Pakhi repeatedly proves that she was that "unwanted" child - Page 2

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Originally posted by: shwetha85

The unnecessary arrogance that she has as though she has done great in her life, made good choices, I think it is high time that someone tells her she was born as a result of planning and plotting.

Vanraj impregnated Anupama to stop her going to US and thus this sick dirty woman was born. No one tells her that she doesn't even have a character but talks about others in middle of the road. Sad that mother earth has to lift the weight of such useless people also as I am sure in real world someone might be like her.

Are you for real? Telling someone they were unwanted before their birth? Whatever Pakhi may be, she is already being disciplined for it and what you call arrogance is actually her rebellion.

Perhaps if we go by the whole unwanted pregnancy thing then I guess that would explain why Anupamaa is overly harsh with Pakhi and loves her less compared to Paritosh and Samar or even Kinjal who is equally arrogant and insolent towards her own mother Rakhi, oh wait once she finds this out then her belief would further be reinforced that Anupamaa actually is partial against her.

There are more useless people in the show, for example Hasmukh, leela, Paritosh himself, but Pakhi alone is a heavy weight on mother earth?

And why can't she talk in the middle of the road? Leela can talk and insult anyone and everyone on the road but Anupamaa wouldn't take a stand over that but Pakhi doing the same is intolerable?

Originally posted by: Rein123

Are you for real? Telling someone they were unwanted before their birth? Whatever Pakhi may be, she is already being disciplined for it and what you call arrogance is actually her rebellion.

Perhaps if we go by the whole unwanted pregnancy thing then I guess that would explain why Anupamaa is overly harsh with Pakhi and loves her less compared to Paritosh and Samar or even Kinjal who is equally arrogant and insolent towards her own mother Rakhi, oh wait once she finds this out then her belief would further be reinforced that Anupamaa actually is partial against her.

There are more useless people in the show, for example Hasmukh, leela, Paritosh himself, but Pakhi alone is a heavy weight on mother earth?

And why can't she talk in the middle of the road? Leela can talk and insult anyone and everyone on the road but Anupamaa wouldn't take a stand over that but Pakhi doing the same is intolerable?

Sorry to disappoint but I am for real. When a child does not respect their janam data and behaves highly disrespectfully, they are bound to know about their birth as well. This show is only promoting wrong behavior of children and only 1 or 2 punishment from parents. Please see this scene for 30 secs someone doing this to their parents in real life and then parents reacts in turn in this era of 2022 and then talk. Anyway I do not care what you think; you keep your opinion and I will keep mine. Let us agree to disagree instead of moral policing each other for our individual personal opinions. Thanks!

Originally posted by: shwetha85

Sorry to disappoint but I am for real. When a child does not respect their janam data and behaves highly disrespectfully, they are bound to know about their birth as well. This show is only promoting wrong behavior of children and only 1 or 2 punishment from parents. Please see this scene for 30 secs someone doing this to their parents in real life and then parents reacts in turn in this era of 2022 and then talk. Anyway I do not care what you think; you keep your opinion and I will keep mine. Let us agree to disagree instead of moral policing each other for our individual personal opinions. Thanks!

Pakhi being born is not her fault, it is her parents fault, so holding that against her is completely wrong. For that instance then I guess even Kinjal, Paritosh should be told about their birth, oh wait kinjal should also be told that she was a mistake by Rakhi given how her father cheated on Rakhi when she was pregnant with her, maybe Paritosh is also a mistake since Anupamaa married a cheater like Vanraj who doesn't respect her. And if you think telling Pakhi that she was a mistake or unwanted child then she will hate Anupamaa even more because then she will associate every sort of discrimination she faced in the household to the unwanted tag.

Children only learn from their parents and elders at the end of the day, if Pakhi is behaving like this then somewhere down the line everyone in the Shah household is responsible for it especially Leela. Paritosh is infact worse than Pakhi and has behaved even more poorly then her and done horrible things to Anupamaa, but he is in the house got a job as alms from his wife.

I don't think she means Pakhi is at fault for it, it's just absolute frustration at her entitlement, arrogance and horrible behaviour that she said that. Of course you can't blame a child for the wrong the parents did. But please don't defend Pakhi's behaviour saying other people are worse. She is as horrible as someone her age can be. Pakhi's character is blood boiling because she is lazy, useless, manipulative, greedy, rude, you name the horrible trait and she has it. And so do most other members of Shah House like Vanraj, Toshu, Baa etc., but their behaviour doesn't make hers okay. And if anything, Anupama constantly forgiving Pakhi without even receiving a proper apology and now going and giving cake to her, being insulted further etc. is so annoying. None of the characters who did wrong on this show face repercussions for it, that's the whole problem with this serial. And Pakhi is also one of them, but hoping that changes with this track.

Sorry meant to tag you as well in the previous post. @rein123 but not able to.

And yes, what they've done with Toshu is horrible but that's what they did with Baa and Vanraj as well. And going by the pattern of this serial they'll do the same with Pakhi unless the writers are finally blessed with some common sense.

Originally posted by: lalaland23

I don't think she means Pakhi is at fault for it, it's just absolute frustration at her entitlement, arrogance and horrible behaviour that she said that. Of course you can't blame a child for the wrong the parents did. But please don't defend Pakhi's behaviour saying other people are worse. She is as horrible as someone her age can be. Pakhi's character is blood boiling because she is lazy, useless, manipulative, greedy, rude, you name the horrible trait and she has it. And so do most other members of Shah House like Vanraj, Toshu, Baa etc., but their behaviour doesn't make hers okay. And if anything, Anupama constantly forgiving Pakhi without even receiving a proper apology and now going and giving cake to her, being insulted further etc. is so annoying. None of the characters who did wrong on this show face repercussions for it, that's the whole problem with this serial. And Pakhi is also one of them, but hoping that changes with this track.

I get the frustration at her entitlement, arrogance and rude behavior. But blaming her for being born is just not right. Yes I said there are people worse than Pakhi and no way am I saying that it justifies what she has done nor does it make them okay. It's just that the way Pakhi is being dealt with is wrong. Was it really necessary to throw her put of the house when her elder brother who had done the same thing, is also a gold digger and cheated on his wife still in the house while she is being barred from even visiting by Leela? There are better ways of correcting Pakhi's behavior. I remember in WKD when Atharva started making the same demands on wanting more money and luxuries and being rude with his parents but they didn't kick him out of the house or slap him when he started disowning them, instead they handled it very well.

Given Pakhi is still learning there could have been a better way to bring her back to her senses.

I don't know where the writers are going with this track, making her move in near SH and all of that, but to be honest, kicking her out of the house could be a really good thing if they handled it the right way. Pakhi just won't understand any other way, she's beyond redemption, she doesn't listen to anyone! The right way would be for her to actually struggle, to live a life without comfort and without everything just being handed to her. I hope Adhik leaves her and everyone refuses to help and she's forced to complete her education (which her parents will pay for of course) and actually get a job, and see how difficult it is to survive and what other people go through to provide for her.

Maybe then she'll realise the value of things. No way she was going to do that living in Kapadia mansion.

Originally posted by: lalaland23

I don't know where the writers are going with this track, making her move in near SH and all of that, but to be honest, kicking her out of the house could be a really good thing if they handled it the right way. Pakhi just won't understand any other way, she's beyond redemption, she doesn't listen to anyone! The right way would be for her to actually struggle, to live a life without comfort and without everything just being handed to her. I hope Adhik leaves her and everyone refuses to help and she's forced to complete her education (which her parents will pay for of course) and actually get a job, and see how difficult it is to survive and what other people go through to provide for her.

Maybe then she'll realise the value of things. No way she was going to do that living in Kapadia mansion.

Rather than hoping Adhik leaves her maybe Adhik should stop being lenient with her set the boundaries right so that she understands what she is doing wrong.

Kicking her out and expecting her to live on the streets is also not right, what if she were to become another Dimple in this process?

The writers are overdoing Pakhis character. She was always kinda rude but she seems to written into a gold digging unambiguous lazy ass overnight.

Pakhi had to be kicked out of Anu house but Vanraj kicking her out & Leela reaction toward her was based on the fact that she is a girl. Stark difference between how Leela treated Toshu for his ‘mistake’ vs Pakhi.

Writers need to tone down Pakhi & tone up Adhik. Adhik wasn’t this lalu type of guy. He has been in many relationships so I don’t understand him acting like this is his first relationship. Either they seek some counselling or split up.