ke against hoti hain aur ab toh dramad mein bhi Pakistan ke khilaaf bola jata hai

I won't name those you all know what shows are they

they taunt Pakistani actors and singers working there,they say bad about them, they say unhe Pakistan mein kuch nahi milta isi lite yahan beg karne aate hain and much more

(I am not saying by my own thoughts, I had read comments for many Pakistani singers)

but I still don't stop seeing Indian show, listening songs and praising Indian actors and singers

aur guys mein sirf ek aur baat bolna chahti hoon. hum Pakistani apse nafrat nahi kar sakte

Q

qk koi bhi insaan apni bones se nafrat nahi kar sakta

hum Pakistani Pakistan se isi liye pyaar karte hain qk yahan hamare ancestors ki bones dabi hain

bilkul usi tarha se ap indians bhi apni country se isi liye pyaat karte ho qk apke baroon ki bones na sirf zameen balke uske pani mein bhi hai


so guys jab hum apne mulk se sirf iss ek wajah se itna pyaar karte hain toh app sochiye hum india se nafrat kaise kar sakte hain? qk wahan toh hamare baroon ke bhi baroon ki bones hain

I don't know what I am saying what I am doing
my tears won't stop

I am just too sad and dishearten

meine bohot se Muslims ko forum chor ke jaate dekha hai aur ab shayad Pakistani bhi chale jayen +(unn mein main bhi shamil hoon)

I am so sorry guys if I hurt you
dilse aapse mafi mangti hoon ho sake toh mujhe maaf kar dijiye ga


this is the last time your hearing my rubbish talks
tack care and please don't hate us

pehle hi duniya mein bohot nafrat hai, hame nafrat nahi pyaar ki zaroorat hai

I love you my friends, my little sisters my sweetest diis

I love you all




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Posted: 9 years ago
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Dear i am totaly agreed with u bcz m also muslim pakistani muslim.
Jis story ki ap bat kr rahe ho us k about mai ne apna opinion bhi rakha,
Or ISI k lye mai jaan dy sakti hun but us k khilaf kch nai sun sakti,
But yahan meri buddy best writer ne aysa kaha tha,
Jo mujhy aj tak hurt kr raha haha hai tabi mai ne comments krne chor diye hain.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I'm sorry di it was unintentional
I seriously don't have anything against Pakistani aur Muslim
I respect them very much
I even watch Pakistani movies & serials
I respect them all & have many good friends from the country
I'm so sorry if my story had hurted ur feeling
If you say I'm even Ready to remove the story from the forum
I'm really sorry Dii

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ariyabestessfan

Dear i am totaly agreed with u bcz m also muslim pakistani muslim.
Jis story ki ap bat kr rahe ho us k about mai ne apna opinion bhi rakha,
Or ISI k lye mai jaan dy sakti hun but us k khilaf kch nai sun sakti,
But yahan meri buddy best writer ne aysa kaha tha,
Jo mujhy aj tak hurt kr raha haha hai tabi mai ne comments krne chor diye hain.


U could have told me yrr
I would have removed my story long ago if I knw it hurted ur feelings
It was totally unintentional
Ialso respect isi but it was a character of a show I was watching I used
I didn't knw it hurted u all
I'm really Sorry
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: angelariya



U could have told me yrr
I would have removed my story long ago if I knw it hurted ur feelings
It was totally unintentional
Ialso respect isi but it was a character of a show I was watching I used
I didn't knw it hurted u all
I'm really Sorry


Mai ne c0mment kia tha tum un stories k about comments waly page ko open kr k dekh sakti hun
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ariyabestessfan


Mai ne c0mment kia tha tum un stories k about comments waly page ko open kr k dekh sakti hun


Sorry buddy my mistake I didn't check the pages I was busy I'll remove it write now
I'm sorry for all the hurt I cause u & Dii
I seriously didn't mean any of that
I'm so sorry u believe na that I won't Ever hurt u guys intentionally
I'm so sorry again
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: angelariya

I'm sorry di it was unintentional

I seriously don't have anything against Pakistani aur Muslim
I respect them very much
I even watch Pakistani movies & serials
I respect them all & have many good friends from the country
I'm so sorry if my story had hurted ur feeling
If you say I'm even Ready to remove the story from the forum
I'm really sorry Dii





Same goes for me...
We may be of different faiths... But i respect all religions...
Do say if any of my story hurted u
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Dear Chutki,

I understand your sentiments, I know I belong from a different religion and country than you but when I say I understand it... I do.

You see, the matter isn't about being a Muslim and/or Pakistani - it is the unfortunate stereotype that we all unfortunately accept.

And as far as the bad guys are concerned, it is true that often we forget to keep Muslims as the wonderful protagonists only because the names like Sikandar, Raheem and all have been drilled into our heads as villains.

One of the biggest points is that, NO, there's no difference between Indians, Pakistanis, Bangladeshis or any other citizens of any country out here. Solely because of the fact that we all react similarly - we are patriotic, loving and culture rooted. There's just a marked difference in the way we are patriotic and culturally driven. It's unfortunate that we as civilians have had to face what a few of our disgusting political leaders had done to create the divide.

And when there are other narrow minded people concerned who still want to ruin any faith or country's honour, then they are not worth it.

Why should you leave this forum? Don't... really don't!

In fact in one of my IPKKND stories, the second lead is a Muslim and trust me, the very decision of making him Muslim barely affected the way the character had shaped up.

To all the writers out there, when we are sketching out Hindu characters or Christian ones - we barely keep their religious actions in mind (like feel the need to visit a temple or write about how they pray) simply because that isn't a part of the story. I believe we should try to make a conscious effort to bring in a more diverse community through the power of our pen.

Lastly, I might have said a million things which cover a million topics.

The bad guys in our fictions were never Muslims.

The bad guys in our fictions were never Pakistanis.

They were simply bad - period.

And moreover, the name of a villain in my story could sound like a Muslim name - but I could never describe him to act or pray in the way a true Muslim/Pakistani does because like most authors - we simply want to incorporate the traits of what media has shown us as "bad" guys.

Please ignore all those who have erred so horrendously, they don't deserve it. And please do NOT think that there's any sort of divide between us here on the grounds of country and religion.

No country or faith should bear the weight of a few terrible men's actions.

With lots of love,

Di.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I dont care whether people belong to Muslims, Hindu, Christian or other religions. What matter is the person.
Majority of my school friends are Muslims. I always to their house for Eid and other functions and they come to my house for our functions. Yes, we do had difference of opinion regarding oppressing woman in Muslim community but still i had learnt to respect their religion. Most of my neighbors are muslims and we live in perfect harmony😊

India and Pakistan are loggerheads at each other for so long. people in both of the countries were taught to treat each others are enemies by politicians. i dont believe in that. There are good people and bad people in both the countries.

The first girl with whom i chatted in IF was from Pakistan. I absolutely adored her.😊

And to let you in a secret, I lovvve Ali Zafar😛😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey areesha..

Aaj tak hamne kabhi iss tarah personally baat nahi ki..bit I really used to love reading ur comments on my stories..

U have bring a very sensitive subject today..

Though I m a non-muslim Indian but still respect Muslim..n any other religion..

U know what I think ke kisi bhi religion se badi insaniyat hoti he..

Insaan ke liye religion banaye gaye he..religion ke liye insaan nahi..

N yes I really agree with armageddon said very right thing bad people are bad people..they don't have religion..they have only one religion is crime..

Dear..I m not active on other forum than Arjun..so I don't know what happens on other forum..just can talk about Arjun forum..we all know that Sikandar had killed roshni in the serial..but no one knows how he looks or anything about him..but we assume by name Sikandar, patan lala may be from Muslim community.. So we shows them like that in the story..

But if it hurts u then u can clearly tell it to the respective writer ..the writer can make changes..

Waise muze nahi lagta ke koi intentionally aisa karega..n iss case me bhi Jo tum baat kar rahi ho I think the writer is ready to remove the contents..n she clearly says that she had not done it intentionally.. So I think u should forgive her..n don't feel hurt..

Other thing u said about some people bashing Pakistani artists..

Toh mein sirf ye karugi dear ke jaise kuch log Pakistani artist pe bashing karte he..waise hi Pakistan me bhi toh kayi log honge Jo Indian artist pe bashing karte honge..

Aise karne wali ke apne koi reasons hote he..dear..dono desh me kayi badi wars hui he..Aur war sirf desh ko hi nahi dilo ko bhi tod deta he..lakho logo ko apne apno ko khona padta he..aur aise logo ke dilo me agar dard ho toh ham woh nahi samaz sakhte..Aur agar aise log kuch kehate he toh ye unke tute hue dil rehate he..


But what make difference is that what u think..n what we think..

Even I love singing of rajat fateh Ali ..atif ,I love their songs..

Even I watched a Pakistani movie "bol" more than 3-4 times..I love it very much..

I even watch zindagi channel sometime..

Aur tumhari baato se bhi lagta he ke tum bhi Indian TV ki fan ho..

N why u said last message..?
R u planning to leave the forum..plz..don't..



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