Baa can never change

Baa keeps pissing me off. Tbh she always exceeds my expectations that she can't be any more biased and blind in her son's love.

Her saying that Ba and Bapuji can't keep on hating and punishing Vanraj forever for his one "very small and innocent mistake" left my jaw hanging.🤢🤢

"Bahu ,beti ban sakti hai par beta nahi" what does this even means

Your son can do anything literally anything wrong but you can't snatch his right on his parents property...wow..this is insane...😡

Beta hai toh kya hua ,agar usne galti ki hai aur parents use property nahi dena chahte hai toh uska koi haq nahi hai ki voh jabardasti ghar mein rahe aur usse apni property kahe...just because vo uske parents ki property hai👏

I get it that he had built the house with his money but women ke unpaid work ki koi value nahi hai kya. Anupama ne jo itne saal ghar aur parivaar ki liye diye,kitna kuch kiya uski koi value nahi hai....

Anupama's work for the house also matters and should be valued...aur iss hisab se toh property mein half and equal part Anupama ka bhi hua..

Even the drama that Vanraj did and his so big of a speech looked nothing more than his true egotistical inner feelings. I strongly feel cvs tried to glorify Vanraj and make the audience forget all his wrong deeds,wrong behaviour and his selfish self. What he did and said was pure egotistical...

But Baa being "a mother" will always and forever support all the wrong deeds of her son.

I generally don't like to think and feel this angry but Baa just keeps making me angry each time and pissing me off with her Mamta...

I am so very sure now that even Vanraj and Kavya can change and become better but with Baa I have lost all hopes...

Originally posted by: Sparkling_starr

Baa keeps pissing me off. Tbh she always exceeds my expectations that she can't be any more biased and blind in her son's love.

Her saying that Ba and Bapuji can't keep on hating and punishing Vanraj forever for his one "very small and innocent mistake" left my jaw hanging.🤢🤢

"Bahu ,beti ban sakti hai par beta nahi" what does this even means

Your son can do anything literally anything wrong but you can't snatch his right on his parents property...wow..this is insane...😡

Beta hai toh kya hua ,agar usne galti ki hai aur parents use property nahi dena chahte hai toh uska koi haq nahi hai ki voh jabardasti ghar mein rahe aur usse apni property kahe...just because vo uske parents ki property hai👏

I get it that he had built the house with his money but women ke unpaid work ki koi value nahi hai kya. Anupama ne jo itne saal ghar aur parivaar ki liye diye,kitna kuch kiya uski koi value nahi hai....

Anupama's work for the house also matters and should be valued...aur iss hisab se toh property mein half and equal part Anupama ka bhi hua..

Even the drama that Vanraj did and his so big of a speech looked nothing more than his true egotistical inner feelings. I strongly feel cvs tried to glorify Vanraj and make the audience forget all his wrong deeds,wrong behaviour and his selfish self. What he did and said was pure egotistical...

But Baa being "a mother" will always and forever support all the wrong deeds of her son.

I generally don't like to think and feel this angry but Baa just keeps making me angry each time and pissing me off with her Mamta...

I am so very sure now that even Vanraj and Kavya can change and become better but with Baa I have lost all hopes...

For Ba, Anupama will always be her DIW, not Daughter or son. She deserves DIW like Kavya. let that maide ki katori teach her lesson of her lifetime. She cannot see what Anupama went thru in last 25 years. Again V inherted all these bad traits from Ba, and Toshu and Pakhi inherted from V. Cycle continues.

I want Anupama to move out of Shah family and start enjoying her life. Concentrate on your career, make a name for yourself, find new loving caring partner.

Yes Baa will never change... she is the one who made Vanraj what he is after all! Actually if she asks him once to take his maide ki katori and leave the house phir saara khel khatam hojayaga... as it is Baapuji threw him out once... if Baa also asks him not to live there the there is very little Vanraj could say...

But she will never ask for such a thing.

Baa, Kavya, Vanraj are the three characters in this show who will probably never change...

Vanraj is character we dislike but the truth that he has worked hard towards the house and members of family. Isn't it ? Toshu and Samar has got everything ready made unlike vanraj during his times. Nobody said Anupama doesn't deserve anything after all she has worked towards the house for so many years but I think Samar broke the boundaries with vanraj.

Vanraj accepted the hatred and thrown out of house because he is at fault but that also doesn't take away whatever he did isn't it ? I don't like vanraj but what he said does make sense isn't it ? I mean the contribution towards the house and his duties as son and looking after his kids be it education or basic food necessities.

Agree to what ur saying it's very confusing. Can't say that vanraj said is wrong.

Originally posted by: Shiner

Vanraj is character we dislike but the truth that he has worked hard towards the house and members of family. Isn't it ? Toshu and Samar has got everything ready made unlike vanraj during his times. Nobody said Anupama doesn't deserve anything after all she has worked towards the house for so many years but I think Samar broke the boundaries with vanraj.

Vanraj accepted the hatred and thrown out of house because he is at fault but that also doesn't take away whatever he did isn't it ? I don't like vanraj but what he said does make sense isn't it ? I mean the contribution towards the house and his duties as son and looking after his kids be it education or basic food necessities.

Agree to what ur saying it's very confusing. Can't say that vanraj said is wrong.

Being poor wasn't his choice, that was just the circumstance Vanraj was born into... it doesn't make him a better person than Samar...

And anyway all these things have nothing to do with the real issues in this situation (Vanraj's affair with Kavya and his decision to bring her in the house, and Vanraj's senseless and unreasonable demand from Samar to either leave Nandini or get out).

Originally posted by: Anjalika01

Being poor wasn't his choice, that was just the circumstance Vanraj was born into... it doesn't make him a better person than Samar...

And anyway all these things have nothing to do with the real issues in this situation (Vanraj's affair with Kavya and his decision to bring her in the house, and Vanraj's senseless and unreasonable demand from Samar to either leave Nandini or get out).

Yes but we are talking about contribution. The contribution and the responsibility towards family for years he has done. It cannot be denied. He has wronged Anupama and doesn't understand Samar but there is line propably Samar shouldnt have crossed .

Originally posted by: Shiner

Yes but we are talking about contribution. The contribution and the responsibility towards family for years he has done. It cannot be denied. He has wronged Anupama and doesn't understand Samar but there is line propably Samar shouldnt have crossed .

Yes, telling Vanraj he has no rights over the house was extreme, but let's not forget Samar didn't say that until Vanraj told HIM to get out just for loving Nandini...

I would never support a son who said such things to his father in most normal circumstances... but taking into consideration all that Vanraj did and is doing it was well deserved imo.

Bapuji needs to hire a fake girlfriend and move her into the house, only then baa will know how innocent the mistake can be

Originally posted by: suresh555

Bapuji needs to hire a fake girlfriend and move her into the house, only then baa will know how innocent the mistake can be

I would like to see that! Would be fun to watch Ba's reaction.🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂

Originally posted by: Shiner

Vanraj is character we dislike but the truth that he has worked hard towards the house and members of family. Isn't it ? Toshu and Samar has got everything ready made unlike vanraj during his times. Nobody said Anupama doesn't deserve anything after all she has worked towards the house for so many years but I think Samar broke the boundaries with vanraj.

Vanraj accepted the hatred and thrown out of house because he is at fault but that also doesn't take away whatever he did isn't it ? I don't like vanraj but what he said does make sense isn't it ? I mean the contribution towards the house and his duties as son and looking after his kids be it education or basic food necessities.

Agree to what ur saying it's very confusing. Can't say that vanraj said is wrong.

Nobody is disagreeing that Vanraj truely did a lot of hardwork for his family. But all his hardwork and care for family cannot justify what he did with Anupama,how he treated her for all those years...

Samar may have gone beyond the limit but only because of the circumstances. He has respected Vanraj even after knowing about Kavya and Vanraj's affair. Vanraj himself loves Kavya then how could he question Samar and tell him to leave the house for loving Nandini??

If its about hardwork and care for the family then Samar also has taken care of the family and did hardwork for them not only Vanraj. It may be less or small infront of Vanraj's contribution but let us face it Samar has been the one who did more work and care of the family than Pakhi and Toshu...

I understand and everyone in the family has always respected Vanraj for his love for his family including Anupama and Samar. But at least I felt his speech was pure egotistical.

But what I overall meant was even after or before the speech Baa will never accept her son's mistake. I don't agree with what Baa said. He can't have right on the property just because he is son of the family.