Kinjal is speaking just like anupama - Page 3

Originally posted by: janecastle

@bold- So true. Kinjal questions Toshu for insulting his mother and family and then does the same with her mother. I don't understand what big mistake did Rakhi do that Kinjal is treating her like an enemy. Only thing Rakhi does is not worshipping Anupama like Kinjal. I don't think that's a big mistake. Neither is insulting that misogynist Vanraj Shah wrong.

Rakhi's concerns are all proving right. She was worried about Kinjal turning to another Anupama. That happened. She was also worried about Kinjal's career getting affected. That also proved right because of family drama and Kavya's behavior. Then she was worried about Toshu and Kinjal's married life. That is also on the rocks because of daily family drama and KinTosh's unwanted support of their MILs. So I don't really understand why Kinjal is behaving as if her mother is always wrong. Yes, Rakhi does have a habit of interfering. But can we really blame her when her daughter has married into Shah zoo.

Why is it that the husband's parents are allowed to interfere with the couple's married life but not the wife's? Doesn't the wife's parents also have a right on the couple?

Originally posted by: suresh555

Kinjal was just speaking to rakhi in rakhi's language. Rakhi only likes to show off her money and measures everything with money. I would have loved to see kinjal breaking off her relationship with her mom

She can but first repay Rakhi for all the money she spent on her like how paritosh had told vanraj that he would pay off his debt to vanraj. Then she can cut off all her ties with Rakhi after she does that but after that she will not have the right to lecture Paritosh or force him to live with the TamaShah family because she can't stop him from doing something she has done herself.

Originally posted by: Rein123

She can but first repay Rakhi for all the money she spent on her like how paritosh had told vanraj that he would pay off his debt to vanraj. Then she can cut off all her ties with Rakhi after she does that but after that she will not have the right to lecture Paritosh or force him to live with the TamaShah family because she can't stop him from doing something she has done herself.

You are kidding right? You don't see the difference between toshu and kinjal's behavior or vanraj's and rakhi's attitude towards their respective kids? Vanraj accepted kinjal and her family to make toshu happy. Rakhi does not give a damn what makes kinjal happy. Vanraj did not destroy kinjal's family, rakhi is destroying toshu's family. Toshu was asked to repay because he was being abnoxious to the family. Kinjal is only reacting because rakhi just won't stop hurting shahs.

Think again

Originally posted by: suresh555

Kinjal was just speaking to rakhi in rakhi's language. Rakhi only likes to show off her money and measures everything with money. I would have loved to see kinjal breaking off her relationship with her mom

Rakhi chahe lakh buri ho , kinjal toh anupama ki parchai hai na?!

Anupama ne Kavya ko itna sab kuch ho jane ke baad bhi kitna pyar se rakkha hai, anupama Kavya ke sath ek ghar mai khushi khushi rehne ki day dreaming karti hai movie song “Zindgi mere ghar aana” par ! Jab ki anupama and Kavya ka toh maa-beti jaise koi rishta bhi nahi hai.

Yaha kinjal ka toh rakhi ke sath maa-beti ka rishta hai fir bhi hamesha apna ek rishta taken for granted leti hai.

Jab anupama itni selfish sautan Kavya ko itna bepanaah pyar kar sakti hai , uske sath khushi khushi rehne Ka day dreaming kar sakti hai then why not kinjal to her mother?!

Originally posted by: Rein123

Why is it that the husband's parents are allowed to interfere with the couple's married life but not the wife's? Doesn't the wife's parents also have a right on the couple?

Because these people live in 1940s where a woman becomes a husband and his family's possession after marriage. Sad part is, even a well educated woman like Kinjal supports this rubbish.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Rakhi chahe lakh buri ho , kinjal toh anupama ki parchai hai na?!

Anupama ne Kavya ko itna sab kuch ho jane ke baad bhi kitna pyar se rakkha hai, anupama Kavya ke sath ek ghar mai khushi khushi rehne ki day dreaming karti hai movie song “Zindgi mere ghar aana” par ! Jab ki anupama and Kavya ka toh maa-beti jaise koi rishta bhi nahi hai.

Yaha kinjal ka toh rakhi ke sath maa-beti ka rishta hai fir bhi hamesha apna ek rishta taken for granted leti hai.

Jab anupama itni selfish sautan Kavya ko itna bepanaah pyar kar sakti hai , uske sath khushi khushi rehne Ka day dreaming kar sakti hai then why not kinjal to her mother?!

Toh kinjal anupama ki parchayee kaise huyi? Kinjal is not taking rakhi's nonsense while anu is taking kavya's lol

Originally posted by: suresh555

Toh kinjal anupama ki parchayee kaise huyi? Kinjal is not taking rakhi's nonsense while anu is taking kavya's lol

Nope parchai toh hai isiliye anupama ne beggar pose kiya and kinjal ne khud ko girvi rakhne ka socha lol

Originally posted by: suresh555

You are kidding right? You don't see the difference between toshu and kinjal's behavior or vanraj's and rakhi's attitude towards their respective kids? Vanraj accepted kinjal and her family to make toshu happy. Rakhi does not give a damn what makes kinjal happy. Vanraj did not destroy kinjal's family, rakhi is destroying toshu's family. Toshu was asked to repay because he was being abnoxious to the family. Kinjal is only reacting because rakhi just won't stop hurting shahs.

Think again

No I don't see a difference between Vanraj/Rakhi or Toshu/Kinjal.

Vanraj accepted toshu and Kinjal so paritosh doesn't end up having to leave the family not because of his happiness alone.

Rakhi doesn't give a damn about what makes Kinjal happy, you're right because her happiness is actually what's leading her towards becoming something she shouldn't be at all that is a Xerox copy of Anupama and the rest of the Shah's in short a dumb idiot and no mother would care about happiness if that is the case. You don't let your kids to jump in the well or from a tall building just because it makes them happy, no parent would be okay with that.

Rakhi is destroying Kinjal's family? How exactly? All she does is just show them the mirror I didn't know that was equal to destroying someone, that family is self destructive on their own, they don't need Rakhi to do anything special. Oh are you complaining because Rakhi keeps exposing them and that is your definition of destroying her family.

Vanraj did not destroy Kinjal's family? What exactly can he do even if he wanted to? Hardly there is anyone in that nuclear family now that kinjal has forsaken the Dave's as if they don't matter at all. That destruction is more than enough.

Originally posted by: janecastle

Because these people live in 1940s where a woman becomes a husband and his family's possession after marriage. Sad part is, even a well educated woman like Kinjal supports this rubbish.

Exactly! Sonakshi is a much better woman compared to this so called perfect beti who supports such regressive patriarchal beliefs.

Originally posted by: suresh555

Toh kinjal anupama ki parchayee kaise huyi? Kinjal is not taking rakhi's nonsense while anu is taking kavya's lol

Kinjal appears to be Anu's parchai because she is speaking the same language as Anupama, inspite of being educated. She was not like this earlier. She would question Anupama, "mummy aap aisa kyun kar rahi hai, baa bade hai toh kuch bhi keh sakti hai? aisa kyun..... " etc etc. She had even advised Anu, to cut her ties with Vanraj before the divorce.

But now, she is singing the same tune as her favorite mummy.

She is someone who is capable of saying - lets cut to the chase.... now what is done is done. Let's brainstorm how to repay the money to mom(Rakhi). Instead, what do we see? In a convo with Samar in today's epi, humein ghar ko sambhalana hai... etc, but no practical action made her sound like Anupama.