Does true love exist in 21st century?

After watching anupama i have concluded

True love does not exist in world except in 3 or 5 year olds kid may be

Anupama married after 26 years of abusive hubby now she finds anuj as bad? After everything he did for her

He left GK kaka, malvika, his business empire, abuusive shahs everything and walked with her for what? For her to spend 8am to 9pm in her ex house or dance academy near her ex hubby house

Anuj himself has no concept of true love hes after a 7 year old kid madly obsessed

Ok honestly if you have miscarraige private companies excpect you to report to work 4 days later or you may not have job (unless some considerate boss there even in IT cos)

Here anuj is acting crazy over CA

Ok i understand tough to forget a small child whom you think is daughter but i have seen parents lose only daughter or only son and not act as crazy as anuj or anupama ever

Millions of orphans there in world adopt few and give them father love and better life

Maya fought so much to give birth to CA whats use shes after anuj instead of being happy with CA

In todays time love is less of love and more of benefits

What benefits you get out of an human based on that you love someone actually

The purest form of love between mother and child is also badnaam thanks to serials like anupama

that have started showing mothers like maya as selfish vamps

or mothers like anupama only loving own kid not adopted ones

A mother is a mother is it not?

If you get a dog or kitten dont you become its parents at home doing everyting a parent does for human child? Yes

Than why this discrimination towards a foster or adopted human child as shown in this serial?

Anupama finds fault with everyone except herself

To improve oneself you must find your own faults and try to rectify

Somehow this serial shows anupama as a know all person.

Even those with MBA or PHD in oxford or harvard will not know everything

Love or relationship ki definition serial mein search karte ho ? Do u think people really think this serial is real ? Matlab kuch bhi .

No one relate real life with serial itna common sense hai logo mein abhi bhi

True love does exist but may be for few months only. For few days everything looks exciting n colorful but when hardships n difficulties erupt relationship doesn't last long. Ppl these days don't want to compromise n adjust much n priorities themselves over their partners. Every other person these days look like red flag n toxic.

Anuj anupama both r at fault. Anupama didn't took her marriage seriously n was so over confident that anuj will never leave her n not just anupama other ladies like devika,kavya n Kinjal n viewers too. Anuj boasted too high of his 26yrs old love that made anupama n others over confident.

Anupama never prioritized anu over her ex in laws. Anuj too took decision of adoption too early without stabilizing his marriage.

Anuj got so obsessed over an adopted child that he left everything behind n walked away like anupama was his fling. If ppl keep on leaving wife's n husband's like this then no marriage will survive.

I am very unromantic, so to me no it doesn’t. What I see surviving is companionship, friendship, co-habitating. What mostly people want is peace and things in their own way. Whatever gives them that, but love alone cannot continue providing that alone.

Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

Love or relationship ki definition serial mein search karte ho ? Do u think people really think this serial is real ? Matlab kuch bhi .

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I had wondered when anuj was introduced does such human exist who love for 26 years

i am proved right that such a human who love unconditional for ages do not truly exist

may be in 10th century or 15th century they may have existed

thats why love story of laila majnu and romeo juliet or salim anarkali became famous

but anuj kapadiya was no majnu or salim

neither anupama juliet or anarkali

jaise hi problem aaya dono chodke bhaag kade hue hain

Originally posted by: naaznin

True love does exist but may be for few months only. For few days everything looks exciting n colorful but when hardships n difficulties erupt relationship doesn't last long. Ppl these days don't want to compromise n adjust much n priorities themselves over their partners. Every other person these days look like red flag n toxic.

Anuj anupama both r at fault. Anupama didn't took her marriage seriously n was so over confident that anuj will never leave her n not just anupama other ladies like devika,kavya n Kinjal n viewers too. Anuj boasted too high of his 26yrs old love that made anupama n others over confident.

Anupama never prioritized anu over her ex in laws. Anuj too took decision of adoption too early without stabilizing his marriage.

Anuj got so obsessed over an adopted child that he left everything behind n walked away like anupama was his fling. If ppl keep on leaving wife's n husband's like this then no marriage will survive.

Ultimately in todays time no one is ready to compromise in life

So love starts fading after few years

than only kids and commitment because of society and parents pressure or kids remains

In olden times may be our grandparents or before 19th century etc marraiges were all about compromising ones happiness for other spouse

Now all are economically independent and educated so compromise does not happen easily compared to olden times

You get offended for simple things like anuj or anupama and over react actually

Thats why most are together still pressure of society and what others may say or in old age who will be in illness makes most marriages tick despite all up and down in life

But the way anuj and anupama made mockery of their marraige is too much

Just walking off from each other is rare

Well Anupamaa and this serial is pretty much twisted anyway so, it is pretty useless to compare.

Though they are pretty self obsessed so you can say a weird degree of self love is there.

Personally I feel like Love is It's all about balance, mutual respect, friendship and coexisting capabilities. It really doesn't have to be between partners.

Love for family, friends, Animals, plants and self love is all also very important aspect of life. It just could be anything a hobby or what not.

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Ultimately in todays time no one is ready to compromise in life

So love starts fading after few years

than only kids and commitment because of society and parents pressure or kids remains

In olden times may be our grandparents or before 19th century etc marraiges were all about compromising ones happiness for other spouse

Now all are economically independent and educated so compromise does not happen easily compared to olden times

You get offended for simple things like anuj or anupama and over react actually

Thats why most are together still pressure of society and what others may say or in old age who will be in illness makes most marriages tick despite all up and down in life

But the way anuj and anupama made mockery of their marraige is too much

Just walking off from each other is rare

That's true...ppl these days want to marry only for kids n have someone in middle n old age. Because getting a boyfriend or girlfriend after 35 is hard at least in Indian society because everyone is married reaching that age so everyone knows they will be left alone. Living alone is depressing too especially when u see others happy with family n kids n u have none to share happiness n sorrows.

Earlier not just women, men too used to adjust n sacrifice a lot for wife or children. That was a two way traffic.

I wrote it on another page and I reiterate.

Have we not seen women walking out of a love marriage if their child (not an adult) is not treated well?

Does that mean the years if love for their husband was fake compared to the love for the child of a few years, months whatever?

Change is the only constant. The love takes different forms and shapes at different stages of life.

Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

Love or relationship ki definition serial mein search karte ho ? Do u think people really think this serial is real ? Matlab kuch bhi .

No one relate real life with serial itna common sense hai logo mein abhi bhi