What stage of the relationship is this?

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Posted: 3 years ago
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MaAn have taken a very modern approach to dating. I'm really proud of them, especially Anu.

I'm curious as to what stage of the relationship you guys think they are in ?

They are not in a committed relationship and beyond friends they don't have label. I guess in Canada/USA, we would call this this the "talking" stage.

Is this the equivalent of meeting someone on an online dating app where you indicate that you are looking for "friends" but open to possibilities?

Do either Anu or Anuj have the right to be upset if one of them starting getting to know someone else?

If she liked him like that in the beginning, I guess they would've just jumped into a relationship, but I'm glad they are building on a foundation of friendship first.

It gives them some time to really assess each other and make sure that they like each other before the physical intimacy takes over and (sometimes) confuses a relationship.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Whatever phase is this...but i am sure maan se jyada hum logo ko mazaa aa raha hai🤣

Its more than the talking stage. Maan are unique their equation cant be labelled or put in readymade templates.

First it was more than friendship less than love. Now it is definitely love but less than live in inspite of living in same house. oh...what not I'll give if they confess their love and continue to be in live in for a while☺️ it will be a trend setter on itv🤣 40 plus couple living in together.☺️🤣

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Posted: 3 years ago
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why it is necessary to name a stage or level in a relationship


maan are beutiful and pure that the labelled relationships

is show main hi dekh lo kaunse label wale RELATIONSHIP YA stage CLEAR wale khush hain they have mopst beutiful relationship in the show till date i am happy they are not any defined stage or label tag in it

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: mithilalovesksg

why it is necessary to name a stage or level in a relationship


maan are beutiful and pure that the labelled relationships

is show main hi dekh lo kaunse label wale RELATIONSHIP YA stage CLEAR wale khush hain they have mopst beutiful relationship in the show till date i am happy they are not any defined stage or label tag in it

So true.. they are way beyond branding a label to their relationship.. their relationship is so pure.. it is bliss to watch a relationship which is developing on the strongest foundation of friendship and trust..

The openness with which they can discuss anything and everything, the understanding which is so deep rooted, the trust what they have on each other and the love what they share in their heart for each other.. is beyond any tag or name..

They are love.. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul

Whatever phase is this...but i am sure maan se jyada hum logo ko mazaa aa raha hai🤣

Its more than the talking stage. Maan are unique their equation cant be labelled or put in readymade templates.

First it was more than friendship less than love. Now it is definitely love but less than live in inspite of living in same house. oh...what not I'll give if they confess their love and continue to be in live in for a while☺️ it will be a trend setter on itv🤣 40 plus couple living in together.☺️🤣


Precisely, I feel MaAn marriage will have issues for sure, its ITV.

However, i would like them to continue this live-in even if they decide not to marry for some time being.

Let's be honest, they need companionship more than a label as marriage. They are already married and partners in true sense now only.

They only need to speak and accept their feelings openly in front of all, so that this question of Anu ever having to leave K house is closed for good for forever.


Only thing remaining is physical intimacy.. its dangerous area for me to comment..they are sanskaari, its ITV otherwise, they can set an example even there. ....... okay, maine bol diya, mere maan ki baat 🤣


I am not sure, whether they plan to have their own kids in future. That may be only reason for them to get married, some where people still don't accept children outside legal marriage.

And it might be good to see Anu dressed as married with sindoor, mangalsutra and keeping vrat savitri, karwa chauth and so on for Anuj. And if Anuj only fills her maang with sindoor each time, nothing better (read sexy) than that.

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Originally posted by: Km181


Precisely, I feel MaAn marriage will have issues for sure, its ITV.

However, i would like them to continue this live-in even if they decide not to marry for some time being.

Let's be honest, they need companionship more than a label as marriage. They are already married and partners in true sense now only.

They only need to speak and accept their feelings openly in front of all, so that this question of Anu ever having to leave K house is closed for good for forever.


Only thing remaining is physical intimacy.. its dangerous area for me to comment..they are sanskaari, its ITV otherwise, they can set an example even there. ....... okay, maine bol diya, mere maan ki baat 🤣


I am not sure, whether they plan to have their own kids in future. That may be only reason for them to get married, some where people still don't accept children outside legal marriage.

And it might be good to see Anu dressed as married with sindoor, mangalsutra and keeping vrat savitri, karwa chauth and so on for Anuj. And if Anuj only fills her maang with sindoor each time, nothing better (read sexy) than that.

Shadi mein issues honge to hi maja h na.. Sidhe sidhe shadi hogi to kya mza rhega... Woh kitne bhi din live in hume koi prob nhi... But i can't believe in this stage of age they are sanskari living in relationship.. Specially anu..

Bachche krna hum unke upar chhod dete hai🤣

Last point unofficial married mein hi itna kuch kr rhe official married honge kya kya krenge but they r sanskaari so jyada expect nhi kr skte h but imagine to kr skte hai na.. Yr komal bachalo mujhe mein alag duniya me jaa rhi hu... U can understand it.. 🤣

Office married ke kab ayenge anuj mang bharega hi nhi sab vrath bhi rakhega... 🤣🤣🤣 anu ko akele kaise krne dega.. Yaa as u said nothing better sexy than that...

Abe main ky bol rhi pahele confession to pata nhi konse muhuurat pe hoga ohh🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ confession delayed too much to lose interest..

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: QueeN456

Shadi mein issues honge to hi maja h na.. Sidhe sidhe shadi hogi to kya mza rhega... Woh kitne bhi din live in hume koi prob nhi... But i can't believe in this stage of age they are sanskari living in relationship.. Specially anu..

Bachche krna hum unke upar chhod dete hai🤣

Last point unofficial married mein hi itna kuch kr rhe official married honge kya kya krenge but they r sanskaari so jyada expect nhi kr skte h but imagine to kr skte hai na.. Yr komal bachalo mujhe mein alag duniya me jaa rhi hu... U can understand it.. 🤣

Office married ke kab ayenge anuj mang bharega hi nhi sab vrath bhi rakhega... 🤣🤣🤣 anu ko akele kaise krne dega.. Yaa as u said nothing better sexy than that...

Abe main ky bol rhi pahele confession to pata nhi konse muhuurat pe hoga ohh🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ confession delayed too much to lose interest..


@red: can understand

Yaar Rani... confession is like, label to be honest... marriage bhi ek label hi hai...

baaki sab kuch to kar hi rahe hai as married, ek ghar main sab kuch share karna, haq jatana...


i am telling you ITV hai isliye dikhange nahi,,, warna Anu is dept main super progressive hai.. dreams dekh le..


Tere dream pani bharenge, as in bachcha dreams honge ... Anu ke un-cut un-edited dreams ke saamne...


so mujhe to marriage main 0% interest hai..bas openly accept kar lo...


somehow men keeping fast is too common, chahe to dono vrat rakho, ya dono mat rakho... bas to maang main sindoor wala scene de dena, phir ek dusre ko khana khilana... bas main is hi main khus ho jaongi..

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Km181


@red: can understand

Yaar Rani... confession is like, label to be honest... marriage bhi ek label hi hai...

baaki sab kuch to kar hi rahe hai as married, ek ghar main sab kuch share karna, haq jatana...


i am telling you ITV hai isliye dikhange nahi,,, warna Anu is dept main super progressive hai.. dreams dekh le..


Tere dream pani bharenge, as in bachcha dreams honge ... Anu ke un-cut un-edited dreams ke saamne...


so mujhe to marriage main 0% interest hai..bas openly accept kar lo...


somehow men keeping fast is too common, chahe to dono vrat rakho, ya dono mat rakho... bas to maang main sindoor wala scene de dena, phir ek dusre ko khana khilana... bas main is hi main khus ho jaongi..

Yr baat to Tu sahi kr rhi hai... Anu itni bold h n usk dream super duper progressive n romantic h.. Kash uncut nhi krte to sab mil jaata.. I hope they saved it for reality.. Than dreams.. After all reality me maja hai na... 😃😃😃

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul

Whatever phase is this...but i am sure maan se jyada hum logo ko mazaa aa raha hai🤣

Its more than the talking stage. Maan are unique their equation cant be labelled or put in readymade templates.

First it was more than friendship less than love. Now it is definitely love but less than live in inspite of living in same house. oh...what not I'll give if they confess their love and continue to be in live in for a while☺️ it will be a trend setter on itv🤣 40 plus couple living in together.☺️🤣

oh i am definitely enjoying 🤣


i like that...they cant be labelled. i guess atp he knows that there is something being reciprocated from her end as well. Anuj always had to restrain himself, but its so beautiful to see him asserting himself in response to her behaviour...how she looks at him, blushes, gets flustered, chokes on her words...im so happy that he isnt THAT dense that he doesnt see that she feels something for him too. i want to see them live together, just the two of them, no one else! now that would be a trendsetter.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

oh i am definitely enjoying 🤣


i like that...they cant be labelled. i guess atp he knows that there is something being reciprocated from her end as well. Anuj always had to restrain himself, but its so beautiful to see him asserting himself in response to her behaviour...how she looks at him, blushes, gets flustered, chokes on her words...im so happy that he isnt THAT dense that he doesnt see that she feels something for him too. i want to see them live together, just the two of them, no one else! now that would be a trendsetter.

They r living together and underatand each other so well.. they understand eo unspoken words, inhibitions, insecurities, fear, problems and always there for each other..

I just love how Anuj is balancing the love, the haq and the subtality in physical intimacy.. if u have noticed, even while fighting her necklace- he has only touched the thread.. not even once touched Anu during that scene..

These small gestures take my heart away... 😍😍😍😍😍😍

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