Of Sons ,Lovers and Husbands

The recent episodes have thrown up a lot of points pertaining to relationships.

We saw the differences in the sons responses to their moms. Samar who is supportive and understanding. Ladla and his ladla going ballistic and spewing venom at their mothers. Anupama reminding Vanraj not to emulate he model of his useless boot licking son by saying such nasty tings to his mother in a fit of rage.

We see the magnanimity of Hasmukh shah towards Vanraj and the pettiness of Vanraj towards Samar.

We have seen the possessive lover Vanraj becoming a constantly bickering, annoyed husband.

We have seen Vanraj try hard to control Anupama even when married to Kavya. he acts like a spurned lover when he sees the extent to which Anuj adulates Anupama. His restlessness when A&A are delayed the stormy night.

Paritosh emulates his father's model and thinks a husband needs to exercise his rights on his wife. When Kinjal tries to adapt to her new family he calls her a behenji. To him his marriage comes with frills of a life of luxury. He is reluctant to let go of the same.

Samar like his mother is selfless in his love for Nandini i many ways.

Anuj is that ideal partner every woman craves for a perfect foil to he self centered Vanraj. in each and every action of his , his poetry one sees the extent to which he cares for Anupama.

Sanjay who has no problem in his wife writing off her share of the Tamashah House in favour of her bother. Who whole heartedly embraces her family as his who stands up for Dolly treating her as an equal.

Hasmukh Shah treating his wife as equal partner never going against her in Public but always speaking to her in private pointing her errors and hoping she changes is the exact opposite of Vanraj in the way he treats Kavya and treated Anupama. Controlling and delusional.

Wow . A brilliant analysis ❤❤❤❤ and an inspiring one too.

Esp mentioning sanjay and bapuji's angles too is just outstanding 👏👏👌👌

Stark contrast bw all these male characters . Some r engulfed with male chauvinism while others walk on the path of equality in real sense only that some of their partners demean them.

Perfectly put dear. 👏👏👏❤❤

Thanks for d tag 🤗🤗

Brilliant post🙌👏👏 I am not even sure whether the parade of these dynamics were written intentionally by the creative team or mere conincidences but the choices are left to the viewers to witness what life can be when you allow yourself and your partner to be liberated, loved and included! As you mentioned Anuj is everything a woman wants and that is because he puts her happiness before his own..In love like that, there are no conditions, expectations or pettiness...am sure if Anu says she is going back to Vanraj, he will be heartbroken but will still let her coz he finds happiness in hers. Its a safe space where your partner feels nurtured..🥰

Vanraj and Kavya have nothing between them that displays even a glimpse of love or respect..its controlling, insecured and filled with void! The less said the better. In a way the deserve each other or rather complement each other🤷‍♀️

It is very interesting to see the differences misogynist that Ladla is, he can never appreciate the goodness in others. Paritosh goes a step further and can see the value of material wealth alone. Samar is not attracted to money for him his ties with people matter. How cute it was that he bought the favourite food items to eat with his loved ones on new year uplifting the mood.

A person who is respectful, treats everyone with respect. Thats the kind Hasmukh Shah, Anupama, Anuj and Samar fall under. The barabari in the partnership that Anuj mentioned is seen in every relationship of theirs. They light up any space in normal circumstances.

Thank you for the tag. 🤗

Well penned down dear.

In the past few episodes, we did have seen roller coaster ride in terms of emotions, ups and downs of some of the characters in the show.

Vanraaj out of no blue was missing Anu, he then again saying in front of family ki ye baharwali hai. He may be a good lover but pathetic husband which was seen time and again.

Kavya is the same in all phases till now. So true to herself.😆

Babuji is such a gentleman that he treated his wife so well in public and even in private never raised his voice but explained his wife.

Well, yes Anuj is the Man that every lady wants the similar life partner.

Ladla is the most confused, inconsistent character I have ever seen.

It was hilarious to note that he was holed up in a hotel room in the same city after hearing Anuj's confession. Festival and family didn't matter then?

Originally posted by: moonwearer

The recent episodes have thrown up a lot of points pertaining to relationships.

We saw the differences in the sons responses to their moms. Samar who is supportive and understanding. Ladla and his ladla going ballistic and spewing venom at their mothers. Anupama reminding Vanraj not to emulate he model of his useless boot licking son by saying such nasty tings to his mother in a fit of rage.

We see the magnanimity of Hasmukh shah towards Vanraj and the pettiness of Vanraj towards Samar.

We have seen the possessive lover Vanraj becoming a constantly bickering, annoyed husband.

We have seen Vanraj try hard to control Anupama even when married to Kavya. he acts like a spurned lover when he sees the extent to which Anuj adulates Anupama. His restlessness when A&A are delayed the stormy night.

Paritosh emulates his father's model and thinks a husband needs to exercise his rights on his wife. When Kinjal tries to adapt to her new family he calls her a behenji. To him his marriage comes with frills of a life of luxury. He is reluctant to let go of the same.

Samar like his mother is selfless in his love for Nandini i many ways.

Anuj is that ideal partner every woman craves for a perfect foil to he self centered Vanraj. in each and every action of his , his poetry one sees the extent to which he cares for Anupama.

Sanjay who has no problem in his wife writing off her share of the Tamashah House in favour of her bother. Who whole heartedly embraces her family as his who stands up for Dolly treating her as an equal.

Hasmukh Shah treating his wife as equal partner never going against her in Public but always speaking to her in private pointing her errors and hoping she changes is the exact opposite of Vanraj in the way he treats Kavya and treated Anupama. Controlling and delusional.

Very aptly summarized moon. I would have written almost the same thoughts. Am yet to watch today's. Will come back later ❤️

Originally posted by: moonwearer

Ladla is the most confused, inconsistent character I have ever seen.

It was hilarious to note that he was holed up in a hotel room in the same city after hearing Anuj's confession. Festival and family didn't matter then?

Sadist u see. He could not digest that. Abhi he is going to create more rukus

Brilliant write up moon 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

very well analysed... I can see how the relations vary with emotions and situations.

Vanraj being the most inconsistent, his tune and his taunts are subject to his role in the given situation.

Toshu being a dumber version of him, Vanraj is smart.

p.s: where’s my tag? lol JK