Tiring journey ahead

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Todays episode was of MUKTI. It was giving freedom in the bonds. How can you be free if you still expect, love, care or you are angry from the person?


Anupama said "Make me free, and I will apologise you" The lady who beared everything for 25 years. His anger. his frustration, his tears, his happiness, needs to be free. To be free is the best feeling ever. What she lost for 25 years, HER IDENTITY. Now she is free to have it back. just like a bird. Anupama is tired as the 25 years, set her impression, she will get more tired as in the age of 40's she has to pass this journey alone. The question when will she find peace? Where she is free from all the bonds. She values her family a lot. but she has to fight for his children


What Vanraj said was true, "25 years of memories" how can it fade away so away. in the end he realised, He said her "I am Sorry" I value that. That came from heart though after losing Anupama. In a way he is also tired, For 25 years he used his intellect to manage Kavya and family. Getting sometimes stressful. Everything he did is much wrong. But he used his mind very much. The difference is his journey was easy earlier but it will get tiresome from now on.


THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A FAMILY AND A NON FAMILY MEMBER


When Anupama was sad, whole family was sad. Kinjal, Dolly, Bapuji, Mamaji though supported the divorce, but they were sad in Anupama's sadness. They know her mind, they were not dancing like Kavya. They knew Anupama's condition.


When Vanraj was sad, Kavya, who supported the divorce. Danced with joy. She didn't even felt that Vanraj is upset. Instead she was celebrating. When you seperate from someone after 25 years, you get upset.


FOR VANRAJ THE JOURNEY IS MORE TIRESOME WITH KAVYA (he is responsible for it) BUT FOR ANUPAMA IT WILL BE TIRING IN TERMS OF LONELINESS

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Yes kavya only thing abt her happiness and same apply to vanraj too

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Originally posted by: yuvanaa

Beautifully written.


Thank you so much 😳

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Susan.Dsouza

Yes kavya only thing abt her happiness and same apply to vanraj too


They will not change, but they claim to love each other. What type of love if you cant understand the sadness of your partner

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: musicalstorm


They will not change, but they claim to love each other. What type of love if you cant understand the sadness of your partner


its only attraction trust me

jab vanraj sad hota tha anupama ko ek dam pata chal jate thee vee sad han even vee ko pata chal jata thaa anupama ke saath kuch sai nahi

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Posted: 4 years ago
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is she really liberated? this word is easy to say but will she be free from the feelings she felt with Vanraj

Love, hate, worry, every feeling that he feels, whether it is the birth of her children or the betrayal of husband will be with her throughout life, whether she wants or not

Through this divorce, she will become stronger and create a new identity of her own.


"Lamhe hai shikwe hai

Kisse hai

Baatein hai

Baatein bhool jate hai

Yaadein yaad aate hai"


She has memories in the form of a wife, a mother and a daughter-in-law

Now the memories she has to make will also be her own

she will be alone but it will be far better than a betrayal.

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Originally posted by: musicalstorm


They will not change, but they claim to love each other. What type of love if you cant understand the sadness of your partner


They deserve each other


As for Kavya... she has gotten selfish in the sense, that there is some fear that maybe Vanraj will leave her... and her frustration boils, she accepts pretty much all but Vanraj still is family family which he should be but where was it when the affair was happening.... lying and cheater... Oh yeah Anupamaa was holding the fort so there was no need to feel anything else..

Vanraj also has told her he never loved Anupamaa, all intimate relation was stopped after Pakhi was born... and the way Vanraj talks about oh how i will destroy Anupamaa, call her mentally unstable... Kavya hears this... so i assume she is happy he is free and he should be too... with his attitude...


He is feeling sad, that he has lost the one last hold he had over Anupamaa and family in a sense.... sure he loved being a family man (man of the house etc), come home, food on table, everything on hand... he is missing that.... thats the memories he has lol

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fearless_Lover

is she really liberated? this word is easy to say but will she be free from the feelings she felt with Vanraj

Love, hate, worry, every feeling that he feels, whether it is the birth of her children or the betrayal of husband will be with her throughout life, whether she wants or not

Through this divorce, she will become stronger and create a new identity of her own.


"Lamhe hai shikwe hai

Kisse hai

Baatein hai

Baatein bhool jate hai

Yaadein yaad aate hai"


She has memories in the form of a wife, a mother and a daughter-in-law

Now the memories she has to make will also be her own

she will be alone but it will be far better than a betrayal.


She is not liberated emotionally, but legally she is liberated. 25 years doesnt fade away in a moment, but she is trying. She didn't wish him a birthday personally.


Alone will be far better than a betrayal, but getting alone at 43 years is tiresome

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Originally posted by: Susan.Dsouza


its only attraction trust me

jab vanraj sad hota tha anupama ko ek dam pata chal jate thee vee sad han even vee ko pata chal jata thaa anupama ke saath kuch sai nahi


What Anupama said, "Jo bandhe woh Moh, jo khole woh Pyaar"


Kavya is tying Vanraj. Vanraj is not different

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lennie


They deserve each other


As for Kavya... she has gotten selfish in the sense, that there is some fear that maybe Vanraj will leave her... and her frustration boils, she accepts pretty much all but Vanraj still is family family which he should be but where was it when the affair was happening.... lying and cheater... Oh yeah Anupamaa was holding the fort so there was no need to feel anything else..

Vanraj also has told her he never loved Anupamaa, all intimate relation was stopped after Pakhi was born... and the way Vanraj talks about oh how i will destroy Anupamaa, call her mentally unstable... Kavya hears this... so i assume she is happy he is free and he should be too... with his attitude...


He is feeling sad, that he has lost the one last hold he had over Anupamaa and family in a sense.... sure he loved being a family man (man of the house etc), come home, food on table, everything on hand... he is missing that.... thats the memories he has lol


In my earlier post, I have mentioned everyone got what they deserved. Kavya is not Anupama, she knows about self. Vanraj expects her to be selfless, man you were selfish, So your dish is full of selfishness only

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