Main heroine hoon is one of golden episode

It's has been the best episode for me I m sure for most females in our society be it any stage will be able to relate to it. People have always put conditions on women s succes and always tried to cut wings. Most of times only people like kavya excel because of their selfish attitudes. But women are good their goodness becomes their slavery. Now ofcourse Anupama s situation is different her relationship dynamics but the mentality is same

As much as many of us find it relatable there are obviously other people who do consider themselves as progressive and clap hands when Anupama speaks dialogues but don't know their mentality is same. I think it's not vanraj toshu baa or kavya it's about the mentality of suppressing and then disrespecting and taunting as failure.

This is best episode for me. The golden episode of this show. The struggle of standing for oneself.

Now many people spoke of anupuma not leaving shah house. Infact I was fed up of this show. Anupama constantly uttering dialogues to kavya bla bla bla. But now if we look from Anupama or any woman in Anupama s stage we will understand her perspective. We are looking from Kinjal or kavya s perspective. Women like Anupama who spend their whole life when their sons are married they don't think of divorce as option. They would compromise their relationship with husband but not leave the house because now it's their home. Their home their kids their baa bapuji. There is identity crisis. They don't see their life beyond them neither those people can see their life without Anupama.

Now that Anupama will get out of comfort zone and will get in touch with women like her will realise that there is a life beyond shah house. That she also can find love and companionship. Her thoughts will change. She will start realising that she is beautiful the way she is. She will realise her true potential. That will be difficulties considering the taunts she will receive everyday but it's a journey. One day she comes late home and Anuj dropping her baa will create huge drama but it will fun to see devika anuj his kaka Anupama together having fun and working together.

I like the way you have looked at it from Anupamas perspective.

What makes kinjal, kavya , Rakhee and Devika speak up is the life experiences they have had. They have financial independence which contributes a great deal to their confidence.

They speak their mind spa re no one or care 2 hoots about being people pleasers. Anupama has been raised to think only of the of others. Ensuring their needs aremet is foremost in her to do list.

She sent the sweets ahead of her and it was relished before the altercation. It is not merely her family but even the way she looked after jillmil, geetha hi first bai or the poen in the school. She is the Annapoorna and will aspire to be that always.

She had always been in the background. Vanraj had never taken her to meet people. P1&2 too felt she can't meet their friends/ in laws. Now when they are relegated to the background their dented ego makes them spew venom.

It requires a magnanimous persona and a big heartt for Anuj to even be civil to the Shah's. They can never see the goodness in others. They can never be at the receiving end. They lack basic dignity and decency to acknowledge the success of others.

P1 blaming Samar that because of him Anuj came home... Anuj m ay have caused or O rchestrated the accident... The most bizarre accusation one can think of.

Kavya referred to anuj as a super hero now we have a super heroine.

Originally posted by: moonwearer

I like the way you have looked at it from Anupamas perspective.

What makes kinjal, kavya , Rakhee and Devika speak up is the life experiences they have had. They have financial independence which contributes a great deal to their confidence.

They speak their mind spa re no one or care 2 hoots about being people pleasers. Anupama has been raised to think only of the of others. Ensuring their needs aremet is foremost in her to do list.

She sent the sweets ahead of her and it was relished before the altercation. It is not merely her family but even the way she looked after jillmil, geetha hi first bai or the poen in the school. She is the Annapoorna and will aspire to be that always.

She had always been in the background. Vanraj had never taken her to meet people. P1&2 too felt she can't meet their friends/ in laws. Now when they are relegated to the background their dented ego makes them spew venom.

It requires a magnanimous persona and a big heartt for Anuj to even be civil to the Shah's. They can never see the goodness in others. They can never be at the receiving end. They lack basic dignity and decency to acknowledge the success of others.

P1 blaming Samar that because of him Anuj came home... Anuj m ay have caused or O rchestrated the accident... The most bizarre accusation one can think of.

Kavya referred to anuj as a super hero now we have a super heroine.

@bold- I so wanted to talk about this- what kind of people think this way?

I mean he must have such a sick outlook on life and people if he could come up with such an absurd accusation like hell this guy is next level insane!!!

Loved the line and the episode @shiner- It's good to read a different take on it, well said 👏

Each day we see the idiots contest for who isDUMB, DUMMER AND WHOSE THE DUMMEST.

TODAY'S 🏆goes to P1.

Today's Meanest 🏆goes to Baba Yaga.

Today's green eyed 👹 🏆 is awarded to Vanraj....

Kavya is overall runner up.

Originally posted by: moonwearer

I like the way you have looked at it from Anupamas perspective.

What makes kinjal, kavya , Rakhee and Devika speak up is the life experiences they have had. They have financial independence which contributes a great deal to their confidence.

They speak their mind spa re no one or care 2 hoots about being people pleasers. Anupama has been raised to think only of the of others. Ensuring their needs aremet is foremost in her to do list.

She sent the sweets ahead of her and it was relished before the altercation. It is not merely her family but even the way she looked after jillmil, geetha hi first bai or the poen in the school. She is the Annapoorna and will aspire to be that always.

She had always been in the background. Vanraj had never taken her to meet people. P1&2 too felt she can't meet their friends/ in laws. Now when they are relegated to the background their dented ego makes them spew venom.

It requires a magnanimous persona and a big heartt for Anuj to even be civil to the Shah's. They can never see the goodness in others. They can never be at the receiving end. They lack basic dignity and decency to acknowledge the success of others.

P1 blaming Samar that because of him Anuj came home... Anuj m ay have caused or O rchestrated the accident... The most bizarre accusation one can think of.

Kavya referred to anuj as a super hero now we have a super heroine.

Thank you. The shah parivaar needs mirror to introspect. Paritosh then 😆 weirdest reason ever he came up with. Looks he saw some tv shows.

So beautifully written. 👏👏❤ i totally agree. If we look from anu's POV a woman who had almost lost her own identity after entering her in laws house , as anu said even lost her name and became toshu ki mummy forever, her whole world revolved around her husband children her FIL and MIL.

She selflessly cared for all of them and in return got only humiliation and disrespect😢. The betrayal , baa taunting her , paritosh and pakhi insulting her all r years of practice and over confidence that anupamaa is just a slave she won't go against us , she is timid and can be easily controlled.

But good thing that happened in all these years of worst things and the betrayal was anu found her lost self. She realised she has a life of her own, she is an INDIVIDUAL who deserves equal RESPECT. Sherni came back and roared and is still doing 🔥

For a timid homemaker like anu who had taken baby steps with much confidence and conviction against the tortures of these hypocrites psycho shahs is in itself a very big thing. She now has a job in school, she has opened her own dance academy, and now she is gonna venture into business with so much of excitement to learn new things ❤🤗.

This in itself is a big inspiration and boosts confidence for simple women who wants to create an identity for themselves.

Anu has a long way to go to break her insecurities abt herself whether she is worthy of being loved. Anu u r beautiful the way u r and u deserve to be loved and respected so much ❤❤. Most imp u have a beautiful soul which no one has and that makes u one in a million and a beauty inside and out ❤❤

Sometimes i think jab Anu ne Vanraaj se shaadi ki to wo Vanraaj se infatuate ho gayi thi par wo uska true love nahi tha. I think jab wo Anuj ko jaanegi tab usse pata chalega true love kya hota hai❤️

Nature and nurture both shape character and Anupama’s nature is loving and giving, and she has been raised to be an ideal wife, daughter in law, and ideal mother. Ideal in the constricted sense of putting oneself second to everyone else. This will surely change as she steps out into the world to help women like her. Easy to push yourself down and squash your dreams and ambitions but hard to see someone else, other women especially, being oppressed and being denied opportunity to stand on their own feet. This is what her business plan proposes, to help such women. In doing this, she will become assertive teaching other women to stand up for their own rights and so will ideally unconsciously develop a spine and stand up for her own self as well.