Praising a person above ability

While i understand anuj loves anu and worships her

His unnecessary praising her above her ability etc may make his brother and bhabhi angry

I mean thats how bias starts i family with someone not so deserving getting powers and praised by head of family

Be it a parent or sibling etc

Mukku was a blind deewani of anu so was GK

But barkha and anuj brother may not follow this blind worship of anupama by anuj and GK

Even i do not feel anupama should be praised so sky high she does not truly deserve praises - if anu can cook indian barkha can cook italian kinjal can cook too not as much as anupama but she can

We must not unnecessary praise or hero worship one family member be it mother or wife to make others feel jealous and angry

Everyone has some unique ability in life

If anupama can cook and manage home so can barkha and kinjal and mukku and kavya in their own ways (i am comparing women only in family or relatives)

Barkha cannot cook indian may be or people please like anupam aher hubby etc

Kinjal may not cook as nice as anupama but shes MBA can do office work at 25 years only together unlike anupama thats a big achievement even greater than anus

Kavya may not do house work but shes again MBA and can manage big businesses and office related issues very well so why put her down

Mukku may not cook much but she can travel world alone unlike most girls and protect herself and handle business

But anuj and Bapuji act as if anu can do it all, she cannot do majority work others do actually - like handling office and business and travel alone world et which other relatives of hers do

So why are all praising her sky high unnecessary i never understood

Yes shes abused by vanraj and family but kavya too has been abused and devika too and Mukku was abused by her hubby and even by vanraj in office yet she over came those shocks in life and leading independent life

When you unnecessary praise an human above ability or give him or her more powers jealousy creep's in family

What should you than tell our moms who woke up at 4am cooked for family with in laws and kids than went to work for 10 hours came back cooked, helped in home work etc slept at midnight in 1990s and 2000s

Anupama life is 10 times easier than what women our our mothers gen did because no machines no online payments no amazon shopping grofers than - i mean our mom gen should get oscars going by how anupam ais being over praised by anuj and some shahs over her ability and given powers that shes not capable of handling over her education ability. Mukku getting signing powers was ok shes educated and has ability not anupama actually

Thank god Mukku hero worship anu like a mother or imagine nanand bhabhi main world war ho jatha on anuj decision to give her 100% business - its basically humilating a persons ability by giving powers to less deserving just because shes your love

What do you think of this issue in families? This is common issue n india and asia praising one family more than they deserve over others

Usually in india family fights start from here only in families and lead to split

Why not praise an human with truth what he deserves not more not less (like westerners, they usually give jobs or work based on qualifications or power and ability only not love or bias mostly)

Will any USa company give anupama signing powers 100%

orr will any husband will give his full 100% property to his wife and not his sister and himself too

what are your ideas on this gen issue in india be it family or company or business where favouratism and relationship matter more than ability

What wrong if anu get praise. Matlab har time anupama ki bus buraai honi chahiye? Anupama ki taref hi kitni हू है. Anupama was badly crictise that too uncesay by vanraj baa pakhi toshu

Jitne hatred anupama ne jhela hai utna hatred to shaysaf hi kisi character ne jhela है anupama mein

Anupama pe log specially baa vaneaj tiahu unnecessary bahut jyaafa harsh hue hai

अगर blind worship nahi honi chahiye anupama ki to blind hatred bhi nahi honi chahiye anupama ki

Aniupama never expect anything for herself. She never want praise in return

She did her all dutiies selflessly without expecting in return

Whether anupama get praise or buraai anupama always did her duty self lesekt

She never did any work for praise

It is we feel bad for her in spite of anupama lot of care since 250year she mostly badly humilate by Shah

I glad anupama getting praise which she really deserve

And anupama is just symbol of all those house wife b jo ghar ka kaam karke karke lghar ke family ka selflessly love and care karti है मगर phr bhi umhe humilation jhelna padta hai bina matlab b

Kavya barlha rakhi yeh sub hongi bahut badi cook hongi bshut bsdi padhi likhi bahut badi cook but anupama ne kabhi inki. Insult nahi ki aiond kabhi apme aap ko superior nahi dihaya

But in sub ne anupama ko. Bina matlab anupama ko inferior dikhatya

I found nothing wrong in Anuj praising Anupama in front of Barkha and Ankush. Yes if he praised Anupama immensely infront of his own mother or father, then it would have been unfair and could have lead to family disputes as mother, father and wife all should be treated equally. But here the case is different. Ankush and Barkha are just cousins of Anuj whom he has not met for many years. It should be obvious to them that Anupamaa means much more to him than any of them. His praising or not praising Anu should not bother them. They have zero rights on Anuj's property so it should not matter to them whom Anuj gives signing power. Anuj struck a good balance between Mukku and Anupama. I don't remember him ever prioritizing one over another.