Differences between bahu and beti

BAHU

when kinjal was told that paritosh was cheating on her and that he's a bad person, baa tells her to forgive him and that "men have needs", and he made a mistake and he'll change.

"After exposing Toshu in front of the entire family, Anupamaa is blamed by Leela for breaking up Toshu and Kinjal's family. Leela continues to sympathise with Toshu and argues he deserves a second chance. However, Anupamaa is completely against it. Toshu gets furious at Anupamaa for not being lenient with him over his 'small mistake.' He attempts to convince Kinjal to forgive him but Kinjal has made her decision. She has decided to break her relationship with Toshu."

BETI

when barka tells everyone that adhik is a bad person and tells them about his past..........

"Barkha exposes Adhik at the Shahs. Barkha asks if she telling truth. Kavya asks how can she think of using Pakhi to control Anupama, its disgusted. Leela says these kinds of heinous acts are not accepted. Vanraj asks if she herself was planning all this, what happened suddenly that she came to expose her own brother here. Barkha says she thought of using Pakhi for some time, but didn’t think that Pakhi would be trapped her whole life; she herself has a daughter and doesn’t want this happening to her daughter. Leela asks if she didn’t think about her daughter when she was trying to misuse Pakhi. Vanraj asks if she felt so guilty that she came here instead of informing Anupama. Barkha says she already informed Anupama."

Even kinjal's someone's daughter and even HER feelings have been played around and was treated like a servant and was trapped at the shah house. Didn't baa think about kinjal then ??

{Ik some of u guys might think I'm dumb rn. I'm really sorry. It's 3am ATM and this thought just came to me now lol 😆😅}

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Just out of curiosity.....how was Kinjal trapped in the Shah house....Her filthy rich mother was literally begging her to go to her maika but Kinjal chose to live in the Shah house...God knows why...even after Toshu's cheating was revealed before her...even then she refused to go with her mother.....the way Kinjal disrespected her own mother......I have zero sympathy for her....She is as fake as Anupama ji is..

Kinjal already went to her mother rakhi house after returning from resort tub se Kinjal rakhi ke Ghar mein hi hai

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

Just out of curiosity.....how was Kinjal trapped in the Shah house....Her filthy rich mother was literally begging her to go to her maika but Kinjal chose to live in the Shah house...God knows why...even after Toshu's cheating was revealed before her...even then she refused to go with her mother.....the way Kinjal disrespected her own mother......I have zero sympathy for her....She is as fake as Anupama ji is..

trap toh kiya hai toshu ne aur shahs ne

toshu saw her mom is filthy rich and trapped her in love game

i have seen this happen in real life

poor boys ya middle class boys will trap very rich girls for money in love games in college for their money and status

only 10% real love is there in college 90% all trap for fathers money and property no real love

What do you think in 5 years college when kinjal and toshu roaming who spent lakhs on coffee dates and lunch in 5 star hotels and on auto taxi or cars it was kinjal using her money, not toshu

same way kinjal must be helping toshu do his homework help in preparing for exams like free tution teacher of toshu and assistant to do his home work etc

boys want to have rich good life because boys think more of future life from 10th or 11th only about career and marriage and future life etc

Girls are more emotional so they think its real love

Not to say only boys do it even girls do it but if 90% boys love is fraud show off for good life and wealth only 30% girls love for property or boys wealth

toshu love was not love it was to trap kinjal for her mom property

and shahs helped him achieve that goal by not sending kinjal who ran off from home back to her parents home but marrying them off and encouraging toshus plans

anupama has very big hand in spoiling kinjal life and destroying rakhi family by marrying her daughter to faltu criminal toshu

who was anupama to decide on other kids wedding? Why she never alowed rakhi and her hubby to decide for kinjal? Wsa she kinjal mother this jagat mata

has she bothered to take care of kinjal after the affair issue no oly rakhi taking responsibility

aisa hi hota hai apni ma baap apne hote hain dusron ke maa baap kabhi apne nahi hote

this stupid kinjal never understood that at 25 years too and was saying anupama ma ma all these years crazy

Sorry but anupama did not get marry kinjal to toshu

Anupama use to tell toshu to wait and has patience let me talk to rakhi

But toshu se wait nahi hua aur kinal aur toshu apni apni family ko Bina bataya Ghar se bhaag kur court marriage kar liya

But Anupama stopped Rakhi from slapping Kinjal saying she's my daughter in law now. That was absolutely not cool. At the end of the day, Kinjal is still Rakhi's daughter who disobeyed her and got married secretly to a good for nothing character. Rakhi had every right to be upset about it and to take that right away from her by stopping her was not the right thing at that point. Now Kinjal herself regrets that decision terribly.

Kinjal has co dependency issues, and shah family exploits that very well.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Sorry but anupama did not get marry kinjal to toshu

Anupama use to tell toshu to wait and has patience let me talk to rakhi

But toshu se wait nahi hua aur kinal aur toshu apni apni family ko Bina bataya Ghar se bhaag kur court marriage kar liya

court marriage takes 60 days notice

and even publishes notice whether any objection to marraige

toshu and kinjal cannot marry one day sudden they hv to register give notice for any objection by registrar etc

except very big cities like mumbai in smaller city news will spread that someone had registered to be married as notice is published

did rakhi not know that these ppl hv registered in rehistrar to marry for 60 days or anupama

that is reason couples from smaller towns run to big metro to marry or registar as it will not be known to family i guess as too many ppl register so it will not come in notice

for 60 days where did kinjal toshu stay

i hv not seen these epi so just asking

anupama who knows everything know not that toshu registered in court with kinjal for 60 days

aur rakhi has so many contacts she also do not know or what

uske tution insitute ke student wahan lawyer honge unko khabar nahi diya kya ki owner ki beti marraige ke liye notice diya hai court main

Originally posted by: Loveforworld

Kinjal has co dependency issues, and shah family exploits that very well.

kinjal wanted joint family to celebrate festivals

now her life spoiled

the anupama maa who kinjal wanted as maa also left shah house long back

these shahs just showing false love to her because they are after rahi property thru kinjal which come to toshu

same reason they are sweet to anuj too nowadays

all love for kinjal and anuj is for their money and property only

moment they grab all their business and property they will kick them off shah house and life

these two fools do not understand that also sad and hero worship that vanraj and shahs like own family - not seen bigger stupid ppl than these two ever

even malvika vanraj had love affair for her monney business only

even if samar is good person if he marries these shahs will use her for propertty and money only

isiliye kehte hain family dekho shaadi ke liye first even if boy or girl good and family worst they do not marry kyunki family fayda utaha thi hai zindagi baar

or kinjal spouse also bad family too bad

Anupama support kintosh marriage as both love each other .yes anupama try to console toshu but she did not ask toshu to run with kinjal and get married

Yes I know we have book for court marriage in advance but is serial mein aisa khuch nahi dikhaya

It is when rakhi told that she Wil take kinjal u.s abd get her married to another boy in u.s toshu become impatient

Anupama see toshu running round and round around garden continously because he fear rakhi will get kinjal Marry to another guy in u.s

Anupama thought she will talk to toshu in morning

And here toshu told samar he is going to meet kinjal ( even samar has no idea then kintosh will get marry . He thought toshu just going to meet kinjal)

So toshu went to kinjal at rakhi house at night secretly ,convince kinjal to get marry to him kinjal got convince by toshu word and she ran with toshu and getting married in court

Anupama has no idea that toshu ran away from house and married to kinjal until rakhi call anupama in morning ki meri beti kahan chupa diya toshu use Bhaga le gaya .

Then rakhi call police to arrest anupama and after few minutes kintosh arrive wearing garland where kinjal ask police not to arrest anupama