Let's not get confused here.
Vanar-Jhuli etc ne isko jaise bhi mistreat kiya, abuse kiya, samman nahi diya, that was completely justified. Voh unka haq tha as Royal Tamashah masters. Kyunki vo bade hai, pati parmeshwar hai aur voh bhagwaan hote hai. In her own words, Dukhmukh-Jhuli ne usko apni sagi Maa se zyaada pyaar diya.
While invoking her glorious married lyphe of 25 years is necessary because Makkhi is a Royal Tamashah after all, so she can't be treated like this by some peasant the way Anupamaid was treated.
Aur jo free service dene voh abhi bhi jaati rehti hai (even after second marriage) voh ek unpaid maid ka kartavya hai. Toh yahan koi doglapan nahi hai 😳
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