Originally posted by: RainFire125
phewwww...hahaha, as many of you have said it was a nice episode and again with many perceptions - all seen from their own experience, angle, lens, happenstances and so on.
I am not happy about one thing with Makers today --- you should have shown Anu and Anuj in a single frame many times when the perception sharing was happening!! This was super imp. Since the expressions was shown separately, i did not get that connect in my head. At times i felt that it was shot separately and then was shown side by side as in together!! Even though the expressions did convey emotions, turbulations, I def would have liked to see MaAn in one frame at those points!!
For me the dance sequence was good enough :)...i was not expecting any hot scenes bec of the way these two are (nature i mean), and they are not yet in that stage of showing sizzling romance, so i was ok. It was sweet, cute; Ofcourse both were looking stunning, GK more!!!! The ibbadat part could have been a little slow, but i guess since they showed 4 lines they had to speed it up maybe. Although they could have started differently, the episode i mean, the start was abrupt i feel .. showing the kawali directly.
Coming to the most imp part of today's episode .... the varied perceptions based on their own life, their experience, their understanding with each other (as in couple) i mean.... all made sense from where they were standing.
Dolly and Sanjay as positive example of an arranged marriage as they have that mutual respect, understanding and also love. Both are working to make the relation work.
Toshu and Kinjal are an example of a one sided try to keep the marriage going! Like father like son who is full of ego, who does not leave a single chance to jab at his so claimed love (his wife), will def talk about the negative aspect of marriage and even love!! He is def toxic and no one should make any decision just by listening to him. Kinjal was trying to still reflect the positive side, trying to say things can be made to work, but NO this guy was on and on about how things do not work!! Bhai if you start with the intent only of not making it work or with the thought that it will not work, then undoubtedly IT WILL NOT WORK!!
Samar, you are a sweetheart!! Like your mother, you are still full of positivity and believe that world is a beautiful place!!! You go kiddo, you will make things work as your intent or motive is always positive!! No wonder Nandu fell in love with you too!!!!
Vanraj babu - even though today you were cordial with ANuj, you behaved as a gentleman with him, you are trying to be a good human for a change with an outsider who loves you ex, your outlook towards marriage and life still sucks!!! Your wife is not the only resp one to make a marriage work!! You failed miserably in your first marriage, you betrayed your first wife and as karma def pays back, your second wife and your love mind you, betrayed on!! And you are still on the high that you can teach your woman (Kavya) a lesson by sending her divorce papers??? WOW..... no wonder you cannot make your marriages work. You are good single!!! Pls remain single.
Anu - i loved your positivity and out look towards life and relations in general. Even after suffering so much, you still have a positive bone in you. You are learning to let go, you are mending yourself and picking the pieces slowly. I loved the part where she was getting irritated at Toshu when he said ANuj that all the gyan is good to listen but not practical!! I loved when she was looking at ANuj everytime GK kaka threw those bombs!!!!!! I loved when she did realize again what Bapuji was hinting at when he talked about opening the pardas and having faith in relationships!! She will increase the faith quotient the more she sees Anuj and his nuances!! I also liked the fact that she paused when she had that just one katora of kheer!! She wanted to give it to Anuj, but she did not want to disrespect V. Sign of a good natured soul. I firmly believe that we should not let go of our core nature, our core good habits, even though our worst enemy is sitting in front. I guess V today was in a mood to cause trouble and hence he acted like a gentleman.
Anuj -- what a practical, positive outlook!! No wonder you are a charmer!! Every word he said, he said it for ANu. He was observing the people, listening to their opinions, was not judgemental at all and put forth his point very politely and genuinely. See the goodness of this man too - he was also cordial with V, he knows V is toxic in nature, but still he was a well mannered man with V. It was like i am giving u a chance buddy and lets see how we move ahead from here. He ignored Kavya's sarcastic awwwwww.... haha, not every dialog or reaction warrants an action!!! I totally love this man!! He knows when to let go, when to make someone understand with proper use of words!!
Loved Bapuji's msg that one crime cannot forgo a 50 years of relation! What leela did was no less than a crime, even though she did it in rage, but the husband letting go and trying to mend the relation is a big big game changing move. This is bec both dont want to let go of the relation yet. hence this effort!!
Marriage or for that matter any relation is like a garden or a pot of flowers. You need to work on it daily and both the parties or all people involved have to do their bit. The % or scale might differ a little or can differ, but it cannot differ by a huge number. The understanding, the need to make it work has to be visible from both ends. Compromises need to be made from all sides. Polishing need to be happen by and from every person. Lasting relationships are continuous work, you can never know a person 100% in a lifetime. A person does not even reveal 100% to the most loved one. Its a time investment task to know the person in the real sense!!
I will not talk about Pakhi's perceptions even though she pointed out the scenarios rightly from her angle. Good that V asked her to look at his parents also as an example - the positive side.
Phone convos - i did mention that it does not look like they are related and they are NOT!! V is def serving divorce papers to his beloved wife. At the moment as i said his attention is not towards ANu. Its just Kavya. But Anu knows this man well and she is not comfortable with what she is observing. Kavya is really delusional and I will say she does not know V at all!!
Anuj's call just gives me one thought - this person is not a very positive one in his life. He did not want to pick the call and talk as the convo might not be good and hence he did not want to spoil Anu's day. We will wait more to see the plot unfold!! His intent today was not to spoil Anu's day in any way.
Precap -- V's hand in Anu's shoulder --- why does this make us think that she does not have any self respect??????? Arent we being judgemental???? Let the scene play out tom fully!!! Why cant we think that she has moved on or def is trying hard and V does not affect her, atleast not on the same scale as it used to before, OR she is fully merged in her parents anniversary celebs and is not even thinking of V as such, OR she is not a person to create havoc or hangama in between celebrations unless absolutely necessary!! Its not necessary always to react. It could be a momentary action also. So lets give her space and see what happens tomorrow. We love Anuj as he is not judgemental at all and we here pounce immediately when we see one thing that seems off to us!!!!!!
Dont beat me folks, but i def feel at times that we are too quick in reactions.
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