competition

One of ma good friend...ahs this complex....she cannot take it when im complimented or anything.

in fact she is competing with me for EVEYTHING.

anything i do...i got a new haircut..n evryoen in my class said it suited me

n she goes all like...''OMG.....u luk hideous''...

i dunno...she was very ncie to me.

suddenly she just cant bear it..if her best friends talk to me....

I think ur friend is insecure or jealous.

As being a true friend she shouldn't have but u should talk to her as to y the sudden change.

I think she is jealous that u might be more popular that her or she is jealous that she wanted to be the one who get compliment.

I dunno why she shud be..we were quite good friends....
i told ehr everything..so did she..
i dunno what happened suddenly.
n it isnt like she isnt smart or nythin..she is!
its just weird!
first ti was about us, movies, books..
now its about HER: her new clothes,
the guys who r gaga over her,
her parties...everything..i s just abotu her!
n if it is abotu me....nt always nice!

she's jealous.. but she shouldn't be so immature. tell her how you feel and maybe she'll do the same.

sometimes differences are bound to come up, when some people realise that ur all competing for the same thing...to attract guys (well it feels like that during puberty i guess)...and then we start to judge and just be rude to our friends who we perceive as competition.

ur friend is threatened by you, and the only way she can make herself feel better is by puttin u down. coz by putting u down, she's making herself feel superior. it hurts? of course it does, but you can't do much about it, except ignore it and feel sorry for her, that she is so insecure that she has to bag out one of her friends.
if u confront her, she's just gonna get on the defensive and it won't solve anything.

but if it's something specific that she always says, like "ur such a goody-goody" then ask her, "why is there something wrong with being a 'goody-goody'?" so if u do want to confront her, do it about a specific thing she just said to u, and not a general, "why do u always put me down"

but yeh, dont just concentrate on one friend...u have so many other people to be with, esp. those who are not jealous about ur beauty or success.

wow she's crazy. She said that to you because she's jealous of you.

I think its normal sometimes for ur peers/friends to do this...

Well, I guess she feels insecure. Has it ever happened that you too are talking and someone else come in and talks to you and she is just standing there like a wall? I guess she wants to fit in by unfitting you. You are more likely to be jelous of ur friends than any other classmate. As you have a closer view to there success. I think the smartest thing to do would be talk to her about it. Dont beat around the bush percisly ask her "Do you have a problem with me?" Let her share it with you, and it will be over with. If she still has problems she probably wasnt that close to you to begin with.