Misgynostic patriarchal show

This is one misogynistic patriarchal anti woman show

Even Ektas Kyunk Saas bhi bahit thi and Kasauti zindagi ki which were patriachial shows are much better than this woman centric show

1) The woman takes abuse for 25 years from husband and in laws but no family member objects

2) Woman stays with ex hubby after divorce in ex hubby house society not objecting (more like threesome between vanraj kavya anupama)

3) Woman goes to ex hubby house daily one pertex or another after 2nd marraige everyones quiet in name of her kids who are gown up

4) Woman is neglecting second hubby and child from second marraige no one saying anything

5) Woman keeps talking non stop nonsense preaching which she never follows one word

6) Woman stays with 2nd hubby in same house before wedding all ok

7) Woman now thinking of giving second chance to cheating hubby(kinjal whose MBA)

8) Man has affair and just cuts his forehead and kidnaps his child and all give another chance by going to therapy(should all cheating hubby go to wellness centers and wives should forgive?)

9) 2nd husband tagging along shamelessely to first hubby house no one saying anything

10) woman always in kitchen house work men always enjoying in main hall sitting (even kinjal who goes to work is educated)

11) 7 year old getting abused for being orphan and adopted

12) pillow break therapy for husband raping and hitting wife(Malvika)

13) Boys of house toshu and samar are having multiple affairs roming around with them breaking up with multiple woman but sister cannot do same pakhi. If Adhik is bad person tell me what is toshu even more worst than any adhik. Tell me what is samar who roamed with nandini and threw engagement ring at her face etc what are toshu and samar compared to adhik? More worst more classless character less only

What sort of message to society is this

Tulsi and Prerana were much better women empowerment models than this anupama and kinjal (never thought will say this)

This is highly misogynistic anti woman serial thats showing more 10th century khilji and ghengis khan time way of treating woman than 2022 modern woman

Its very pro cheating husbands and men in general

It treats good men like jhoru ke ghulam spineless like anuj and samar and mamaji etc and show them like losers as their wives do not care for them

And all bad men cheating men woman abusers are worshipped and treated like heroes like vanraj toshu etc and enjoy having affairs with multiple woman and get forgiven by wives ex wives girl friends again and again in name of family

Already rape and eve teasing voilence on woman is at all time high after watching this wrong message imagine how next gen boys will behave in next 10-20 years

Is this kind of serial that society requires in 2022 which propogates multiple love affairs by cheating hubby, a 50 plus year old having affairs with 30 year olds to snatch her business, a 45 year old boss having 8 year affair with subordinate in her 20s, a 28 year old having affair with a woman when wife is pregnant, a child getting abused for being adopted, a woman calling ex in laws as parents after 25 year abuse, a abused wive cheated wife making ex hubby best friend

What sort of message going to young girls and even boys?

One thing us clear whether anupama go to shah or not CVS love to show shah house most of time

Today they have shown atleast 8 times shah house which was not required and out of 8 they have already shown 3 times shah house Even with out anupama

After Anuj and anupama went to sleep next morning CVS can easily scene to anupama and Anuj office and going for projectvsite but no these CVS again next morning shift t scene o shah house only and showing useless and repeative scene mujhe Samar ki shaadi jald se jald Karni Hai

These writer log love to show shah house chahe uske scene repetitive ho ya faltu ho

Ekta Kapoor never show realistic problem in her serial woh aisi problem dikhati Jo real life mein log face nahi karte hai

Isiye chahe usme jitna women empowerment dihaye still I can't connect it to kyonki usme problem Jo dikhayi jaati hai woh realistic nahi hoti Hai

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Ekta Kapoor never show realistic problem in her serial woh aisi problem dikhati Jo real life mein log face nahi karte hai

Isiye chahe usme jitna women empowerment dihaye still I can't connect it to kyonki usme problem Jo dikhayi jaati hai woh realistic nahi hoti Hai

I think tulsi virani was betrayed by mihir virani just like vanraj cheated anupama

hows it different

only thing mihir virani do no humilate and treat tulsi like a slave but tuli was hated by mom in law no same like Leela

yes virani family had too many characters and were very rich but similar story

even tulsi got a step son karan virani by huby affair which anupama not faced so far

if anuj has a child out of wed lock than anupama may face issue in future

atleast tulsi was much more stronger in facing tough life than any anupama although did not divorce hubby

even prerana shown powerful in front of mr bajaj who married her by blackmail

mr bajaj never cross limit like vanraj with prerana and gave all freedom to her although both not married out of will forced marriage

I mean the way they show planning plotting In serial and guest coming to house ahd staying there for endless time and try to take revenge from.family but act sweet infromt of family

Female lead or vamp come with plastic surgery and take revenge

And protagamist aur vamp use marriage as entry card to take revenge or destroy family

Jo ki aamtor pe Ekta Kapoor ke serial mein Hota Hai

Aisa real life mein kyaHota Hai ki koi bhi bahu shaadi ke bahane Ghar mein aaye family ko destroy kare ya ya koi bhi guest aaya aur woh badla le raha hai aur woh us Ghar se jaane ka naam nahi le raha aur Ghar mein planning plotting Kar raha hai

Aur Jo yeh dikhate hai ki pehli bhagwaan ki Aarti main karoongi .yeh log bhagwaan ki arti mein ladaai dikhati hai ki Ghar mein roj ki arti mein pehli Aarti Kaun karegs

Aisa real.life mein kya family kya pehli Aarti Kaun karegs iske liye koi ladta hai I have never scene such fight

Aur yeh sub Ekta Kapoor ke serial mein dikhaye hai .

Triangle affair to aaj Kal serial ki story ho gayi but usme aur bahut se problem dikhaya jaata Jo real life mei Hota hi nahi

Originally posted by: surabhi01

I mean the way they show planning plotting In serial and guest coming to house ahd staying there for endless time and try to take revenge from.family but act sweet infromt of family

Female lead or vamp come with plastic surgery and take revenge

And protagamist aur vamp use marriage as entry card to take revenge or destroy family

Jo ki aamtor pe Ekta Kapoor ke serial mein Hota Hai

Aisa real life mein kyaHota Hai ki koi bhi bahu shaadi ke bahane Ghar mein aaye family ko destroy kare ya ya koi bhi guest aaya aur woh badla le raha hai aur woh us Ghar se jaane ka naam nahi le raha aur Ghar mein planning plotting Kar raha hai

Aur Jo yeh dikhate hai ki pehli bhagwaan ki Aarti main karoongi .yeh log bhagwaan ki arti mein ladaai dikhati hai ki Ghar mein roj ki arti mein pehli Aarti Kaun karegs

Aisa real.life mein kya family kya pehli Aarti Kaun karegs iske liye koi ladta hai I have never scene such fight

Aur yeh sub Ekta Kapoor ke serial mein dikhaye hai .

Triangle affair to aaj Kal serial ki story ho gayi but usme aur bahut se problem dikhaya jaata Jo real life mei Hota hi nahi

True i only saw kyunk after karan virani enters and for a year or so not much

So no idea that plastic surgery of villan vamp etc

But in real life too people act sweet but back stab like vamps

But no one in real life go to ex hubby home every other day like anupama

No one laughs and dances with ex hubby after divroce like anupama

No one calls ex in laws as parents after divorce

No 2nd hubby is best friend with 1 st hubby in real life like anuj

In earlier koi apna sa they show plastic surgery and kundali Bhagya they are showing plastic

In koi apma sa some one killed lead husband and lead did plastic surgery to take revenge from her husband murdeer

I can tell ki Ekta Kapoor ki story kya hoti Hai

First they show simple normal family then main lead go to rich family any how and then girl.from middle class and boy from rich family fall in love with each other but some other members also against it even other girl don't like it .vamp try to kil femalel lead or make her infertile .then Some how female lead abd positive lead get married

After marriage misunderstanding between couple start start male lead start blaming female lead ki yeh kisks bacha hai yeh Mera bacha nahi hai and leads got divorce or sperate start leaving separately in different countries with child

Phir some body kill male lead or female lead but ou of these think k uske spouse ne use maarne ki koshish ki

To apne spouse se badna lene ke kiye plastic surgery karate hai aur business tycoon ho jaate hai just to take revenge from spouse because he or she thought uske spouse ne apne boyfriend ke saath maarne ki koshish ki the is basic story of Ekta Kapoor

Women empowerment in serial possible only if we stop giving so much importance to couple. Marriage audience to be blame first whenever leas got divorce due to some problem by her first husband and then we immediately want new guy for divorce female lead and start rooting for immediately second marriage and their romance

Ideally it should be after divorce first there should e female lead standing and developing her identify for 2,3 years then there should be talk about marriage But actually do we want to see Women empowerment?fact is that we actually want that after divorce female lead should Fall in love with guy and marry wih him and she should be truly dedicated to him and her whole life should be around husband only

If we want really Women empowerment then we would first like to see anupama building her own identity only but but no after divorce we only want anupama romance with another guy and then getting marry to new guy and seeing anupama taking care of husband after second marriage

Queen movie is best example of women empowerment

After her fiance break marriage with her writer did not show another guy for her infact writer show. Developing her own identity and developing self confidence without getting marry to another guy

That's so true. That's my favourite movie. I wish makers had focused more on Anupamaa's journey and shown her complete on her own. A few days ago, they suddenly made Anuj say dialogues like ek din wo tha jab tum laptop bhi theek se nahi open kar pa rahi thi aaj dekho mera poora business sambhal liya. Voila, Anupamaa's journey complete🤪