Anupamaa Written Update 15 Mar 2021

Once again thanks for ur update sutapa hmmm

Ok May be vanraj did a lot to the family May be he will be a role model but he bought kavya home and his cheating thing is not at all acceptable what is he trying to prove apni sacrifices Sab ke saamne lanese uski galti kam nahin hogi

One common sense thing he became a best beta best papa but failed as a husband why don’t he remember that even u have bowl ful of wine but single drop of poison will make it poisonous simple theory any way he asked anupama to leave but I dint sense that selfishness in his tone may be he will deffinetly miss her.

Thanks for the update.

Completed watching the epi. I have few things to say amd few questions.

What all Vanraj said about his sacrifices and hardwork is true and is true for any father from a middleclass family. But still it didn't make me sympathise with him, for many reasons.

He said he just did 2 mistakes in life, well according to me he did a crap lot of mistake.

1) When was this anger when Toshu and Pakhi used to humiliate, disrespect degrade Anupamaa?

2) He narrated one incident that ki jab dolly ko kisine taana maara tha, toh he beat the hell out of that guy and refused to apologise for it. Where was this person when everyday Anupamaa ko taana maara jaata tha, wasn't she someone's sister?

3) He said he belonged to poor family and was made to realise the importance of money at the early age and at the age 14 he started earning and how difficult times their family had seen. Where was this experience and empathy when Baa always taunted and humiliated Anu and his family for being poor?

4) Today he acknowledged that Anupamaa did a lot for his family, bcoz today his contribution was questioned.

5) He is saying he did just 2 mistake 1 of falling for kavya and second hiding it from Anupamaa, what mistake has Samar actually done to get so much of scolding, he is literally made feel bad for just falling for Nandini, which is not even a mistake bcoz he is not cheating on anyone.

6) He said he knew value of money and how he always respected his parents, why did he not teach these values to Toshu and Pakhi? Samar has always respected everyone and also had value for money, one truth Samar said and he lashes out at him.

7) The issue Samar had was Nandini being not accepted, whereas his father's gf being accepted, and what did Vanraj made it into, that he does not value his hardwork and what all he did for his family. Did he forget Anupamaa has always given him due credit for all that he did for his family?

8) He said no one cares about his self respect, has he ever cared of Anupamaa's self respect? He never missed a chance to attack her self respect.

9) He wants to know the time limit of punishment he will get for his mistake, what time limit had he set when was cheating on Anupamaa?

10) Samar ne usse bola ki ghar uska nahi hai uska jawab de diya, Samar ne ye pucha ki Nandini kyun accepted nahi hai uska jawab kyun nahi diya?

11) He is saying sab ghar pe usse nafrat karte hai, does he even know what nafrat is, taking his care when he met with accident is nafrat, celebrating his bday like a festival is nafrat?

12) He said when his job went none of his son consoled him that its ok, and what about him and he wanted them to be there for him, leaving his son's wedding for hia gf, didn't his son wanted him to be by his side during his wedding? He forgot how Anupamaa gave him himmat that he is capable and will get the job whereas Kavya taunted him when he started being at home all day and made him realise how he was useless as he was jobless.

13) He said his sons think he is a loser, wel forst of all no one ever said this even samar didn't say it. But when was he when he, toshu and pakhi used to call Samar and Anu as loser?

14) He said hee felt bad jab uske pasina se bana ghar Anupamaa ko de diya gaya. Well did he realise, jis rishtey ko Anupamaa ne sab kuch diya, uske family ke loye sab kuch kiya, uss rishtey ka haq usne kisi aur ko de diya toh Anupamaa ko kaisa laga hoga?

If a person who would have atleast treated his wife with respect and not literally tortured her, I would may be hav felt sympathy for his outburst like Vanraj's, but can never empathize with hi egoistic and MCP kinda guy.

In the precap, Anupamaa said that give back the house to Vanraj, well this hurted his ego yet again.

Anupamaa had always said he was a bad husband but a good father, good son and good brother. I don't agree, he is not even a good father and also not a good son. He couldn't even handle pakhi for a month and yes I agree he always respected his parents, but he cared about their izzat them when he went and had an affair?

Sudhanshu was fabulous in this epi, but he still could not make me empathize with Vanraj, he is getting what all he deserved and poor Samar who has been the most well behaved kid of all 3 is getting a bashing and made to feel guilty for what he did which is not even a mistake.

Can Anupamaa please leave this house, and can Kinjal also leave it. Anupamaa it took you 25 years to realise your self worth and to start standing up for yourself and your self respect. Kindly don't go back to being your earlier version, you want to empathize with Vanraj do it but not at the cost of your self respect.

Sorry for the long post

Thanks for the update sutapasima 😊

We all can understand his emotional outburst stating that he has done so much for the family and his children and all. This justifies him being a good father alright.

But i have one question does this justify his affair and his action of ill treating his wife and treating her like a trash without giving her respect, humiliating her at every opportunity, demotivating her , mentally abusing her .etc for the past 25 years ??? 😤😤

Just for one day (ie in today's episode) he comes and says " i know anupamaa has run this household and has taken care of all my family members." Does this compensate his ill treatment of her for the past 25 years ?

He says ' my love for kavya just happened. I should have told anupamaa bcoz she deserved the truth' . Oh please vanraj if u had really thought and valued anupamaa atleast for the level that u think she deserved to know the truth abt ur affair, u would have not used her as a slave for all these years, u would have not wanted her as ur wife(ie as ur glorified maid ) to run your house after falling in love with kavya , u would have been honest abt this affair to anupamaa and would have given her the respect by openly speaking to her and asking her to leave ur life atleast in this case but no u sailed in two boats to satisfy your own needs and to have a maid 24/7.'

Just because vanraj says for one day that he has done this that and ppl are disrespecting him for his single mistake, does not make him a mahaan overnight. Because we all very well know how he treated anupamaa like a doormat and trash right from the beginning.😤😤

Well he said in today's episode emotionally that no one gave him emotional support while he lost his job, his children did not come forward and say that u r capable dad to get another job.

Wait a min. Anu has been saying this right from the time he lost his job. Does he turn deaf while anupamaa supports him ?

Whenever rakhi taunted him of losing the job, it was anu who said ' he is capable and talented and deserving and he will surely get another job' . Till today she was the one who gave him emotional support while almost every member did not even care for him.

And how come he turns blind and deaf while anupamaa speaks good for him ?

Even to samar she was the first one to say that vanraj has most rights over this shah house before vanraj himself declared that today. But no vanraj could not see her good nature,and with the precap we can say, all he can see is she is trying to become a mahaan by wanting to give him the house and humiliate him.

What an egoistic idiot he is . He is asking anu to get out of the house. Well good for anu. Let her leave this toxic family so that she can breathe freely.

Now that he has put up an emotional outburst scene now baa will not even consider anupamaa or the things she sacrificed for this family's growth and toshu will become an even more bad toshu. I have no idea abt how pakhi is going to react.

By the way what was kavya doing clinging to anu while anu was getting ousted from the house ? Has kavya witch already taken over the house as bahu ? 🙄🙄😠

I just hope no one stops anu from going out of the house. Let them suffer in her absence and under the witch kavya and monster vanraj. Then they will know anupamaa's worth.😤😥😢

Originally posted by: favjassi

Once again thanks for ur update sutapa hmmm

Ok May be vanraj did a lot to the family May be he will be a role model but he bought kavya home and his cheating thing is not at all acceptable what is he trying to prove apni sacrifices Sab ke saamne lanese uski galti kam nahin hogi

One common sense thing he became a best beta best papa but failed as a husband why don’t he remember that even u have bowl ful of wine but single drop of poison will make it poisonous simple theory any way he asked anupama to leave but I dint sense that selfishness in his tone may be he will deffinetly miss her.

Just because he did tremendous sacrifices he expects his family to accept his cheating and EMA ..😡😡😲

This is illegal and unacceptable .

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Originally posted by: Sutapasima

Just because he did tremendous sacrifices he expects his family to accept his cheating and EMA ..😡😡😲

This is illegal and unacceptable .

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Thank god for first time he dint blame anupama for his situation that she filled samars brains with all these crap anyways now tamasha will start as annu left the house now vanya will eat grass in that so called mehnat se khada kiya ghar kavya tho vahi khilayegi

Oh Goid!!!

This manchild called Vanraj is such an insufferable prick.,.

After bringing so much shame to the family, he still goes around harping what he has done for the family!!

Mein ne yeh kiya woh iya,,,blah, blah blah!!!

I'm happy anupama left. Now Vanya can live like husband and wife. Baa can keep on singing paens of her son, Pakhi can live with her papa and her bestie in her home and Toshu can eep on idolising his father,

I hope Samar leaves with Nandini and Kinjal kicks Paritosh's sorry a** and leaves for Dave House.

Originally posted by: bashful_moon

Oh Goid!!!

This manchild called Vanraj is such an insufferable prick.,.

After bringing so much shame to the family, he still goes around harping what he has done for the family!!

Mein ne yeh kiya woh iya,,,blah, blah blah!!!

I'm happy anupama left. Now Vanya can live like husband and wife. Baa can keep on singing paens of her son, Pakhi can live with her papa and her bestie in her home and Toshu can eep on idolising his father,

I hope Samar leaves with Nandini and Kinjal kicks Paritosh's sorry a** and leaves for Dave House.

Yaar your comment gave me the best entertainment since wa Ching the episode

Thanks dear

laugh

tfu

kinda show name should be vanraj instead of anupama

Originally posted by: neo7

Thanks for the update.

Completed watching the epi. I have few things to say amd few questions.

What all Vanraj said about his sacrifices and hardwork is true and is true for any father from a middleclass family. But still it didn't make me sympathise with him, for many reasons.

He said he just did 2 mistakes in life, well according to me he did a crap lot of mistake.

1) When was this anger when Toshu and Pakhi used to humiliate, disrespect degrade Anupamaa?

2) He narrated one incident that ki jab dolly ko kisine taana maara tha, toh he beat the hell out of that guy and refused to apologise for it. Where was this person when everyday Anupamaa ko taana maara jaata tha, wasn't she someone's sister?

3) He said he belonged to poor family and was made to realise the importance of money at the early age and at the age 14 he started earning and how difficult times their family had seen. Where was this experience and empathy when Baa always taunted and humiliated Anu and his family for being poor?

4) Today he acknowledged that Anupamaa did a lot for his family, bcoz today his contribution was questioned.

5) He is saying he did just 2 mistake 1 of falling for kavya and second hiding it from Anupamaa, what mistake has Samar actually done to get so much of scolding, he is literally made feel bad for just falling for Nandini, which is not even a mistake bcoz he is not cheating on anyone.

6) He said he knew value of money and how he always respected his parents, why did he not teach these values to Toshu and Pakhi? Samar has always respected everyone and also had value for money, one truth Samar said and he lashes out at him.

7) The issue Samar had was Nandini being not accepted, whereas his father's gf being accepted, and what did Vanraj made it into, that he does not value his hardwork and what all he did for his family. Did he forget Anupamaa has always given him due credit for all that he did for his family?

8) He said no one cares about his self respect, has he ever cared of Anupamaa's self respect? He never missed a chance to attack her self respect.

9) He wants to know the time limit of punishment he will get for his mistake, what time limit had he set when was cheating on Anupamaa?

10) Samar ne usse bola ki ghar uska nahi hai uska jawab de diya, Samar ne ye pucha ki Nandini kyun accepted nahi hai uska jawab kyun nahi diya?

11) He is saying sab ghar pe usse nafrat karte hai, does he even know what nafrat is, taking his care when he met with accident is nafrat, celebrating his bday like a festival is nafrat?

12) He said when his job went none of his son consoled him that its ok, and what about him and he wanted them to be there for him, leaving his son's wedding for hia gf, didn't his son wanted him to be by his side during his wedding? He forgot how Anupamaa gave him himmat that he is capable and will get the job whereas Kavya taunted him when he started being at home all day and made him realise how he was useless as he was jobless.

13) He said his sons think he is a loser, wel forst of all no one ever said this even samar didn't say it. But when was he when he, toshu and pakhi used to call Samar and Anu as loser?

14) He said hee felt bad jab uske pasina se bana ghar Anupamaa ko de diya gaya. Well did he realise, jis rishtey ko Anupamaa ne sab kuch diya, uske family ke loye sab kuch kiya, uss rishtey ka haq usne kisi aur ko de diya toh Anupamaa ko kaisa laga hoga?

If a person who would have atleast treated his wife with respect and not literally tortured her, I would may be hav felt sympathy for his outburst like Vanraj's, but can never empathize with hi egoistic and MCP kinda guy.

In the precap, Anupamaa said that give back the house to Vanraj, well this hurted his ego yet again.

Anupamaa had always said he was a bad husband but a good father, good son and good brother. I don't agree, he is not even a good father and also not a good son. He couldn't even handle pakhi for a month and yes I agree he always respected his parents, but he cared about their izzat them when he went and had an affair?

Sudhanshu was fabulous in this epi, but he still could not make me empathize with Vanraj, he is getting what all he deserved and poor Samar who has been the most well behaved kid of all 3 is getting a bashing and made to feel guilty for what he did which is not even a mistake.

Can Anupamaa please leave this house, and can Kinjal also leave it. Anupamaa it took you 25 years to realise your self worth and to start standing up for yourself and your self respect. Kindly don't go back to being your earlier version, you want to empathize with Vanraj do it but not at the cost of your self respect.

Sorry for the long post

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It wasn't long enough.....every word was true. Couldn't agree more.