Anupamaa 22th Nov 2023 Written Update & Daily Discussions Thread - Page 2

It is so so disgusting and pathetic of Anuj to lecture on - Why should only bahu do seva of Saas Sasur, damaad ka bhi farz banta hai - so Kanta is dead? Maa adopted new parents? And we are expected to accept that this dhongi kaamchor and nautankibaaz couple are Maa’s parents so Anuj is insulting his own mother, calling her Malti Devi and referring to the ex inlaws of his wife as Baa Bapuji?

Does the dhongi buddha not know which chair belongs to head of the family and that he is a guest and should not be sitting on that chair? If Baa would have stopped Anuj from sitting on Vanraj’s chair saying mere bete ki jagah, Anupamaa would have said Baaaaaa!

But since its Apoojaniya Baa Bapuji and again a golden opportunity to please Anupama, Anuj jumped on it, insulted his own mother and lectured her, made Bapuji sit at the place of head of the family and his mother at another corner, agar gharwale hi izzat nahi karenge to bahar wale (Baa) to MD ko taane degi hi

So Maa was super happy that puppy wagged his tail around her Baa Bapuji and brought them to KM, Maa comes running after him to make him sit on the throne for 2 mins, and then dethrones him and bags the crown for herself just like she did with Kapadia Empire.

All the bado ki izzat, sanskaar, sanskruti, bade ghar ki neev has gone in the drain when it comes to MD, its only limited to Shahs.

And even Maharani Pakhi is not liking Baa Bapuji’s visit, you know Anupama’s daughter has just turned out like herself, badtameez, egoistic, freeloader and an opportunist - Anupamaa does the same with MD, her ego gets hurt if anyone says No for anything to her, imagine if Anuj would ask her to choose between Shah house and Kapadia house, her humongous ego would get hurt and she will choose only Shahs like she did last year at New Year’s, left him alone outside and held Shahs, so to keep her happy and please her he brings Shahs where she is - likewise Pakhi has exactly gone on her mother, hazirjawab, badtameez, self centered.

Shameless couple can see Barkha MD Pakhi no one is liking their visit, but still would shamelessly stay and cause fights.

New kaand loading, Dimpy Titu video, now again Dimpy would be brought to Kapadia house and Kavya too, new tamasha, more character assassination by Baa, more BP issues - same cycle repeats.

This is really disgusting.

Anupama ehsaan jatati hain apni Saas Malati Devi ke. "Main laayi aapko ghar me". Really?

Ghar ke Shah badon ka samaan hona chahiye aur Kapadia badon ka apmaan?

I really hope atleast Barkha or Malati Devi, merely out of frustration, yeh ehsaan jataye ki Anuj ko Sr.Kapadias laaye the iss ghar-pariwaar me. Jiss tarah yeh dono Choti Anu aur Malati Devi ko treat karte hain, waise kiya hota toh Anuj yaha nahin hota.

"Aur agar itne hi khuddaar aur sanskaari ho toh apne adoptive family ka ehsaan maano. Unki izzat karna seekho".

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

He looks silly. Nikammo ka badshah

Bewakoofo ka sardar

Anuj knows whatever little happiness dey have will be lost if people at SH esp Baa&Bapuji r not happy.I don't know what kind of love dis is.AK has settled with d fact dat SH Happiness is directly proportional to his&CA happiness. A wife failing Terribly

Ab dimpy is not pregnant??? Kavya ki toh fikr thi bhi nahi sirf dikhawa tha. But leaving two pregnant women alone in that house????

Exactly 2 pregnant women, one heavily pregnant and one who is emotionally vulnerable will run errands, take care of a job (atleast someone who values the job), cook, care, clean and not employ a maid because Leela-Hansmukh do Not like having one. Waah waah!

And Dimpy went back to SH to take care of baa bapuji.. now that they are in KM.. why is Dimpy still in SH? What sort of exchange offer is this? 😂😂

But in some time both Peignent women will be in KM, that’s for sure..

also, today anuj is telling Pakhi not to misbehave with dhongi buddha.. but why is he silent when Pakhi misbehaves with Barkha, Malti devi etc? 😡

Dhongi buddha is such a drama queen.. first of all Dhongi buddha directly goes and sits at the head of dining table.. when you are a guest, don’t you wait for the host to seat you? And when MD just points out that it’s Anuj’s place, dhongi makes such a face as if MD has insulted him so badly..

as if uska month ka cream roll ka stock kisine chheen liya ho! 😂😂 kitna naatak karta hai.. chup chap baith dusri khursi me and khaa.. nautanki kahi ka 😡😡😡

Don't you know...

Why Pakhi has gone mad (battamiz)? Anupamaa madam has serious double standards. When it comes to Baa and Baapuji she talks about Indian Sanskriti, sanskar and whatever.. but it comes to younger women, she cites American culture (actually part of American culture. Industrial America to precise. Contrary to what Bollywood tries to portray, Americans take their family values very seriously. It is their one of the core political issue.) And guilt trips them to having needs to be understood/validated by parents.

Just like in my home... In Anupamaa show, Anupama treats men's violence as mental health issues and women's frustrations as their battamiji. She expects everyone to bear Baa's character assassinations and her tendency to invade women's privacy.

Pakhi ki battamiji Mr. Shah, Baa aur Anupama ke karan hai. They have raised her to become who she is now. And instead of accepting in fault in their upbringing, they constantly guilt trip her, talk in condescending tone. Which makes her extra egoistic.

They do not send her to therapist which she needs urgently.

For Anupamaa, any woman who doesn't have emotional resilience like her is not sanskari.

And Baa ka mast hai.. wo young women ko abuse karti hain aur fir behosh hokar gir jati hai. Agar kisi culture me older logo ko etna isolate karke rakha gya hai ki unka apna koi personal ambition/hobbies/ aur friends nahi hain to it's time to think about the faults in our culture and correct it.

Ulte India me Older women se etna jyada Physical labour aur baby sitting karai jati hai, aur older men sirf kaddu ki tarah sofe me jame rahte hain (kuch gharo me wo bhi kaam karte hain) ki unki bhi kya galti ki wo aise young logo ki life me ghus jate hain. Exploitation to unka hota hi hai. To wo bhi iske badle paraye Ghar se aai aurat ko mentally abuse karne me lag jate hain.

Problem to hamare society ke structure me hai. Use fix kiye bagair to kisi ko kya hi dosh dena! But in the meantime, the is no excuse how women like Baa behave with other women.

Koi is Anupamaa ko batao ki Nature ne women ko alag material se nahi banaya hai. She is also homo sapiens. Wo stress resistent nahi hoti. Usko insult karoge to use bhi emotional hurt hota hai, and she can also be violent.

Jaisa Anupama Devi ji kahti hain, "Aurat to aansu ko saheli banakar baith jati hai" aisa nahi hota. It's very regressive thing to say. Nowadays, urban class women propose this assertion everywhere and treat men like Toshu and Vanraj as teddy bears.

No... men, women, transgenders, gender queers... All are equally vulnerable. But of course, if anybody is extra sensitive, that is queer and trans people because they suffer abandonment, discrimination, repression right from their childhood. Yet, nobody acknowledge their existence as if they don't really exist.

Anupamaa Shah and her entire phemli is filthy, characterless and shameless to the next level. But they are presented as the ideal, next-door family because they exhibit these TamaShahi sanskaar

Originally posted by: nivi26

Don't you know...

Why Pakhi has gone mad (battamiz)? Anupamaa madam has serious double standards. When it comes to Baa and Baapuji she talks about Indian Sanskriti, sanskar and whatever.. but it comes to younger women, she cites American culture (actually part of American culture. Industrial America to precise. Contrary to what Bollywood tries to portray, Americans take their family values very seriously. It is their one of the core political issue.) And guilt trips them to having needs to be understood/validated by parents.

Just like in my home... In Anupamaa show, Anupama treats men's violence as mental health issues and women's frustrations as their battamiji. She expects everyone to bear Baa's character assassinations and her tendency to invade women's privacy.

Pakhi ki battamiji Mr. Shah, Baa aur Anupama ke karan hai. They have raised her to become who she is now. And instead of accepting in fault in their upbringing, they constantly guilt trip her, talk in condescending tone. Which makes her extra egoistic.

They do not send her to therapist which she needs urgently.

For Anupamaa, any woman who doesn't have emotional resilience like her is not sanskari.

And Baa ka mast hai.. wo young women ko abuse karti hain aur fir behosh hokar gir jati hai. Agar kisi culture me older logo ko etna isolate karke rakha gya hai ki unka apna koi personal ambition/hobbies/ aur friends nahi hain to it's time to think about the faults in our culture and correct it.

Ulte India me Older women se etna jyada Physical labour aur baby sitting karai jati hai, aur older men sirf kaddu ki tarah sofe me jame rahte hain (kuch gharo me wo bhi kaam karte hain) ki unki bhi kya galti ki wo aise young logo ki life me ghus jate hain. Exploitation to unka hota hi hai. To wo bhi iske badle paraye Ghar se aai aurat ko mentally abuse karne me lag jate hain.

Problem to hamare society ke structure me hai. Use fix kiye bagair to kisi ko kya hi dosh dena! But in the meantime, the is no excuse how women like Baa behave with other women.

Koi is Anupamaa ko batao ki Nature ne women ko alag material se nahi banaya hai. She is also homo sapiens. Wo stress resistent nahi hoti. Usko insult karoge to use bhi emotional hurt hota hai, and she can also be violent.

Jaisa Anupama Devi ji kahti hain, "Aurat to aansu ko saheli banakar baith jati hai" aisa nahi hota. It's very regressive thing to say. Nowadays, urban class women propose this assertion everywhere and treat men like Toshu and Vanraj as teddy bears.

No... men, women, transgenders, gender queers... All are equally vulnerable. But of course, if anybody is extra sensitive, that is queer and trans people because they suffer abandonment, discrimination, repression right from their childhood. Yet, nobody acknowledge their existence as if they don't really exist.

Yes there is a way to potray that all those who studied or lived in US and came are bad or immoral. Like kavya, romil, ankush, barkha, malvika etc but those brought up in india are sanskari

Even USA family have sanskari and tradtional most of them. Its not like they all are not sanskari at all. unlike whats shown about US families in this show or bollywood. Its just that women do not bear misbehaviour by husband or infidelity and divorce faster as there is no social stigma for divorce and do not bear it all life like anupama, barkha etc

Biggest damage is done on educated working women all are shown as vamps misbehaving loud and modern who have no sanskaar like Rakhi, nandini, kavya, maya, barkha, devika even malvika(baa used to give her tana) now dimpy whose working baa says is having affair with tapish titu for just talking.

Anupama treating mens betrayal as mental issues is only only her family shahs men like vanraj and toshu not kapadiya men etc.

Also even Me too was ignored and brushed under carpet- what vanraj did to malvika for kapadiya empire is me too only misusing his position to love an woman for financial gains. Wht vanraj did to kavya too was me too trap a subordinate and have relationship with her when already married. All this is not allowed in office and can complaint to HR by women.

Pakhi and toshu arefreeloaders. Toshu lives of kinjal mom wealth and pakhi lives of anuj and adhik wealth thats all. Anupama should stop this drama that she and her family have any sanskar or values. They are gold digger family in reality including herself.

What is being shown that baa bapuji do not work only sit full day from decades is wrng. In india kids leave house at 16 from village or smaller town to cities and from big metroes to usa/uk etc. No one nowadays has time to care for parents or grandparents. So most above 60 live alone in houses and do all house work or helper comes and does. Even 80 year old men and women stay alone in houses in village and big citynowadays unlike how always anupama or kavya or anuj there with baa bapuji

I agree with you girls are more abused even at frathers home. Like after school or college even in big cities like mumbai/bangalore girls are expected to take care of house/help mother in house work or take care of younger siblings than only study. Where as boys come from school college go to tutions and play or study no house work is dumped on them in school or college. Mya be after marraige they do grocery shopping or go to bank etc some odd works. In house most men 95% do not raise a finger in india and asia. Where as woman go to work for 10 hours than work at home cooking, cleaning, taking care of elderly like baa bapuji if there. Boys in india hardly do any house work etc at home from childhood till death actually. Where a woman are expected to go work in companies earn money plus cook/clean at home. Not all can afford 4 helps like anupama anuj kapadiya at home you see.

If any chid or elderly is sick woman or girls at home are expected to take leave and take care while men go to work because their job is important over womans. Or brothers school or college is more important than sister studies thats mentality of indian parent. So its like woman are working 10 hours in office plus 2 hours travel plus 4-5 hours house work everyday. Its like 16-17 hours of hard labour everyday. And house work has no off like sat-sunday off in companies for men its 365 days for 80 years of life hard labour in india and asia. That is also a reason they give up on work easily and retire early or go for low paying jobs like teaching leaving corporate. Hopefuly in few more decades such things change and next few gen women have it easy in life.