What is this funda now?

She can take their eshaan and stay in hotel but not at their house? Furthermore, when Kinjal says Ghar chalo, she rejects saying that Toshu did not want to meet me then why should I come? why Cant she say, no I cant, it is matter of my self respect. Baa had mentioned few episodes back about "Toshu himself will get Anupama home" This line will come true looks like if Kinjal threatens Toshu to leave if he does not comply. this way Toshu will have easy way out and they wont have to pay for child care and house hold help things also gets sorted. But In my opinion, Anupama should NOT go. Biji says one good line - self respect, loving self and thanking onself is also important and critical. Do not go to anyone's house where you are not respected, but I dont think Anupama will listen to this advice, instead will go their house khusi khusi for her Pari..............

Sorry had written entire post, dont know why it did not get posted, so had to write condensed version of it.

Having no self respect has always been Anupama’s motto. It is nothing new in my opinion.

Her self respect, "samman" everything will come in the picture in the matter of Anuj and Chot, not with Shahs. If she is really learnt means she would have told to Kinjal directly that please don't interact with me as Mr. Shah has banned me from your relationship. But, no, whatever happen, she finally wants Shahas only, she is addicted to them.

Originally posted by: Anupamasatwik

Her self respect, "samman" everything will come in the picture in the matter of Anuj and Chot, not with Shahs. If she is really learnt means she would have told to Kinjal directly that please don't interact with me as Mr. Shah has banned me from your relationship. But, no, whatever happen, she finally wants Shahas only, she is addicted to them.

True. All the self respect matters crop up only when it is the Kapadias. With the Shahs she will sit on the ground and wail and cry and say these are my children, my baa-bapuji, me aaungi.

But one question from AK and she walked out. Did not even care once ounce for the small girl, who was already traumatized and thought she was nothing for her mother.

AK and Adhya are still struggling because of her actions. They're traumatised and unlikely to ever recover from it. And there isn't any realisation of this in Anupama at all.

And Kinjal is only the beginning. Very soon she will be back in Shah Mohalla, serving them, giving long bhashans, feeling self-satisfied. If she runs in AK and Adhya again, she'll pull them along too with more false promises, or they will finally turn full villain and she will act like a bechari, and the stans will continue to support this toxic woman.

Her antenna catches all other bio kids signals. But Aadhya met her many times, talked so many times, her different behavior, but she is not even thinking this may be Choti, her signals not works. Nor trying to find out also. Real mothers are not like this Maa

Anupama's mother, Kanta, advised her the same when she divorced Vanraj, when she she sought refuge after leaving Kapadia Mansion (when Anuj left for Mumbai), she had taunted Barkha once on this (in a look who is talking moment).

She never learns or understands because in her head, she is the besht knows sab sab sab.

Anupama is a hypocrite!....She has double standards when it comes to Baa & Shah's!She gives lectures to everyone else but will never say a word to Baa!She will defend the Shah's but remain quiet when it comes to the Kapadia's or even her own Mother, Kanta!

Ankush and romil two of them were nice to hr?

Romil alwys defended hr. She didn't hv Ankush and Romil pics with her proving this means that Kapadia family didn't matter to hr.

Originally posted by: Historia

Anupama is a hypocrite!....She has double standards when it comes to Baa & Shah's!She gives lectures to everyone else but will never say a word to Baa!She will defend the Shah's but remain quiet when it comes to the Kapadia's or even her own Mother, Kanta!

Ankush and romil two of them were nice to hr?

Romil alwys defended hr. She didn't hv Ankush and Romil pics with her proving this means that Kapadia family didn't matter to hr.

Yes Ankush and Romil were nice to her but it makes no sense why she would keep a pic of her Devar and his son that’s just weird and quite frankly creepy.

Originally posted by: HoneyBee7312

True. All the self respect matters crop up only when it is the Kapadias. With the Shahs she will sit on the ground and wail and cry and say these are my children, my baa-bapuji, me aaungi.

But one question from AK and she walked out. Did not even care once ounce for the small girl, who was already traumatized and thought she was nothing for her mother.

She's an utterly shameless, disgusting and hypocritical person. Walked out on a young child and yet keeps boasting about how great she is as a mother. Pathetic